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Bigbangbeat

28 New York, NY Man

Man

I’m looking for

  • Men
  • Ages 24–40
  • Near me
  • Who are single
  • For new friends, long-term dating, short-term dating

My Details

Last Online
Today – 12:23pm
Orientation
Gay
Ethnicity
White
Height
5′ 11″ (1.80m)
Body Type
Athletic
Diet
Mostly anything
Smokes
No
Drinks
Socially
Drugs
Never
Religion
Agnosticism
Sign
Gemini, but it doesn’t matter
Education
Graduated from university
Job
Entertainment / Media
Income
Rather not say
Relationship Status
Single
Relationship Type
Monogamous
Offspring
Doesn’t have kids, but might want them
Pets
Likes dogs
Speaks
English

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My self-summary
Write a little about yourself. Just a paragraph will do.
Howdy Pardners

I understand that my picture is terrible. I don't spike my hair like an 8th grader at a 2001 prom. But. This is the best my cheeks/beard have ever looked. So if you like the pic, prepare to be disappointed.

If you hate it, well, then, FUCK YOU! :)

I'm leaving the above remark in even though I've received some angry emails from guys who don't seem to know that I'm joking. So, if you think I'm serious about the above "fuck you", well, then, fuck you! Clearly I'm curious how much swearing OKCupid tolerates.

With that out of the way, please feel free to "send me a lovely message" if you're so inclined.

I'm 28. I'm interested in smart, funny, handsome guys. I'm single, and looking for single- the goal is to be not single with someone else.

A great sense of humor is the most important trait in a match for me. I'm attracted to a lot of different types of guys- just be fit, friendly and sane.

One easy way to know if you should avoid me....

If you aren't pro-choice
If you believe creationism should be taught in schools
and most of all
If you're a Log Cabin Republican.

But!

I am your guy if you like reasonably well-adjusted, hygienic, romantic guys who wake up in a good mood.

Not surprisingly, I also like well-adjusted, hygienic, romantic guys. Also have a soft spot for dog-lovers. And good cooks.
What I’m doing with my life
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I'm in marketing for a film company. I live in NYC for the most part, but am on the west coast every 2 or 3 weeks, so I'm bi-coastal and west coast dateable. (Note to OKCupid... that's bi-COASTAL, not BI.) I'm open to dudes from SF or LA... just form an orderly line. What? There is no line? Damn.

I volunteer for GLBT agencies and I'm very good about feeling guilty about other causes I don't have the time/resources to support.
I’m really good at
Go on, brag a little (or a lot). We won’t judge.
Going out to dinner, giving unsolicited-but-excellent advice, watching movies, running, planning vacations.

I like playing tennis, swimming, and snowboarding too. I'm not very good at smiling through the pain.

And I'm excellent at sex. Really. No, really.
The first things people usually notice about me
I’m an empty essay… fill me out!
I'm friendly.

You probably noticed me because I said hello to you. Unless you're scowling, in which case you didn't notice me.

I also smell good. Without cologne. Just nice me smell :)
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
Help your potential matches find common interests.
Favorite books: To Kill a Mockingbird... first book I really loved when I read it in 7th grade :). The Swimming Pool Library, You Are Not Alone Here, Lolita, A Confederacy of Dunces. All the Joe Keenan books, all the Dragon Tattoo books. Guilty pleasure is true crime.

Favorite movie: Aliens, The Crying Game, The Lord of the Rings trilogy, Brokeback Mountain, Rear Window. My Beautiful Launderette changed my life when I rented it in high school. And I'll date anyone who loves Waiting for Guffman. Likewise This is Spinal Tap. Gone Girl was MUCH better than I expected. All hail David Fincher.

TV: Arrested Development, Modern Family, Curb your Enthusiasm, 30 Rock, Homeland, True Blood, Downton Abbey. And The Comeback, which I obsessively re-watch 2-3 times per episode.

Food: Mexican. I love it. Pizza. I love all food. Feed me.
The six things I could never do without
Think outside the box. Sometimes the little things can say a lot.
- My family and friends

- My dog (who lives with my brother... so don't worry dog allergists. At least not for now)

- My MacBook

- My Kindle (you'll thank me when I don't have a reading light on at 4:00 in the morning)

- Diet Coke

- Other dudes
I spend a lot of time thinking about
Global warming, lunch, or your next vacation… it’s all fair game.
Deep thoughts and wieners.

Also- why so many dudes on here list a shitty book like "The Fountainhead" as one of their favorites.
On a typical Friday night I am
Netflix and takeout, or getting your party on — how do you let loose?
Out to dinner, then some drinks, then in bed so i can haul my ass out of bed in the morning for a nice long run. I'm the designated driver-type in nearly all scenarios, even those in NYC where we're all car-less.

I really like the idea of having Chinese food delivered, watching a movie, and rolling around in bed until it gets really late.
The most private thing I’m willing to admit
I’m an empty essay… fill me out!
The music from Downton Abbey makes me wish I was watching it with a boyfriend. Also, my homepage is the NYTimes but I look at Dlisted, Towleroad and Variety much more regularly. Shame on me :)
You should message me if
Offer a few tips to help matches win you over.
You're male, single, friendly, handsome, and sane. Sense of humor is essential. Also, lack of drama is key :)