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Bigray193

33 M Highland Mills, NY

My Details

Last Online
Yesterday – 9:56am
Orientation
Straight
Ethnicity
Middle Eastern
Height
6′ 4″ (1.93m)
Body Type
Average
Diet
Mostly anything
Smokes
Trying to quit
Drinks
Socially
Drugs
Never
Religion
Christianity, and somewhat serious about it
Sign
Sagittarius, but it doesn’t matter
Education
Graduated from university
Job
Medicine
Income
Relationship Status
Single
Relationship Type
Offspring
Doesn’t have kids, but wants them
Pets
Likes dogs and likes cats
Speaks
English (Fluently), Arabic (Fluently)

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My self-summary
Probably the most laid back, chill person you'll ever meet. Always up for anything (pretty much literally), will try anything once (maybe twice), and cool with just hanging out with you doing nothing, or anything. So long as it's with you, i'll be having a great time ;)

I'm looking for a real relationship with a real woman (read, must have a personality, looks only get you to the 2nd, maybe 3rd date :p). I'm a straight shooter, no b.s. kinda guy. I'm completely honest and very open...go ahead, ask me anything, i dare you...and you'll get an honest complete answer. I'm of the opinion that a man shouldn't be ashamed of his actions...otherwise he just shouldn't do them. I hate mind games and refuse to play. If i like someone they'll know it, and I like to know where i stand in a relationship.

I'm VERY family oriented, would do anything for mine, and i'm looking for someone who feels the same...because I want us to love each others' families as much as our own. I'm not looking for a hookup, sorry ladies, and not looking to just kill time with someone...but you won't find me pushing a relationship or rushing into anything either. Feelings and chemistry happen when they happen, and compatibility can't be forced.
What I’m doing with my life
I'm a pharmacist and a total geek about it, love what i do, love knowing how the body works and the various effects of all the crap we put into it. Other than that I've also got a bachelor's of science in psychology and a bachelor of arts in english lit, both from NYU (the pharmacy was actually done in Egypt, working on getting the equivalency now). Yes, i'm a nerd. Yes, i also have trouble deciding on what i want :p. And yes, i consider myself intelligent.

Hope to never stop learning, through formal education and the horrible cliche of "life experiences"...3 degrees may seem like alot, but i'm just getting started.

I used to be in finance and still have a passion for it, so always investing, keeping up with the markets, and analyzing market trends...it's just like a game to me, the money's just a way to keep score :D. Handle my whole family's (and most of my friends') finances and haven't bankrupted anyone so far, so I guess I'm pretty good at it :).

Want to write a book someday. Would love to write in the fantasy genre, but I think I have to work my way up to that.
I’m really good at
Listening (psychology background) to what's said and not said.
Air drums to 80's hair bands while driving.
Driving with my knees!
Writing, pretty much anything.
Puzzles and games.
Planning vacations...travel is something i'm passionate about.
Experimenting in the kitchen, to often disastrous results. You are warned.
Making the absolute best vodka sauce you will ever taste. People have been known to tear at the eye and propose marriage on the spot after having tasted it.
Being spontaneous, especially when it comes to travel...or random social activity. 3 am on a weeknight in Atlantic city? My first question is "who's driving?" :D.
Talking about almost any subject...i'm a font of useless information about random things.
Sarcasm. I'll keep a completely straight face. You have to know me pretty well to be sure i'm serious or joking, so don't be afraid to ask!
Giving gifts. I aim for tears of wonder and "how did you know" reactions every time.
Making kids laugh.
Hating on Jersey. "You know what the guy from Jersey said?" "Who cares, he's from Jersey."
Other things that you may find out later :p

I'm really BAD at:
Taking pictures. For some reason I always come out retarded. I've been told I look alot better than my pics, if that's any consolation :p
Dancing...unless it's to arabic music, then i'm a god. I enjoy it anyway though, so if you need to look good while dancing, look elsewhere...or put on arabic music :p.
Knowing when a girl is flirting with me. I'm completely oblivious most of the time, so if you're interested, be obvious...i'm not going to be turned off, quite the opposite in fact.
Avoiding the use of colon faces while typing...just..can't..stop :p
Remembering things. Such as what I'm really good at and really bad at.
Getting anywhere without a GPS. I could get lost in a parking lot. Oh yes, it's happened before.
The first things people usually notice about me
My height. "Wow, you're tall" is a common phrase on first meeting. I don't think of myself as tall though, everyone else is just strangely short :p. After that it's usually my eyes.
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
Avid reader of fantasy novels, the longer and more convoluted the better! Constantly reading something, don't feel right otherwise, even if i don't pick it up for a month.

Favorite movies: too many to list, off the top of my head The Godfather, The Hitchhiker's Guide to the Galaxy, Love Actually, Despicable Me, Casino, Bachelor Party, The Hangover, Superbad, Fast Times at Ridgemont High, The Grudge...basically anything, from action to romantic comedy to thriller to...you name it.

Favorite shows: LOVE HBO/showtime series...game of thrones, dexter, weeds, etc...other than those, 2 and a half men (the ones with charlie sheen), how i met your mother, the big bang theory, grey's anatomy, house, the mentalist...

Music: Will literally listen to anything, from Metallica to Mozart, but my favorite is rock, metal, and of course the 3 greatest guitarists of all time...in no particular order, Hendrix, Clapton, and Santana :). Some other favorites: Sublime (RIP Bradley), Flogging Molly, Nirvana, The Who, The Doors, The Ramones, Offspring, Guns 'N Roses, Rise Against. Basically, I like to feel something when I listen to music. I just happen to "feel" most when I listen to rock.

Food: Always looking to try new things. Love sushi and barbecue, italian and indian, to name a few.
The six things I could never do without
A book to read, good music to listen to, a computer to connect with, a car to get the heck OUT with and do stuff, and that's about it...Pretty simple guy
I spend a lot of time thinking about
I'm actually pretty introspective...i regularly examine myself, my plans, the path i'm on, sometimes too much.
On a typical Friday night I am
I love how everyone says "I could go out, or stay in"...not me, i'm usually going stir-crazy and lashing at my friends to get off their butts and go do something :) If I'm met with too much resistance I have no problem hitting a bar solo. I usually make friends there :p
The most private thing I’m willing to admit
I know every word to "baby got back"
I’m looking for
  • Girls who like guys
  • Ages 23–37
  • Near me
  • For long-term dating
You should message me if
You're looking for a real genuine guy and tired of all the BS out there...you won't find any here. Also, I love it when a girl takes the first step, as I usually do. Confidence is definitely attractive! Oh, and if you think you can keep up. I'm REALLY active in that I don't like to stay home for long periods of time, and chances are, if I like you, I'd prefer to do stuff with you than without. Bonus points if you got through this novel I just wrote.

Oh, by the way, I hate dating. Like seriously hate it. Which isn't to say I dislike courtship, or going out...just I'd rather find out everything about the woman I'm with over a deep relationship than know many women superficially. I'll know within one or two dates if I want to be with you or not, and will act accordingly. If this freaks you out you should probably stop now.

You SHOULDN'T message me if:
-Your profile is empty or bare...omg, a guy who actually reads profiles instead of just looking at pics, imagine that!
-You have down-the-shirt boob shots, or bent over booty shots. I'm sure they're lovely, but looking for a bit more class than that, thanks.
-You only look at guys who "reply selectively"...if you message me, you're gonna get a response, even if it's a politely worded decline, ignoring is just rude.
-You're into assholes (even if you don't admit it)...I'm not, and can't be, that guy.
-You speak almost exclusively in cliches. That makes me want to hurt puppies. Please save the puppies.
-You have too many demands on your time already. I can appreciate a busy schedule, but if you're working 60+ hours a week + other activities and only have time to meet up once every 10 days, it won't work out. That's not a relationship.