I'm looking for a real relationship with a real woman (read, must have a personality, looks only get you to the 2nd, maybe 3rd date :p). I'm a straight shooter, no b.s. kinda guy. I'm completely honest and very open...go ahead, ask me anything, i dare you...and you'll get an honest complete answer. I'm of the opinion that a man shouldn't be ashamed of his actions...otherwise he just shouldn't do them. I hate mind games and refuse to play. If i like someone they'll know it, and I like to know where i stand in a relationship.
I'm VERY family oriented, would do anything for mine, and i'm looking for someone who feels the same...because I want us to love each others' families as much as our own. I'm not looking for a hookup, sorry ladies, and not looking to just kill time with someone...but you won't find me pushing a relationship or rushing into anything either. Feelings and chemistry happen when they happen, and compatibility can't be forced.
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This is probably the most honest thing you'll ever read, especially on a dating website. If you're looking to be tittilated and excited throughout the entire course of our relationship, please skip my profile and don't respond to me if I message you...you're not looking for the same things I am. I'm a solid guy that's gonna be with you (if I get to the point that I'm with you and care about you) through thick and thin. When you feel ugly, when you feel fat, when you feel old, you will still be the light of my life and my reason to draw breath. When you're bitchy and mean, I'll still be there. When you throw things at me and rail at me that you hate me and never want to see me again (and yes, it will happen, though I know you won't mean it) I'll weather it out until you're rational again. I'll go through the years of utter exhaustion and bone crunching weariness that it takes to raise children with you, that we may both delight in their smiles together, and to give them the best life we can. Will I do my best to make sure that every minute of your life is better than the last? Yes. Will I always succeed? No. But that's what I'm looking for. A partner that will always be there, even through the terrible, with the sure knowledge that I'm doing my best to make it NOT terrible. Because I'm your man, and you're there with me, no matter what. That's the kind of guy I am, in case you were wondering.