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45 M Santa Cruz, CA

I’m looking for

  • Girls who like guys
  • Ages 18–99
  • Near me
  • Who are single
  • For long-term dating

My Details

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5′ 9″ (1.75m)
Body Type
Mostly anything
Relationship Status
Relationship Type
Doesn’t want kids
English, C++

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My self-summary
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*Moving to Santa Cruz late October. Pretty excited.


I'm an IT guy for a great non-profit in Alexandria. DC native. Scots-Irish. Love to get out to the Shenandoah. Politically on the left side of things, but I can get along with anyone so long as there's some fairness and intelligence to their views. DC native. Played in DC bands for ages...seemingly a lifetime ago. Never needed everything everyone else has; not a huge consumer I guess. Though I like nice things and things nice - particularly guitars and bicycles. Eh...everyone's gotta have a hobby or two. I'm just not a 'stuff' person and like to have as little superfluous crap as possible. I put a high value on work ethic. I also put a high value on good Irish stouts and Belgian beer. Definitely an animal should be, too. I sometimes convey a lot of what I'm thinking with facial contortions. A free spirit more interested in paths less-traveled, averse to plans and alarm clocks.
What I’m doing with my life
Don’t overthink this one; tell us what you’re doing day-to-day.
always learning
I’m really good at
Go on, brag a little (or a lot). We won’t judge.
fixing things
The first things people usually notice about me
I’m an empty essay… fill me out!
I'm on a bike
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
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Books - Into tech, 'sciency' stuff, political history, DIY, bio's. More of a non-fiction preference.
Movies/TV - Funny...definitely like funny. Huge stand Up fan. BritComs! Briscoe/Green, Charles Osgood. Documentary junkie. Good TV exists I've discovered and I can sure enjoy an eve on the couch with my stories.
Music - If they stare at their feet or scream bloody murder I probably have the mp3. Indie mostly. Also into a wide scope of electronic, bluegrass, old country. Indie 103.1 in LA and NPR are staples.
Food - I like my food to make me sweat.
The six things I could never do without
Think outside the box. Sometimes the little things can say a lot.
Coffee x6

I've been dogless for some years...thats not cool
I spend a lot of time thinking about
Global warming, lunch, or your next vacation… it’s all fair game.
how many characters?
On a typical Friday night I am
Netflix and takeout, or getting your party on — how do you let loose?
Wishing I was back in CA
The most private thing I’m willing to admit
I’m an empty essay… fill me out!
I never felt I had such a creative writing deficiency until I tried to write an introduction email on this site. I'm doomed!

OKC labeled me as 'less-sex driven'. The ...? I mean, I chose not to answer questions about my sexual preferences on a site.

I haven't really 'dated' anyone in years. I just don't get involved in the casual dating thing. I prefer a coupling worth investing time in.
You should message me if
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You can be a goof, have a heart and a conscience....maybe artistic in some way...nerdy about what you're into. And if you:

-can put your smartphone away
-want a monogamous relationship

And hey, adjusting your bueno

*You needn't be a cyclist to say hi. I get emails about that.

And lastly: I don't believe we're ideal for each other just because OKC says we match well. This algorithm thing is dubious at best and besides, differences can be wonderfully complementary.