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Blayde333

25 West Allis, WI Man

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I’m looking for

  • Men
  • Ages 23–27
  • Located anywhere
  • For new friends

My details

Last online
Yesterday – 7:06pm
Orientation
Gay
Ethnicity
White
Height
6′ 4″ (1.93m)
Body type
Skinny
Diet
Mostly anything
Smokes
No
Drinks
Socially
Drugs
Never
Religion
Christianity
Sign
Gemini, and it’s fun to think about
Education
Graduated from law school
Job
Law
Income
Status
Single
Type
Offspring
Doesn’t have kids, but wants them
Pets
Likes dogs
Speaks
English

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My self-summary
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Hello - I'm Andy!

I'm currently a tax attorney and I enjoy the stress and confusion that it brings. Spreadsheets, the IRS, and client headaches are my life.

Were I not in law, I would love to work in educational child psychology. That niche that explores how kids learn and how to best get them hooked on knowledge.

I'm thrilled by numbers, math, politics, law, mythology and philosophy. I'm a huge fan of bowling. I love board games - The stranger, the better! I particularly enjoy seeing people when they exude some sort of emotion. Most people hide behind words, and while their actions are a great indicator of who they really are, their true self lies in their raw emotions.

I'm originally from very small town and, to me, Milwaukee is the "big city." I miss the small town feel. Sure, a tiny town can be annoying when people know everything about you, but it's like having a big extended family. That small town atmosphere is about compassion, caring, and common well-being. I also miss small town nature. It's tough to find nature in Milwaukee. I miss being a minute from wide open fields and a star-flooded night sky.

I recently came out to my friends and family. It's been a long time coming and, although I don't have universal support, the vast majority of my friends and family have been great. For anyone who's not out and reading this I have three thoughts about encouraging you to come out: (1) Your friends and family will love you no matter what; (2) I bet your friends and family would prefer to know who you are than have you hide your life from them, and; (3) No matter what, your life is your life. Be comfortable and stay strong.
What I’m doing with my life
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I'm a tax attorney in Milwaukee. Mostly, I focus on high-net worth individuals and closely held businesses. However, my practice includes a handful of business workouts, litigation, and estate planning.
I’m really good at
Go on, brag a little (or a lot). We won’t judge.
Being 6'4", I'm really good at getting high up things down.

I love board games! They're the best... although, I'm not sure I'm sure enough to say I'm "really good" at them.
The first things people usually notice about me
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Likely, my height, bowtie, or jovial nature.
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
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Books: Cosmos, Harry Potter, The Republic, The Good Earth, nearly all Shakespeare, LOTR, Strategies for a Green Economy, Cradle to Cradle, Game of Thrones, Death by a Thousand Cuts, Justice

Movies: Clue, The Godfather, Hook, Down with Love, Contact, Pitch Perfect, Memoirs of a Geisha,, Spies Like Us, Dead Poets Society, The Man Who Knew Too Little, Pride

Shows: Game of Thrones, Firefly, Archer, The Office, How to get Away with Murder

Music: Barbershop, classical, showtunes, classic rock

Food: Tacos, pizza, pies, various fish, cheesy soups, fruits, burgers, venison, breakfast foods, etc. (Not Potatoes)
The six things I could never do without
Think outside the box. Sometimes the little things can say a lot.
-Conversation
-Coffee
-Music
-Intellectual stimulation
-Compassion
-Laughter
I spend a lot of time thinking about
Global warming, lunch, or your next vacation… it’s all fair game.
A lot of my time is spent thinking about the law, but I also like to contemplate why people function the way the do. i.e. what internal/external forces push them to act or speak.

I wonder if people are more true than not. Do most act in accordance with themselves? Or do they more put on masks to hide who they are for some reason (fear, embarrassment, uncertainty, etc.).

I find social etiquette interesting. Not which fork you use , but the cultural norms that guide and shame peers into acting in particular ways that would otherwise be adverse to the individual. Society impresses that conversations about sexual matters are meant to be awkward and hidden; whereas, it's a normal part of every living thing. Why are we so reserved about it? It's odd that people feel free to judge others for race, creeds, faiths, and ethnicity, but are pushed too far from their comfort zones when speaking of themselves.

I have 3 glorious nephews and I look forward to having kids of my own. *crosses fingers*
On a typical Friday night I am
Netflix and takeout, or getting your party on — how do you let loose?
Out to eat, playing boardgames, or a pleasant night in with netflix and a nap.
The most private thing I’m willing to admit
I’m an empty essay… fill me out!
Do you like people watching? Me too! I like to think of it as unguided social research.
You should message me if
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You want to talk, vent about life, meet up, grab some coffee, etc.

Full disclosure. As of right now, I'm not really looking to date, have hook-ups, or anything of that nature. I've met a guy and our friendship is just flowering, but I find him to be absolutely amazing. He warms the cockles of my heart and introduces me to terrible shows like How To Get Away with Murder. :)