Miss Designer seeks Mr Developer to build a long and meaningful relationship based on solid foundations, I am a strong, independent woman who has recognised that she has a submissive side. I'm very warm in my emotions and I think caring about others is really important, be it friends, family or strangers. I'm quite a passionate person (it's the Caribbean part of my nature), affectionate but also revel in calm as well. I'm told I have lots of different and surprising sides which I hope is a good thing, but here’s the crazy part . . .

I am a tall, full figured black woman, and I am impossible to live with . . . but then isn't everyone? I will drive you crazy . . . but in the most interesting ways possible. You don't want to get mixed up with me . . . unless you love to have every one of your certainties challenged and unless you get revved up in the face of unimaginable adventures and unless you're ready to never be bored again. . . Then maybe I'm the one for you.

Oh apart from paradoxically being very submissive, loving and caring I also have an inherent need to please within me, together with passions and complexities that are all a part of being me, and if a D/s lifestyle is your thing, then you might want to take the hand of a newbie and show her the way to this sanctuary of intensity, trust and power exchange.

I'm a bit of an Eliza Doolittle, tough determined and the original rough diamond, but saying that I'm naturally reserved but thrive on adventure and challenge, with a down to earth and impulsive nature. I need to rediscover myself and find those ‘breath taking’ moments.

But yes... The more I think about it the more I realise I'm looking for my equal opposite, who might possibly like the idea of being my Professor Higgins (Dominant, Master) as I would like to meet someone who will introduce me to new things, culturally, socially, romantically and other. They must adore (or put up with) my wacky moods and keep me in line and enjoy the challenge of making a lady out of a women.

About to make great changes

Designing and making things

My shyness

My Fair Lady, Lion the Witch and the Wardrobe, Santiago Calatrava, Bridges,

Love, my children, learning, books, computer, Internet

Latin America and building an ultra sustainable school, almost like 'building as Cyborg'

In the bath reading a good book

Some secrets are a joy to find out . . .

You are looking for a serious relationship.
You are a Dominant man wanting to take on and train a newbie Submissive, or you think you could do an excellent rendition of Professor Higgins and be incredibly Masterful, that I'm left in awe of you . . .