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31 Beaverton, OR Man


I’m looking for

  • Women
  • Ages 21–33
  • Near me
  • Who are single
  • For new friends, long-term dating, short-term dating

My details

Last online
Today – 1:10am
5′ 11″ (1.80m)
Body type
Strictly anything
Agnosticism, and somewhat serious about it
Libra, but it doesn’t matter
Graduated from university
Doesn’t have kids, and doesn’t want any
Likes dogs and likes cats

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My self-summary
Write a little about yourself. Just a paragraph will do.
Computer game programming has been my passion ever since I was a kid. I don't feel right if I don't spend at least some time each day working on my project. I love designing and constructing my ideas piece by piece and solving the problems I run into on the way, and it always feels good when I hit compile and something is finally working.

I'm a big fan of friendship and loyalty, in both real life and in my entertainment (games, books, movies). It's a good way to make me an instant fan. Some good examples of this would be Boston Legal, Supernatural, and BBC Sherlock. It's a rare thing in this world, so I guess that's why I'm a sucker for it.

I also like to spend time with my friends when I'm not at the computer. You can find us playing tabletop games and talking about the most random stuff (we can tangent about literally anything). My brother seriously owns a bajillion board games so whenever we end up playing, it's never boring. A lot of nerdy board games too... some of my favorites are Battlestar Galactica, Sentinels of the Multiverse, and Red Dragon Inn.
What I’m doing with my life
Don’t overthink this one; tell us what you’re doing day-to-day.
I've been working on a flash game with some friends as the first game in what will hopefully be a decent indie startup. The game itself is a bullet hell with a lot of touhou elements, but with a bigger emphasis on story and such. I also work at ups to pay the bills. Other than that I'm often at home watching a movie or playing a game, but I also hang out with friends about 2-3 times a week.
I’m really good at
Go on, brag a little (or a lot). We won’t judge.
I've gone on about programming already, but I've also gotten pretty good at fixing computers, due to my horrible luck with them breaking down.

Part of it I have a bit of optimism that I will find a solution eventually if I plug away at it enough (same goes for programming), and so far I haven't been wrong, although sometimes it takes awhile (and sometimes a lot of googling).

Also I got hit by a car once and went flying, but I wasn't hurt, so sometimes my friends joke about me being immune to cars.
The first things people usually notice about me
I’m an empty essay… fill me out!
I tend to be quiet when I'm first getting to know someone, but once I'm comfortable, I'm pretty easy-going and always trying to make people laugh. Which is actually often the reason I'm quiet at first, I'm trying to figure out what kind of humor you like.

Other than that, I'd say my cellphone holster. Maybe it looks a little silly, but it's functional okay :( Keeps me from butt dialing people... usually. My phone really like to do this anyways and I don't even have anyone on speed dial.
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
Help your potential matches find common interests.
I'm gonna change the categories around a bit to be a bit more relevent.

Favorite video games
Baldur's gate and Ogre Battle. Great rpgs, each for different reasons. Great music, great story, great characters, great gameplay. And I love long games. And if you love these games, ask me about Project Eternity. Or if you know about it, message me and let's talk about it! I'm in the beta for it now, good game.

Touhou Hisoutensoku. One of my favorite fighting games ever because it's really accessible to new players, but yet is also deep.

Other games I like include Tomb Raider, League of Legends (I'm wood league though), Random Kongregate and Indie games, Skyrim, Fear, probably a lot more.

Books and mangas
The Belgariad and the sequel series The Malloreon by David Eddings are my absolute favorite. Also Xanth, Claymore, Pastel and more. Puns, action, romance, fantasy are all some of my favorite elements.

Show/Series I like
Supernatural, BBC Sherlock, Psych, Burn Notice, Sailor Moon, Boston Legal, Xena are all shows I really like, and not coincidentally all have heavy elements of bromance and/or friendship. Sword Art Online and Babylon 5 get special mentions.

Other shows I like include Log Horizon, Full Metal Alchemist, Kimagure Orange Road, Arrow, Justice League Unlimited, Pretty much anything to do with superheros really.

Foodwise, all my friends will tell you that I love burgers. If I ever go vegetarian, Carl's Junior will probably go out of business.

I like practically everything, but recently fallen in love with Lindsey Stirling's music. So sad I missed her recent concert in Portland.
The six things I could never do without
Think outside the box. Sometimes the little things can say a lot.
The freedom and doors my car has opened are extremely important to me as well. If gas wasn't so expensive, I'd probably go out driving just for fun.

Even though I'm an introvert and need my alone time, I also love to socialize, and I'm usually hanging out with my friends 2-3 times a week.

My computer and an internet connection are super important because I need them for work and fun.

I need something to occupy my mind with. I get rather bored if I don't have a problem to solve, and it's one of the reasons I love programming, because there's -always- something to think about.

Good food is probably the last one (although it helps I'm hungry at the time of writing this). Between my lack of money and love of food, I'm very slowly starting to learn to cook.
I spend a lot of time thinking about
Global warming, lunch, or your next vacation… it’s all fair game.
A lot of things. Sometimes I'm thinking about whatever my latest programming project is, sometimes I'm thinking about philosophical things like if free will can exist if time travel is possible, and sometimes I'm thinking about throwing giant foam balls over the moon (but that's usually when I'm dreaming).

Right now I'm thinking about myself thinking about what I usually think about, and it's starting to give me a headache. Moving on!
On a typical Friday night I am
Netflix and takeout, or getting your party on — how do you let loose?
Working. I work nightshift at UPS, so every friday night I'm at work.

But if the question was more meant to ask how do I spend my free time on the weekends, the answer is that I'm usually at my home on the computer. Or hanging out with friends, depending on which day it is (Saturday is TABLETOP GAME DAY!!). Also sometimes I randomly get bored and will go to a dance club.
The most private thing I’m willing to admit
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I have a bad memory. I get way too proud of myself whenever I successfully cook something... the first time I made eggs, ham, and bacon I took a picture and sent it to a friend. Also, I have a bad memory.
You should message me if
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If playing games and watching movies on the couch sounds like a good time to you, and you'd like someone to do it with.

If you think you can charm my cat. Seriously, she doesn't like anyone except me, not even my roommates. She is the biggest scardy-cat ever.

If you just want to make friends. I can always use new friends. On a similar vein if you wanna start off as friends and see if things develop from there. I actually prefer this way of doing things anyways.

If you know how many times a man must look up before he can see the sky.