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49 M San Diego, CA

I’m looking for

  • Women who like men
  • Ages 35–48
  • Near me
  • Who are single
  • For new friends, long-term dating, short-term dating

My Details

Last Online
Online now!
5′ 9″ (1.75m)
Body Type
Mostly anything
Atheism, and laughing about it
Libra, but it doesn’t matter
Graduated from Ph.D program
Science / Engineering
Relationship Status
Relationship Type
Doesn’t have kids
Likes dogs and likes cats
English (Fluently)

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My self-summary
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Hi – My Name is actually Chris. I’m a fan of Car talk on PBS, so I was trying to think of something clever when I made up the name. I could have used Bud Tuggly but I don’t think it would go over too well on this site.
What makes me happy? A lot of happiness is intrinsic, but it’s the little things. Morning sunshine, talking with friends, or a sense of accomplishment are the things that really make me feel happy. I live a pretty simple life, and I live below my means. Making plans, and taking care of the details, so that future events will have a good outcome make me happy. For me, fancy stuff has doesn’t have a lot of meaning. A car is transportation, and a trip is enjoying life in a different location. I once lived in Indiana. We live pretty well in San Diego. I should also mention that I tend to misspell word on occasion: Cleaver instead of clever;
What I’m doing with my life
Don’t overthink this one; tell us what you’re doing day-to-day.
I do research in the biological sciences. It’s pretty challenging.
I enjoy staying in shape: Running, going to the gym.
I enjoy the outdoors. I keep thinking that I would like to do some hiking in Yosemite, or Sequoia. It would good to go with others. As it stands right now I would be going by myself.
I’m really good at
Go on, brag a little (or a lot). We won’t judge.
I’m really good with mechanical stuff. I can tune my car, and fix my computer.

I’m a good runner. Not so good at team sports – too much of a klutz.

Mathematical things.

Scaring away potential dates with too thoughtful, clever paragraphs that go over poorly on a dating profile.
The first things people usually notice about me
I’m an empty essay… fill me out!
Most folks don’t say anything, but a gay man told me once that I have great calves.

I’m a lot thinner that most guys my age. Don't get me wrong - I'm also pretty strong.
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
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Books: The Count of Monte Cristo; The Shadow of the Wind.

TV Shows: Breaking Bad; Mad Men; Downton Abbey. Gold rush.

Food: I like Italian, but really almost anything.

Music: Mostly things that I haven’t heard before, or at least not in a long time. I would even listen to rhythmic oinking if it was well done. bands I like: Moby; Jayhawks; Daft Punk; Radiohead.

Movies I liked: City of God; Shutter Island; Anything from the Cohen Brothers; Chinatown; Watchmen; Breakfast at Tiffany's; some Kurosawa movies such as Jojimbo and Seven Samurai.
The six things I could never do without
Think outside the box. Sometimes the little things can say a lot.
Employment. I was once unemployed. The first week was relaxing. After that it wasn’t as much fun.

Social interaction.

Fresh air.

San Diego sunshine.

In the modern era: A computer.

I spend a lot of time thinking about
Global warming, lunch, or your next vacation… it’s all fair game.
I think about all sorts of stuff that doesn’t make for a good OKCupid profile. You don’t want to hear about the stock market do you?
On a typical Friday night I am
Netflix and takeout, or getting your party on — how do you let loose?
Watching Netfilx. I don't like the thought of going to a bar then drunk driving home. I could go to the movies, but I feel kind of odd going alone.
The most private thing I’m willing to admit
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Watching Netfilx. I could go to the movies, but I feel kind of odd going alone.
You should message me if
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If you think romance and friendship can come in the same package.

You are communicative, enthusiastic, and can make the effort to actually show up on a date. Based on my experience on this website that excludes about 95% of the people.

To quote Rod Stewart "If you want my body, and you think I'm sexy" (LOL).