Offer a few tips to help matches win you over.
Because if you didn't, it could be the single most devastating
thing you didn't do. Life, as you and I know it, would
Q: Why don't you have a photo here?
A: Sometimes I'll put up a discreet photo so people can see I'm not
some creature from the unknown. Just your average, everyday
Q: That didn't answer the question, why no photo or just a discreet
A: I have family, friends, and co-workers on here. They don't know
we are in an open marriage.
Q: If I ask, would you send me a pic?
A: If you're willing to take a moment to get to know me, I'll
gladly sent you a pic. Yes, including my unblocked, unaltered face.
If you want to see more than that, we'll have to get to know each
Q: Are you cheating on your spouse?
A: No. I'm NOT cheating on my spouse.
Q: I don't believe you.
A: That's not a question.
Q: Are you here looking for just sex?
A: No. I'm here looking for friendships. If it leads to more, I'm
open to it. I need an emotional connect before something like that
Q: Are you here looking for sex chat?
A: No. If we develop a relationship that includes this type of
talk, I'm fine with that. But only if it's something we are BOTH
Q: What if I'm not interested in going further with you and only
want a friendship?
A: Then I would be extremely happy to have you for my friend.
Q: How overweight are you?
A: I'm NOT morbidly obese. I'm healthy and quite active. At one
point in my life, I was quite athletic. Just age, work, life has
helped to tack on some pounds.
Q: I think you're funny. Should I message you to let you
A: I want to wear your ass as a hat. Yes, you should. Warning,
it'll only encourage me.
Q: I took offense to that answer, should I still message you?
A: Probably not. You might be too serious for me.
Q: What if I enjoy serious conversation instead of just being silly
all of the time?
A: I'm right there with you. I love trying to make you laugh. I
also love having meaningful conversations and hearing about your
life. Good or bad.
Q: Are you part of any religious organization?
A: No. If you are and can keep an open mind about people who don't
share your beliefs, I'd still love to talk with you.
Q: What are your political views?
A: Like everyone, I have my opinions. I don't strongly follow
politics, but I will talk about them if you'd like. My opinions
strongly lean to the left. I'm pro-gay rights, pro-equality,
pro-women rights, pro-choice, pro-gression, pro-crastinating,
pro-jectile, pro-wrestling, pro-carried away and need to
Q: I'm a big fan of an artist and/or movie you listed. Would you
like to talk about it?
A: The message button is up there... or is it down there. Find it,
click on it, and lets talk about it!
Q: I want to message you, but I can't think of anything to say.
You've already answer my questions. What should I say?
A: You can just say "Hi." I don't mind.
Q: Why do you keep visiting my profile but never send me
A: I probably forgot I've read your profile already. The good thing
is that I keep seeing something about you that I like, so I keep
checking you out. No, I'm not talking about your pic. I'm either
getting a vibe that you wouldn't welcome a message from me or your
"dance card" seems full and you have no time for me. If I'm wrong,
you're free to tell me. :)
A: I'd like to talk, but I prefer to be contacted with questions to
give me something to work with.
Q: Tell me about yourself. What do you do for a living? What do you
do in your spare time? Where are you from? Is there anything you'd
like to know more about me?