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Big_Bad_Ben

22 / M / straight / Single

Bakersfield, California

The Skinny

Last Online
Join Date
Ethnicity
White
Height
6' 2" (1.87m).
Body Type
A little extra
Looking For
New friends, Long-term dating, Short-term dating
Smokes
Sometimes
Drinks
Sometimes
Drugs
Never
Religion
Other and laughing about it
Sign
Gemini but it doesn’t matter
Education
Graduated from high school
Job
Construction / Craftsmanship
Income
$50,000–$60,000
Kids
Likes children
Pets
Owns dogs and Owns cats
Languages
English (Fluently), Spanish (Poorly)

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Your Notes

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I am Crazy, Different, and Romantic.

My Self-Summary

First off there's so much a paragraph cant describe but The highlights are I'm 20 work full time and enjoy my job. I'm a bigger guy 6' 2" and around 260 I've been told I'm very affectionate and romantic. I enjoy spending time with those I care about. I really enjoy going to the beach and participating in outdoor activities, like Camping hiking and my favorite, target shooting with my friends.

I spend a great deal of time riding my motorcycle and doing prospect stuff with the club I ride with. My motorcycle is my favorite form of entertainment

I really like children and would love to have few of my own someday. I'm very friendly and outgoing so don't be afraid to talk to me, I don't bite [at least not in public :-P].

What I’m doing with my life

I work full time in the oil industry 12+hrs a day. Im currently saving up to buy a house within the next year or two. Prospecting with the EB Ryders and figuring out how im going to go back to school.

I’m really good at

Fixing minor problems with computers. I can Rebuild a Blowout preventer blindfolded and have decent mechanic skills. I do all my own work on my motorcycle and cars.

The first things people usually notice about me

My awe inspiring size and my motorcycle.

My favorite books, movies, music, and food

Anything by Larry Niven and William H Keith Jr.

The six things I could never do without

My family, my Motorcycle , My job , My shower[I always smell pretty after a good day at work]. My curiosity, and My computer.

I spend a lot of time thinking about

What I'm going to do next in my life.

On a typical Friday night I am

Riding my motorcycle around town and hanging out with my friends.

The most private thing I’m willing to admit here

I have my tongue and lip pierced and have tattoos on my arm leg and the back of my neck

You should message me if

If I'm someone who catches your attention.