I’m polyamorous, so I look for relationships where I can be sexual and romantic with more than one person. But, I also like the idea of having one primary relationship, where the two of us are first in each others’ hearts. The important thing is to communicate openly about these things and check in with each other about our feelings. My belief is that polyamory is hard work, but very worth it.
The other important thing to note is that I can be very sensual, even sexual, with my friends, especially female friends. When I love a friend deeply, I tend to want touch and intimacy with them even if we’re not in a romantic relationship. So, my view is that all these categories are fluid: if we meet and hit it off, we might become friends, we might become lovers, we might even become each other’s primary relationship, but I try not to let any of those categories limit what we can do together. (And, it might take us some time to figure out which category works best for us, which is fine.)
I once read a sex advice website that said something about how you should separate your personal and sexual selves, and like most advice I’ve chosen to ignore it cheerfully, ’cause it’s wrong and makes no sense.
I am artistic, introverted, and compassionate
Drawing! I’m also getting better and better at digital painting!
Videogames, of course!
Writing! I love to write!
Movies: I like action and aventure movies, I guess, anything idealistic and sentimental (but not faux-sentimental, aaaaugh!). The best movie I can think of that describes this was Hot Fuzz. That movie was awesome.
Though it isn’t terribly idealistic, of course, I liked Minority Report a lot! And Serenity. Okay, I like science fiction, too. I also love superhero movies! X-Men 2 and Spider-Man 1 and 2 were great! Oh, and don’t forget animated movies. A Chinese Ghost Story is my favorite movie ever made. I know, it’s a cliché to have your favorite movie be something obscure and foreign, but it was a big bursting ball of wonderful magically encoded onto a DVD.
Books: I _love_ audiobooks, they are the best things on Earth. I have ADD, so listening to audiobooks while doing art or playing games (especially Sonic games!) is an amazingly excellent way for me to learn. The game distracts my conscious mind and lets the information in... it’s a phenomenal feeling, like a really amazing class where the professor is really hot and actively having sex with you. ...And you’re playing a Sonic game. NEED I SAY MORE?
I listen to a lot of stuff about history and politics, the world in general, and I’m trying to get more into fiction. Recommend stuff to me, please! The best fiction book I ever read was “Nina: Adolescence.” I could eat that book for breakfast, lunch, and dinner. I also just listened to “The Brief, Wondrous Life of Oscar Wao” and though it was way gritty and edgy for my delicate ears it was GREAT!
Food: Pasta, pasta, pasta makes the world go round! Anything Italian (especially with garlic bread!) is totally the way to my bed. Also, I like curry. Hmmm. And Gyro sandwiches, those are great! (Anything with lots of carbohydrates, I guess. HAHAHAHAA! For all I care, Atkins can die of congestive heart failure. Oh, wait—he DID!)
Videogames: I love the world of videogames! My favorite series is Sonic The Hedgehog, a franchise I love with a passion. Videogames and videogame series that have left a fond impression in my heart over the years include Puyo Puyo, Advance Wars, Crazy Taxi, and the phenomenal Jet Grind Radio. Games I’m getting into now include Ōkami, Fire Emblem: Shadow Dragon, and Disgaea DS. They’re daunting, but fun!
On some evenings I go to Borders to read comic books and drink hot cocoa. It’s fun!
I’m a nudist. Nudism and body freedom are really important to me; someday, I want to have a nudist family and it will be awesome. It’s something I’m really serious about, so if it scares you, you might want to move on. (I mean, I’m okay with wearing clothes—I do it all the time!—I just prefer being naked, and more in touch with myself and the world around me.)
I’m a vorarephile. Vorarephilia, or vore for short, is a fetish where you find pleasure in stories where people get eaten. Specifically, I enjoy fantasies where _I_ get eaten (om nom nom). It’s a fairly obscure fetish, and I’m proud of it, it’s one of my cute li’l quirks that make me who I am. Likewise, I don’t require my lovers to be vorarephiles (otherwise, I’d get barely any dates), but I do want to make sure you’re not repulsed by the fact that I am into vore, and I do want my lovers to be able to tease me gently about it (like, “oh, you look good enough to eat”). Be warned, though: if you’re a man, avoid vorish flirting until we’ve become emotionally close, or until after I initiate it myself. One of the quickest ways to turn me off is to tell me you’d like to eat me before I’m ready to hear stuff like that. (If you’re a woman, the rules are loosened. Use your best judgment.)
One last thing: I was really tempted to check “casual sex” in the “looking for” section; the reason I didn’t is because I don’t want to treat sex _casually_, because that sounds unhealthy. I think what might describe better what I’m looking for is “sex with friends” (as well as the significant-other kind). If we get to know each other, and we get along, who knows where it might go?
...you share a lot of interests with me and you think we could be great friends.
...you think I’m hot and totally want to boink me (but are _also_ interested in who I am... very important!).
...you’re a lesbian couple looking for a girl-toy. For some reason, I’ve always wanted that.
...you’re a lady who wants to have super female-bonding type adventures!
...you’re a man who wants to have something new and different!
...you’re a woman who wants something new and different! (or genderqueer! ...etc)
...you want to do silly and sensual things like bathing together and pillow fights. Actually, that’s just for the ladies. GIRLY-BONDING!
...you’re artistic and you want to explore the outer reaches of the universe with somebody!
...you’re fascinated by me and want to explore me and all my depths!
...you, like me, are an enormous fan of Sonic The Hedgehog and can name bizarre Sonic trivia with righteous passion!
...you could just grab me, roll me up and eat me!
...you can make up your own answer! Just let me know what it was!