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51 Asheville, NC Man


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I’m looking for

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  • Ages 24–65
  • Located anywhere
  • For new friends, long-term dating, short-term dating, casual sex

My details

Last online
Jul 14
5′ 11″ (1.80m)
Body Type
Rather not say
Graduated from university
Art / Music / Writing
Has dogs and has cats
My self-summary
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art, snow, trees, silence, the caffeine molecule, a few intimate lifelong friends, decisions based on feelings, gracious kind-hearted people, INFPs, illustration, fonts, the hitchhiker's guide to the galaxy, bladerunner, thunderbirds are go!, vintage clothing + objects, minimalist art, this american life, space ghost, thomas tallis, arvo part, link wray, cocteau twins, johnny cash, echo + the bunnymen, exploring the continuum between art + science, architecture, 1910-1920, wiener werkstätte, greene + greene, c.r. mackintosh, lofts, old houses, small houses, tree houses, blueberries, smart grrls, volvo 164s + 240s, swiss army knives, sex as a vehicle for emotional intimacy, philology, botany, latin, reading the dictionary, sleeping, dreaming, falling snow, hiking in the mountains, the pacific northwest, the maine coast, seattle, iceland, driftwood, glaciers, quiet people, shy people, blushing, libraries, bookstores, iron-rail IPA, imperial stout, wool sweaters, air-stream trailers, a wood-burning fireplace, morso woodstoves, cats, cetacea, ravens, owls, wooden boats, telescopes, blackholes, stars, quantum phenomena, drawing, rainy days, november, hand-written letters, night trains, deodora cedars, taiga, haiku, 1000 year-old erotic tanka, pablo neruda, e.e. cummings, long-lost friends
What I’m doing with my life
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I will work on filling all these out soon, I promise. It's a bit daunting.
I’m really good at
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Drawing, listening, writing, thinking, making things.
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
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"The Golden Key" is perhaps my favorite book forever and ever. George MacDonald, Annie Dillard, W.G. Sebald, Kobayashi Issa, Chekov, Dostoyevsky, Proust, Mcsweeney's Quarterly, The Believer Magazine )

I don't watch much television.

Music: I am not limited by genre. Lately, it has been the Raveonettes, Arvo Part, Grouper, ambient, garage, and surf instrumentals.
The six things I could never do without
Think outside the box. Sometimes the little things can say a lot.
Hmm. Never is such a strong word. I consider all of these important, but have had to get along without each of them at one point or another in my life. Nevertheless, here goes:

Some daily solitude + silence.
Something to draw with, and on.
A like-minded friend.
The possibility of something over the horizon.
The most private thing I’m willing to admit
I’m an empty essay… fill me out!
I joined an online dating site. Ha.