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37 London, UK Man


I’m looking for

  • Women
  • Ages 18–38
  • Near me
  • Who are single
  • For new friends, long-term dating, short-term dating

My details

Last online
Apr 28
6′ 1″ (1.85m)
Body type
Mostly anything
When drinking
Scorpio, but it doesn’t matter
Graduated from law school
Politics / Government
Likes dogs and likes cats
English (Fluently), French (Okay), German (Poorly)

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My self-summary
Write a little about yourself. Just a paragraph will do.
Watch this, it's beautiful in its own way -

The simple version is that I am looking for an emotional,
funny, sensual, sexual, and intellectual bond with someone that I actually like. But that's not so simple, perhaps, and I am so in love with that first flush of attraction.

Maybe this is what I need -

I'm intelligent (though, sometimes not so smart, and always happy to have stupid conversations, as well as deep philosophical ones), well read(ish), a little obscure, creative, well travelled, curious about the world, passionate, grown-up (most of the time), and with a well developed sense of irony about how we make life a container for things.

Anyway, if you look at my responses and tests you might get somewhat of an accurate idea, but please don't hold me to a particular one. Though they do say that alcohol is a truth elixir....
What I’m doing with my life
Don’t overthink this one; tell us what you’re doing day-to-day.
Sitting in pavement cafés, metaphorical and real, speculating about the inner lives of the people who walk by - what motivates them, what are they into, what's their story?
I’m really good at
Go on, brag a little (or a lot). We won’t judge.
Discussing art, history, politics, literature, film, relationships etc, and pushing boundaries of conversation and convention. Oh and a degree of self-awareness which means that I know how that sounds!
The first things people usually notice about me
I’m an empty essay… fill me out!
I've been told I have nice eyes in a certain light, and a strong gaze, but damn bluey eyes and myopia.

Oh, and my randomness.
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
Help your potential matches find common interests.
Feel free to skip this part, it occurs to me that us liking similar things might be a starting point for friendship, but its hardly conclusive for that or anything else.

Though I like this quote:

“If you go home with somebody, and they don't have books, don't fuck 'em!”
- John Waters

Some things I've liked based on life so far: Haruki Murakami, Eternal Sunshine of the Spotless Mind, sitting on a rock dangling my feet into a warm sea, Ella Fitzgerald, Amelie, Peep Show, Frasier, Seinfeld, the Big Bang Theory, Un Coeur En Hiver, Pushing Daisies, Jazz (though I don't know much about it), Charlotte Gainsbourg, Regina Spektor, Britpop, lingering kisses, East Berlin, Rothko, Before Sunset (specifically), aimless wandering, some French cinema and some totally dumb films (the two not being completely mutually exclusive), the Musée d'Orsay, Kyoto, the Tate, Neil Gaiman, Chekov (both of them!), pierogi, and increasingly rare personal letters.
The six things I could never do without
Think outside the box. Sometimes the little things can say a lot.
Art, books, both in terms of substance and the feel of them, travel, coffee, red wine, communication, empathy, and sex, but that should never be mundane - exploration can be fun.
I spend a lot of time thinking about
Global warming, lunch, or your next vacation… it’s all fair game.
Trying to make sense of things, love, sex, kinks and fantasies, human relations, the next joke..."Sex at Dawn" and our failure to fulfil our bonobo potential and the harmony that might come with it...
On a typical Friday night I am
Netflix and takeout, or getting your party on — how do you let loose?
Open to suggestions.
The most private thing I’m willing to admit
I’m an empty essay… fill me out!
The things that I'd admit in a profile are a lot less interesting than the stuff that I might otherwise admit, whether cultural, sexual or outlook on life.
You should message me if
Offer a few tips to help matches win you over.
Your name is Julie Delpy, Claire Danes, Eva Green, Audrey Tautou, Sophie Marceau, or, um, Sasha Grey. And, just out of curiosity, Miley Cyrus.

But, if you're intelligent, sensual, funny, creative, a bit kinky, and believe that relationships can at their best be our little conspiracy as we laugh at and yet enjoy the outside world and the people in it, then we might get along ;)