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Bleedingelite

27 / M / straight / Single

Pittsburgh, Pennsylvania

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Ethnicity
White
Height
5' 10" (1.77m).
Body Type
Looking For
Long-term dating, Short-term dating
Smokes
No
Drinks
Rarely
Drugs
Sometimes
Religion
Agnosticism and laughing about it
Sign
Aquarius but it doesn’t matter
Education
Graduated from college/university
Job
Artistic / Musical / Writer
Income
Kids
Pets
Likes dogs and Likes cats
Languages
English

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I am Strung out, wired, and completely confused.

My Self-Summary

Sometimes I look at the stars and think about the universe, and how incredibly big it is. I mean, it's unfathomable. Huge. And we, the stupid little specs living on a slightly larger speck, are tiny and insignificant. Our lives are here and gone in the wink of a sun. We make all this drama for ourselves and worry about our hair and our religions and our weight, but why?

I don't know. I guess what I'm saying is that I just want somebody, just one person, who can be a big deal to me. And maybe they can think I'm a big deal too.

What I’m doing with my life

Writing, working, writing at work, playing videogames, riding motorcycles and reading novels at starbucks.

I’m really good at

Daydreaming and coffee drinking
Lounging around on sunday afternoons.

The first things people usually notice about me

That I'm speaking to them. Then they notice that I don't appear to intend on leaving anytime soon. Then they realize that I was talking to the person behind them.

My favorite books, movies, music, and food

Lots and lots of books.

Trail of Dead, Ziltoid the Omniscient, Doves, Enya, Smashing Pumpkins, Boston, Gojira, Lightnin Hopkins, all sorts of other stuff.

I love all food equally, and far too often.

Big Trouble in Little China is the best movie ever made.

The six things I could never do without

I can't say in particular, but I would imagine them to be things that are currently inside of my body.

I spend a lot of time thinking about

Crazy things that don't make any sense.

On a typical Friday night I am

Searching.

The most private thing I’m willing to admit here

I have no idea what the hell is going on.

You should message me if

You're awesome. You have a pretty smile. You're kind, and don't use biting cynicism to shield your insecurities. You don't want to sleep with 9 out of every 10 guys you see on tv. You sometimes wonder why you're here, and what it is you're supposed to be doing, and it keeps you awake some nights staring at the ceiling because you can't for the life of you figure it out. You've grown out of the "getting wasted at the club whenever possible" phase. You can laugh at yourself, and you can laugh at me.

Or, really, just if you want to.