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49 New York, NY Man


I’m looking for

  • Women
  • Ages 37–50
  • Near me
  • For new friends, long-term dating, short-term dating

My Details

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Today – 5:21am
6′ 0″ (1.83m)
Body Type
Graduated from university
Art / Music / Writing
Doesn’t have kids

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My self-summary
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I'm absolutely, positively being serious when I tell you I am probably the coolest guy you’ve ever met. Think of all the cool, fun, intelligent people you met. I have more going for me than any of them. I do. I’ve hired an impressive staff of teachers, professors, gurus, religious figures, financial honchos, celebrity impersonators, athletes, artists, writers, filmmakers, unicyclists, existentialists, karaoke singers and mystics, and I’ve had highly trained doctors extract part of their DNA and had that DNA injected into me. Yes, it was painful. But it was well worth it as I am now, as mentioned, the coolest person you’ve ever met. Or maybe that was a dream; a bad dream. I’m not very cool at all. I'm still trying to figure things out and hope I always will be trying.

Beyond the jokes, I think family and friends are important. My parents are still together and I'd like to be with someone who is happy with their life and those in their life, family and friends.
What I’m doing with my life
Don’t overthink this one; tell us what you’re doing day-to-day.
I feel pretty good where I am.
Life in the arts can be difficult and stressful, but I lucky enough to produce and direct my own television show, and I'm currently in preproduction for my first feature fim: I'm the writer and director. I've made numerous short films both fiction and nonfiction. I've also written a novel.
I’m really good at
Go on, brag a little (or a lot). We won’t judge.
I may be good at a few things or many things, but I don't like to be boastful or a braggard, so I won't list anything here.
The first things people usually notice about me
I’m an empty essay… fill me out!
Physically, well, that's up the them. But usually, most people notice or think about my wry sense of humor.
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
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The holy trinity: Beckett, Joyce, Gaddis, with C McCarthy a close fourth. Also, David Markson, Thomas Bernhard, Kerouac, W Stevens, the list goes on and on.

Wings of Desire, Casablanca, Woody Allen...various American and European art house... too many to mention.

Music: a little of almost everything. Radiohead, My Morning Jacket, Arcade Fire, Yeah, Yeah, Yeahs, dylan, stan getz, coltrane, miles, monk, Jackie Mclean, charlie haden, all the way back to Al Bowlly and Django Reinhardt, to Son House, Lightin' Hopkins...RL Burnside lots and lots of blues and jazz and even some rap, TuPac etc., and some bluegrass, Bill Monroe, to Johnny Cash etc. etc.
The six things I could never do without
Think outside the box. Sometimes the little things can say a lot.
a,e,i,o,u, and sometimes y.
I spend a lot of time thinking about
Global warming, lunch, or your next vacation… it’s all fair game.
Who cuts the grass on Machu Picchu?
Does the landscaping crew hide when the tourists show up? Or do they hike up there, carrying lawn mowers on their back every Saturday morning?
Perhaps I don't think that much time about this but, well, I did think of it recently.
On a typical Friday night I am
Netflix and takeout, or getting your party on — how do you let loose?
Celebrating life.
The most private thing I’m willing to admit
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I'm looking for love.
You should message me if
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You are tied across train tracks in an old black and white movie with a train coming. Send me a text and I'll come save you before the locomotive runs you over.
Actually, I'm mostly interested in artists and/or those who pursue the arts or who are working for social justice and causes beyond themselves.