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Bilsabab

33 / M / Straight / Available

Seattle, Washington

His Details

Last Online
Jun 16
Ethnicity
White
Height
6′ 2″ (1.88m).
Body Type
Average
Diet
Mostly anything
Smokes
Sometimes
Drinks
Socially
Drugs
Religion
Agnosticism and somewhat serious about it
Sign
Taurus and it’s fun to think about
Education
Working on Ph.D program
Job
Income
Offspring
Doesn’t have kids, and doesn’t want any
Pets
Likes dogs and has cats
Speaks
English (Fluently), German (Poorly)

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My self-summary
I'm a guy. I'm doing some things.
Many of them are science.
SCIENCE!

To expand somewhat, I am working on Urban Forestry issues in Bloomington and Indianapolis, primarily (at a distance, these days). Other things too, but most of them have involved trees. Soon I'll be trying to devise a subject for my thesis. I have ideas. If you ask, I will tell you about them. So only one person has asked. I am offended at your lack of interest.

Also I have cats. Cats are the best (as good as science, even).
If you do not agree with this, I am sorry, but you are incorrect.

Interesting fact: I don't have many male friends, really.
I do a very poor "bro" act, and just prefer to spend my time with women, even when we're not ever going to get it on. Cuz, you know. Women are humans like other humans. If someone disputes this, they're probably lizards wearing the skin of a human, and should be watched closely, and not elected to public office. You'd be surprised how often that happens. I blame central heating.
What I’m doing with my life
I just got married, but we still have an open relationship. Love ain't simple, and isn't jealous and petty, and all that. Also, my wife is awesome, and I hope you can deal with that.

I am currently working on my PhD at the University of Washington.

I am currently settling into Seattle. It seems to be going well. But I'm not all that busy.

Incidentally, moving across the continent is both awesome and exhausting.
And really, really expensive.
I’m really good at
solving problems. At least, i think i am. It's something I enjoy, anyway.

Also, looking irritated in photographs. Truth. You've no idea how long it took me to take one where I don't look irritable. This is pretty sad, since I used to work as a photographer.

Being "More Compassionate" but "Less Kind", according to OKC.
Figger that one.

Getting deeply annoyed at all the stupid, binary questions on OKC. I understand that they make matching people easier, algorithmically speaking, but life is almost never binary. People who think so are fooling themselves terribly.
The first things people usually notice about me
That I'm... i dunno. Odd? For those of us without exceptionally stand-outish features, do we ever really know what people notice?

I guess it was probably my Terror Beard, before I trimmed it.
I confess to sort of missing Terror Beard, though it was impractical and didn't actually get me stopped by the TSA. I'm probably too white.
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
I am shit at favorites.

However, judging from things permanently graven on my body, I'm quite fond of the bands Killing Joke, Einstürzende Neubauten, and the father of Weird Fiction, H.P. Lovecraft.

I require that my music have a certain intensity.
Guitars that blow your face off help, I find, but are not necessary.

I also don't watch much teevee, but when I do, I watch PBS. Because PBS is awesome.
The six things I could never do without
cats, ladies, curry, books, trees, science, music
I spend a lot of time thinking about
Rock and Roll. Who doesn't?

Also, science. Again, who doesn't think about science?
Even people who don't like science spend time thinking about it.

Space. Time. Situations in said. Life generally.
On a typical Friday night I am
Probably in front of the computer, or a book, or possibly watching PBS, or lately, in my office until stupid hours. Like now. Though today has a pretty high probability of not being a Friday, but I suspect you follow my logic.

Unless, of course, someone wants to do a thing. In which case I will be doing a thing.
The most private thing I’m willing to admit
I keep thinking of things to put in here, and then forgetting them. This is perhaps more telling than anything I else I could put in here.
I’m looking for
  • Girls who like guys
  • Ages 26–38
  • Near me
  • For new friends, long-term dating, short-term dating, activity partners
You should message me if
You find I'm an interesting person? If you have a pony, on a boat, and want to go out on the ocean?

I cannot say what might motivate you. Because I don't know you, yet.

Also, if you want to just chat, talk, or hang out.