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42 M Hayward, CA

I’m looking for

  • Girls who like guys
  • Ages 33–43
  • Located anywhere
  • Who are single
  • For new friends, long-term dating, short-term dating

My Details

Last Online
Today – 6:50pm
5′ 9″ (1.75m)
Body Type
Mostly anything
Christianity, and somewhat serious about it
Graduated from university
Politics / Government
Relationship Status
Relationship Type
Doesn’t have kids, but wants them
Likes dogs and dislikes cats

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My self-summary
Write a little about yourself. Just a paragraph will do.
Hey there. Thanks for checking out my profile.

I'm looking to go out on dates with chill, straight, single women of any race. Distance doesn't matter.
What I’m doing with my life
Don’t overthink this one; tell us what you’re doing day-to-day.
I work in public finance for a large public agency.
I’m really good at
Go on, brag a little (or a lot). We won’t judge.
I am extraordinarily good at being in the moment. I won't take you too serious because as you well know it's truly not that kinda party. I'm not looking to play games or break anyone's heart. Not gonna let you upset my apple cart either.

Life is what you make it. As for me my friend to be, I am happy getting better by the day. You should shoot me a message if you're down with doing the normal thing that exceptional women do with men of substance.
The first things people usually notice about me
I’m an empty essay… fill me out!
Most women notice my eye lashes, teeth and smile not necessarily in that order but you take my point.
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
Help your potential matches find common interests.
Castle, the original Law & Order and almost anything on MSNBC are what I watch when I have time for TV. I don't go to many movies but I watch whatever is on cable. I believe life is to be lived. How can we talk and get to know each other sitting in a dark movie theater? I have 2 fireplaces. If you like dark romantic settings, I got you mami.

I like Carlos Santana was well as Beyonce. I see Erykah Badu every time she is withing 1500 miles of me. Yea, I know. I got it bad but I'm a grown man and I dont live pay check to pay check so what if I spend way too many management days flying here there and everywhere listening to live music.

There are no do overs in this life. Therefore I tend to live life to the fullest. You should too.

I am a quiet easy going guy. That means I'll eat anything on the plate in front of me and be very grateful for it. I tip well in public and will reward you mo betta in private. You dont however have to be however have to be a gourmet cook to win my heart.
The six things I could never do without
Think outside the box. Sometimes the little things can say a lot.
Everlasting Peace
I spend a lot of time thinking about
Global warming, lunch, or your next vacation… it’s all fair game.
Funny how life plays out. Twenty years ago when I knew everything and was the smartest man in the room I just knew I'd go to law school in Cali, pass the bar and if GOD didn't bless with the woman of my dreams I'm just adopt 2 kids and try to grow them into very good people. As with most, life happened. Ten years helping her to build her career left me ready to move on but still no prospects for a family.

Say what you will but GOD does have a sense of humor.
On a typical Friday night I am
Netflix and takeout, or getting your party on — how do you let loose?
Fridays I usually do something mellow. That's like happy hour shooting pool with a friend or home relaxing after a long hopefully rewarding week. I work in public finance so my weeks can be just as challenging your weeks are so by Friday I want to get out of my suit and just chill.
The most private thing I’m willing to admit
I’m an empty essay… fill me out!
That I still want the 2.1 kids, a beautiful fit woman who knows herself and loves herself to come home to, someone to share the good times with, someone to learn and grow with.
You should message me if
Offer a few tips to help matches win you over.
Some of you beautiful women have a job, condo and kid. I get that. Others of you single ladies without kids may think you're happy coming home to your dog, visiting your sisters and their kids and working way too many hours or have 2 part-time jobs to keep you busy because you haven't been with a man who has above average anything in 3 or more years. When you're alone and you're honest with yourself, deep down inside you know there is a better life to be lived. GOD created man for woman and woman for men. We were not put on this earth to live life with you going on vacations with your girl friends and me spending my time with women that I'd never have children with.

You should message me if you're serious about being to know the kind of man that goes to work everyday, lives well, treats all people with respect and is pretty funny. Message me if you're experienced enough to know the difference between real talk and BS. If you aren't bat crap crazy it's ok to say hi. I don't bite or if you believe my friends, my bites feel.....