Find better matches with our advanced
matching system

—% Match
—% Enemy

Black_Puritan

43 Sylmar, CA Man

Man

I’m looking for

  • Women
  • Ages 29–40
  • Located anywhere
  • Who are single
  • For long-term dating, short-term dating

My Details

Last Online
Today – 11:44am
Orientation
Straight
Ethnicity
Black, White, Other
Height
6′ 1″ (1.85m)
Body Type
Thin
Diet
Smokes
No
Drinks
Rarely
Drugs
Never
Religion
Christianity, and very serious about it
Sign
Education
Graduated from university
Job
Other
Income
Relationship Status
Single
Relationship Type
Strictly monogamous
Offspring
Has a kid, and wants more
Pets
Likes dogs
Speaks
English (Fluently)

Similar Users

My self-summary
Write a little about yourself. Just a paragraph will do.
[UPDATED: Sat., 11/1/14 -- This couple, right here! They seriously help define the whole point behind marital relationships.]

What follows is a revised, brief snap-shot of "who I is." For a much more detailed picture, I invite you to check out my more detailed profile.

In short (on the serious side), I'm a "Biblical" Christian (specifically Protestant, as this does matter)...a Christ-lovin' Christ-follower who believes that life in Him is not all fun & games, but rather death to self in exchange for eternal life.

Believe it or not, though (on the less serious side), friends would likely describe me as a naturally comedic fella with pretty decent listening & conversational skills. Which means that, yes, I do also believe in having fun & playing games.

Originally from the Twin Cities; now happily residing in "El-Lay."

Also, I favor beards, bikes & boom-sticks. <(}C:

No single piece of our mental world is to be hermetically sealed off from the rest, and there is not a square inch in the whole domain of our human existence over which Christ, who is Sovereign over all, does not cry: 'Mine'!” ~Abraham Kuyper (1837–1920) (Yeah...I like to quote dead guys.)

For those non-Christians who are disinclined to read on, please allow me to leave you with a parting thought: sometimes, Christians claim their Faith defines them. I would posit that (in light of the truth so eloquently stated above) Christianity actually defines you, too. Feel free to ask why I say that.
What I’m doing with my life
Don’t overthink this one; tell us what you’re doing day-to-day.
Obviously, a good chunk of it was spent answering 700 questions on this site! (Tried to focus mostly on the ideological, for the sake of "matching.")

More seriously, though: we can either discuss this personally, or you can see my alternate profile (linked above) to give your mind's eye a bit more to feast upon. <(}C:
I’m really good at
Go on, brag a little (or a lot). We won’t judge.
Communication.
The first things people usually notice about me
I’m an empty essay… fill me out!
For personal discussion. Or see my alternate profile. <(}C:
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
Help your potential matches find common interests.
A bunch! Ask me this if ever we chat in person...
The six things I could never do without
Think outside the box. Sometimes the little things can say a lot.
Since I know That of Which my life consists, there's only One Thing without Which I could not live...
I spend a lot of time thinking about
Global warming, lunch, or your next vacation… it’s all fair game.
For personal discussion. Or see my alternate profile. <(}C:
On a typical Friday night I am
Netflix and takeout, or getting your party on — how do you let loose?
Find this out in personal convo. <(}C:
The most private thing I’m willing to admit
I’m an empty essay… fill me out!
My smile is crooked. (Which I hope you won't hold against me.)
You should message me if
Offer a few tips to help matches win you over.
Coupla words for this space (please see my other profile for other important stuff):

1) About the whole "Christian" thing: the most honest & thoughtful among us will acknowledge the sinful inclination we all have toward faith in gods of our own making -- idols of the heart we call 'God' or 'Jesus' (or even just generically, 'faith') to make it acceptably "christian." In light of this, I favor profiles which attempt to reflect an authentic faith in the Lord Jesus Christ (fully divine, yet fully human). If your profile lacks any meaningful reference to His Deity/ Lordship/ Supremacy/ Majesty, then romance is not currently possible between us. And if we do connect, be prepared to share how you've made the above reality a priority by fleshing it out within the context of a local church family. (Perpetual peregrines & on-line churchers needn't apply.)

However, I'd be very pleased to answer your honest questions about why I deem the above so important -- be you Christian or not. <(}C:

2) Though not draconian about it, I do prefer to initiate. (It's a man thang.) This means that, while I sincerely welcome your "hellos," I would ask---no, beg--that you not take offense in the absence of any response on my part. I'm pretty intentional with my use of this site & don't want to waste time for either of us.

3) Finally...for you ladies who may like what you read & see -- except for the age: don't be afraid of maturity. (Sadly) thanks in no small part to our society's ubiquitous "prolonged adolescence," 40 is the new 30 (which is no compliment to myself, frankly).

Candor is best, don't ya think?

Parting question for you "Christian" ladies showing swimwear, low necklines & other forms of visual "sexiness":

Really?

(What may earn your profile a few clicks may cost your LORD some glory. Let that marinate a bit...)