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Bitchycakes

40 Bothell, WA Woman

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I’m looking for

  • Men
  • Ages 38–45
  • Near me
  • Who are single
  • For new friends, long-term dating

My details

Last online
May 19
Orientation
Straight
Ethnicity
White
Height
5′ 4″ (1.63m)
Body type
Fit
Diet
Strictly anything
Smokes
No
Drinks
Rarely
Drugs
Never
Religion
Atheism, but not too serious about it
Sign
Taurus, but it doesn’t matter
Education
Working on university
Job
Other
Income
$40,000–$50,000
Status
Single
Type
Strictly monogamous
Offspring
Has kids, but doesn’t want more
Pets
Dislikes dogs and has cats
Speaks
English (Fluently)
My self-summary
Write a little about yourself. Just a paragraph will do.
I'm a work in progress. For the last 14 years I've been a single working parent, taking care of other people and putting the needs of others before my own. My kids are now adults, so I'm not all that sure of who I am outside of being Mom. I have been a Soldier, a daughter, a sister, a friend, now I just want to be me. I plan to do as much traveling in the next few years as my public servant salary will allow, and meet as many interesting people as I can.
What I’m doing with my life
Don’t overthink this one; tell us what you’re doing day-to-day.
Bettering myself, trying to get promoted, going to see live music as much as possible, learning.
I’m really good at
Go on, brag a little (or a lot). We won’t judge.
whatever I set my mind to.
The first things people usually notice about me
I’m an empty essay… fill me out!

I am a unique snowflake, just like everybody else.

Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
Help your potential matches find common interests.
Authors: Jane Austen, Elizabeth Gaskell, Jules Verne, Douglas Adams, Isaac Asimov... lots more. I love books.

Movies: I will watch nearly any type of movie, save for gratuitous gorefests like the Saw franchise. B movies and dark comedies make me happy. But my favorite movie of all time is Say Anything, and I'm addicted to Kevin Smith flicks.

Shows: Once Upon a Time, The Walking Dead, Archer, Mad Men, Orange is the New Black.

Music: I love Billy Joel and Edie Brickell the most, but enjoy a wide variety of music, like most people, I think. I've recently discovered Hey Marseilles, an awesome local band. Trying to see them as much as possible.

Food: Tri tip and grilled corn on the cob are my weaknesses. I'm also a sucker for pumpkin cheesecake. I'll try almost anything once.
The six things I could never do without
Think outside the box. Sometimes the little things can say a lot.
*My kids (counts as two)
*My kitties (also counts as two)
*Comfy jeans
*My Orca card

My car used to be on this list, until I moved to an area with effective public transportation. I still have a car and an old pickup, but I rarely drive anywhere.
I spend a lot of time thinking about
Global warming, lunch, or your next vacation… it’s all fair game.
homebuying. What to hike next. Is there a half marathon happening soon? Naps. Expanding my horizons.
On a typical Friday night I am
Netflix and takeout, or getting your party on — how do you let loose?
Home with Netflix, at happy hour with the gang from work, or at a show somewhere in Seattle. Friday nights are awesome.
The most private thing I’m willing to admit
I’m an empty essay… fill me out!
I like Abba. No really, shut up. Abba is cool.
You should message me if
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you're literate, maybe a little nerdy, and fun.