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BigYellowWoman

49 Ojai, CA Woman

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I’m looking for

  • Everyone
  • Ages 35–55
  • Near me
  • For new friends, long-term dating, short-term dating

My details

Last online
May 18
Orientation
Bisexual
Ethnicity
White
Height
5′ 9″ (1.75m)
Body type
Curvy
Diet
Mostly vegan
Smokes
No
Drinks
Socially
Drugs
Never
Religion
Other, and laughing about it
Sign
Libra, but it doesn’t matter
Education
Graduated from Ph.D program
Job
Other
Income
Status
Seeing Someone
Type
Mostly monogamous
Offspring
Doesn’t have kids, and doesn’t want any
Pets
Dislikes dogs and likes cats
Speaks
English (Fluently), Spanish (Okay)
My self-summary
Write a little about yourself. Just a paragraph will do.
I am outgoing and energetic, curious about life and people. I value intelligence, grounded-ness, connection, creativity, courage and enthusiasm. I seek companions on the journey who would not miss the chance to explore and share their inner territory. I have a strong ability to stay present with all life has to offer. I have an enviable life, filled with kind and giving people, artistry, intelligence, physical vitality, spiritual depth, and a rich relationship with the natural world. I love good food and silliness. While I have spent many years focused on the life of the mind, and almost always love intellectual inquiry, my current edge is to explore ways of knowing through the body, specifically through the practices of Authentic Movement, Orgasmic Meditation, and yoga. I am drawn to others who are really smart, warm to the world, and who insist on caring for themselves well in all areas.
What I’m doing with my life
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I work with teens in a residential recovery program. I am making art, riding my bike, walking the earth, and cherishing connection with friends while exploring the depth and breadth of intimacy.
I’m really good at
Go on, brag a little (or a lot). We won’t judge.
Living simply. Scavenging. Creating outrageously beautiful things. Nourishing myself physically and spiritually. Listening and expressing myself. Being generous, kind and light . Sleeping.
The first things people usually notice about me
I’m an empty essay… fill me out!
My height and my green eyes.
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
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I love a lot of music! Lately I've been listening to Mike Doughty and Beck. Some of my other favorites are Citizen Cope, Beck, Dave Matthews, Michael Franti. Rickie Lee Jones, Sinead O'connor, Ani DiFranco, Aretha Franklin, Jamie Sieber, Ray Lamontayne, Van Morrison, and Bill Withers, to name a few. I also love a lot of international music, especially African and Latin - mostly with acoustic instruments rather than electronica. Club music, heavy metal, and much of pop music don't really speak to me. I get a big kick out of Postmodern Jukebox covers.

I am a fairly ravenous film watcher when I can find the time, but don't watch tv. I love foreign and independent films as well as some mainstream movies in most genres, with the exception of horror and violent action. Some recent ones that have stood out to me are: Incendies, Moonrise Kingdom, Cyrus, The Avengers, Crazy Stupid Love, Jane Eyre. Some favorites are: Memento, Lord of the Rings, Moonstruck, Fight Club, Michael Clayton, Serenity.

I am a huge book lover and am always dipping into something. I love natural history and fiction after too many years knocking my head against heavy duty philosophy and the like. Lately I have been reading David Deide and David Richo on relationships and thinking a lot about masculine and feminine attraction/polarity. While I don't often read CG Jung any more, his ideas via depth psychology are very key to my way of understanding myself and others.
The six things I could never do without
Think outside the box. Sometimes the little things can say a lot.
open-ended time
Time outside in nature
friends
touch, creativity and play
Good sleep
my journal
really good food every day
I spend a lot of time thinking about
Global warming, lunch, or your next vacation… it’s all fair game.
What makes people tick and why we do what we do. How I can listen better and be more compassionate so that I can understand that.
On a typical Friday night I am
Netflix and takeout, or getting your party on — how do you let loose?
At work. But on Tuesday night I'm kicking back!
The most private thing I’m willing to admit
I’m an empty essay… fill me out!
I do not believe in pajamas.
You should message me if
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You are curious, laugh easily, and are passionately alive. You love your life and yourself; you are willing to show up to engage in the mysterious, arduous, tantalizing process of discovery that intimacy is.