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42 Hayward, CA Man


I’m looking for

  • Women
  • Ages 33–43
  • Located anywhere
  • Who are single
  • For new friends, long-term dating, short-term dating

My Details

Last Online
Today – 6:25pm
5′ 9″ (1.75m)
Body Type
Mostly anything
Christianity, and somewhat serious about it
Graduated from university
Politics / Government
Relationship Status
Relationship Type
Doesn’t have kids, but wants them
Likes dogs and dislikes cats

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My self-summary
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Hola. I'm in Long Beach. It's a Friday night. Are you drinking on Pine Street tonight? lf so say hi.

I'm relocating from the bay area to socal. It looks as though I'll probably buy in the San Gabriel Valley versus the other places I've looked at thus far. I guess I'm not as big a fan of fun folks a decade younger than I need after all. There is something to be said about living around those folks like situated with respect to education, income and lifestyle.
What I’m doing with my life
Don’t overthink this one; tell us what you’re doing day-to-day.
I work in public finance for a large public agency.
I’m really good at
Go on, brag a little (or a lot). We won’t judge.
I am extraordinarily good at being in the moment. I don't like drama. I'm not into games. So you can say I'm very good at living well.
The first things people usually notice about me
I’m an empty essay… fill me out!
I have a smile that warms the soul. Judge for yourself.
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
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Castle, the original Law & Order, All In With Chris Hayes, Rachel Maddow, The Reid Report.

I don't go to many movies but I watch whatever is on cable. I believe life is to be lived. How can we talk and get to know each other sitting in a dark movie theater? If you like just hanging out living that dink(double income, no kids) lifestyle, I got you mami.

I like Carlos Santana was well as Beyonce and Erykah Badu.
I can often be found listening to live jazz and banda type music.
The six things I could never do without
Think outside the box. Sometimes the little things can say a lot.
Stimulating conversation
Good friends
Time to myself
Nature Trail, Park, Beach, someplace with fresh air and sunshine
The financial means to live consistent with my efforts
I spend a lot of time thinking about
Global warming, lunch, or your next vacation… it’s all fair game.
That I'm getting very good at this single thing. The companionship of an extremely intelligent woman makes for a very happy experience.

I was made an Alpha. We of Alpha Phi Alpha do the work that is required. Therefore in life I prefer the best and gladly leave those not quite right to men less like me.

Yea, I know we guys are supposed to be wanting that woman with the killer body. News Flash. Wicked smart women are just as much fun as those females who didn't graduate, don't have a license and do not carry malpractice insurance.

I find it oh so awesome when that really smart female can mow your lawn, proof a motion for summary adjudication, make pancakes for breakfast and is cool with cleaning stuff after time on the range.
On a typical Friday night I am
Netflix and takeout, or getting your party on — how do you let loose?
Fridays I usually do something mellow. That's like happy hour shooting pool with a friend or home relaxing after a long hopefully rewarding week. I work in public finance so my weeks can be just as challenging your weeks are so by Friday I want to get out of my suit and just chill.
The most private thing I’m willing to admit
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That I still want the 2.1 kids.

That I want a fit woman who knows herself and loves herself.

That I want to come home to someone special. That I want to share good times with, learn with, grow with, live well with and be happy every day with that extraordinary woman.

It is not mandatory that she have, but pretty cool if, she has a big brain.

Daddy needs a wife with way above average intellectual property.
You should message me if
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In 2014 a great many women have a professional degree, management job, condo and kid. I get that.

Still other single females without children are perfectly content coming home to your dog, visiting your sisters and their kids, dedicating significant hours to your career and traveling with your unmarried girl friends.

On those rare occasions when you slow down and you're alone with your thoughts do you ever wonder if there is a better life to be lived?

Do you still believe GOD created man for woman and woman for man? Do you remember being taught human beings were not put on this earth to live alone? Do you want a family? What I am really saying with that question is, do you desire to have a best friend, a partner, a confidant and someone to wake up to everyday know, not imagining but knowing that you are loved and will be loved for the rest of your days on this planet?

If you find value in how I think life should be lived message me.