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36 San Jose, CA Man


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I’m looking for

  • Women
  • Ages 28–39
  • Near me
  • For new friends, casual sex

My details

Last online
Yesterday – 12:33pm
6′ 5″ (1.95m)
Body Type
Strictly anything
Atheism, and laughing about it
Libra, but it doesn’t matter
Graduated from masters program
Rather not say
Rather not say
Mostly monogamous
Has kids, but doesn’t want more
English (Fluently), Spanish (Poorly)
My self-summary
Write a little about yourself. Just a paragraph will do.
I am a native Northern Californian, I'm a good lover, a good kisser, honest & reasonably housebroken. I am smart, both street and book and pretty well traveled (but its been a while and I am due for another big trip).
Oh ... and I like FUN.
What I’m doing with my life
Don’t overthink this one; tell us what you’re doing day-to-day.
1.Being a good dad to my two young girls.
2.Trying to get fit enough to attract the pants off a hottie.
3.Trying to figure out how single parents like me date or for that matter anybody over 29 dates.
If my next traditional-ish relationship is a house, sex is the foundation. (I am kind of thinking I'll have a string of fulfilling FWBs). So If our match% is above 80% and you don't come across as very intrested in sex ...unless I am unavoidably lovestruck I am not going to risk contacting you which would likely lead to me persueing a relationship with you, getting to know you and falling for you.
I’m really good at
Go on, brag a little (or a lot). We won’t judge.
Moving heavy things.
Tying down stuff (like to the roof of a car or onto a overloaded pickup truck... I like taking risks with it to challenge myself; its like doing puzzles...I have never lost anything).
Assembling furniture
Science: As a matter of fact-- I am a certified Master of Science.
Mono-tasking (I suck at multitasking).
Oral Sex.
The first things people usually notice about me
I’m an empty essay… fill me out!
You tell me!
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
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Books: I read when I want to learn something... I don't read fiction books for entertainment.
Movies: Yes too many to list... a recent redbox pick I liked is "2 Guns". A recent netflix: Stand Up Guys
Shows: (TV or Live Performance?). Drugs and crime:SOA, Breaking Bad, The Wire(I loved season 1), |Political:Breaking The Set, Alpha House, House of Cards | Archer, The Americans, Vikings
Music: mostly stuff with a good beat...but really I enjoy everything except country (ocationally there is a country song I can tolerate)
Food: Rare steak, raw fish with soy sauce and wasabi, practically anything with cheese, well paired flavors, I like exploring foods from around the world. In a past (fatter) life I loved buffets. "Deal breaker" foods: watermelon, cucumber, I am annoyed by (I think commonplace) excessive overpowering use of cilantro.
The six things I could never do without
Think outside the box. Sometimes the little things can say a lot.
The Internet (and to be honest a tablet)
Water: plain and caffeinated
Females: for at least eye candy (including your erogenous curves/zones)
Periodic release of Dopamine, endorphins and other similar brain chemicals
I spend a lot of time thinking about
Global warming, lunch, or your next vacation… it’s all fair game.
The BIG PICTURE, Justice, and how I can contribute my skills to benefit the world --for the rest of my life... and of course what attractive females (you) might look & act like: NAKED
On a typical Friday night I am
Netflix and takeout, or getting your party on — how do you let loose?
Dreaming of you (well least sleeping). I don't really know how to answer this question. Probably something that has a high ratio of fun to cost. Sometimes a cheap Movie, sometimes the Gym.
The most private thing I’m willing to admit
I’m an empty essay… fill me out!
I am really ultimately looking to thrive in a relationship that is supportive, intimate and satisfying.

I have admitted some pretty interesting and private shit in my uninhibited answers to all these questions. If there are any answers that confuse you... just ask.

To be clear: I am not looking for one night stands & I don't mind if you are attached.
You should message me if
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You want.