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38 M Bristol, United Kingdom

My Details

Last Online
Jul 22
6′ 1″ (1.86m)
Body Type
A little extra
Cancer, and it’s fun to think about
Graduated from university
Relationship Status
Seeing Someone
Relationship Type
Has a kid, and might want more
Likes dogs and likes cats

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My self-summary
Hi there,

My name is Shaun, I am a fun, friendly and approachable poly guy living in the North Bristol area looking to chat and meet new interesting people locally.

I work in the engineering industry and have done for about 12 years now, fortunately my job allows a little creative outlet which satisfies the rookie artisan in me (usually).

Outside of work I am first and foremost a family man, my family means a great deal to me but I’m also pretty good at making sure that my own needs are met (hence poly) and im not afraid to state them.

I’m a very caring individual, I wear my heart on my sleeve most of the time and this allows me to be a good listener as well as honest, funny (I like to think), adventurous, alternative, highly tactile (cancarian) and open.

I like to think I have a brain that occasionally resides on my shoulders,  and think that I am articulate and well spoken, a little too analytical for my own good sometimes, a worrier and an overthinker, I try not to be though hehe

Overall I have a very playful spirit, I’m cheeky and naughty, im a terrible flirt, I LOVE intelligent conversation and I overuse comma’s.
What I’m doing with my life
Work is pretty typical, so no suprises there.  

My focus is on my life outside of work.  I have a mild interest in my career, but the current economic climate and prospects of it changing in the future mean that my focus on a career seems futile at best, and I have no intention of letting my job suck the life out of me before I can live it.

So, I’m the family man in my day to day life, work is a means to an ends.

My focus these days is on hobbies and interests in general.

 I am studying Shibaru/Kinbaku, which is Japanese Rope Bondage to the uninitiated.  It lends itself well to my alternative interests.

I WAS part of a D/s dynamic relationship outside of my previous primary relationship and family, I love spending time with people that are special to me and this dynamic has provided me with some truly wonderful experiences.
I’m really good at
I think the written word.

 I’m eloquent and articulate, and I love a good conversation.

I’m passionate, observant, emphatic and humble, I believe this makes me a good friend, a caring confidant and an intense lover.

I am good at sex.  I’m sorry, were all adults here, and I hope that anyone reading this is mature enough to understand that just because im not afraid to talk about sex, this does NOT mean that I am a shallow and immature guy looking for bedpost notches because I am NOT one of those.

 I am an ethical slut (mostly), sex is a form of communication I am skilled in, I pay attention, I learn, I study and I teach.
The first things people usually notice about me
My eyes i think. Although if your behind me i would like to think my bum ;)

Im very open, and that tends to show early.
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
Loads really...

Typical action movies, sci fi movies (and shows) like Fringe, Eureka etc

I enjoy a good read on occasion, its been a little while, but i have a good few Dean Koontz novels to get through when i find the time.

I LOVE Brian Lumbleys' Necroscope novels, if you have read these then do get in touch.

Im an avid gamer.
The six things I could never do without
My TV, books, console, music, my son

Thats only five.... Umm... I don't know.

Oh god i missed sex.. how could I miss that... Lunacy I tells ya ;o)
I spend a lot of time thinking about
Fidelity, monogamy, polyamory (if you know and understand the last one please for all that is holy get in touch).

I also think about, cars, money, sex, women in general.

Socially acceptable behaviour, socially imposed behavior, relationship dynamics, self awareness and understanding (ooh thats deep).

I also think about cars, computer games, sex, movies, tv shows, paintball.
On a typical Friday night I am
At home with my little one
The most private thing I’m willing to admit
Is that im afraid of making descisions...


Im not wearing any underwear :p
I’m looking for
  • Girls who like guys
  • Ages 20–48
  • Near me
  • For new friends, long-term dating, short-term dating, casual sex
You should message me if
You are open, intelligent and understand that 'fun' doesn't have to lack an emotional context.

Your alternative.

Your a submissive looking to play.