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39 New York, NY Man


I’m looking for

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  • Ages 24–42
  • Near me
  • For new friends, long-term dating, short-term dating

My Details

Last Online
Today – 8:46pm
5′ 9″ (1.75m)
Body Type
Mostly anything
Not at all
Christianity, but not too serious about it
Virgo, and it’s fun to think about
Graduated from masters program
Art / Music / Writing
Relationship Status
Relationship Type
Has a kid
Likes dogs
English, French

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My self-summary
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ENFP, apparently.
What I’m doing with my life
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I got my master's in American lit a couple years back, and now I work at a publishing house in midtown. I also write books. Sometimes I go running. And I eat a lot of peanut M&Ms.

I recently left NYC to live on the windswept plains of West Texas. I moved to be near my son and write novels. So. That's a change. I haven't updated my location because I live in a small town, and I feel like it might invite headaches. I'm hoping to travel a lot.
I’m really good at
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Alphabetizing stuff. Creating awkward moments. Making dorky references. Drinking root beer. Recognizing obscure old celebrities. Not recognizing people I have met before. Eating tacos. Doing crossword puzzles. Napping. Mentally copyediting subway advertisements.
The first things people usually notice about me
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Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
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I have devoted most of my life to books, so that's a hard one. My favorite book is Moby-Dick, I think about that book a lot. And Winesburg, Ohio, which is like a heartbreaking little dollhouse. I also love The Magus, Martin Dressler, The Adventures of Augie March, The Stories of John Cheever, lots of old crime novels like Double Indemnity and The Dain Curse, Hawthorne, Emerson, Dostoevsky, Gogol, Victor Hugo, Patricia Highsmith, Hemingway... Jeez, I dunno... there's a lot. Wait, did I say Willa Cather? I fucking love her.

I like old movies. Especially old musicals, comedies, and noir films from the 30s and 40s. I am desperately in love with Ginger Rogers. I promise, I'm straight.

Here is the best scene from any movie ever:

As far as music goes, I listen to a lot of Coltrane and Mingus and Charlie Parker. I also like Uncle Tupelo. And Bob Wills. And Solomon Burke. Sometimes when I go running I listen to "Wolf Like Me" by TV on the Radio and pretend I'm a werewolf on the loose.

I don't watch much TV. Not being pretentious. I'm just busy. I would watch TV with you if you want.

Food: waffles.
The six things I could never do without
Think outside the box. Sometimes the little things can say a lot.
Books made of paper
Things made of wood and metal and glass

Also my son, who is my best friend. He's 11.
I spend a lot of time thinking about
Global warming, lunch, or your next vacation… it’s all fair game.
On a typical Friday night I am
Netflix and takeout, or getting your party on — how do you let loose?
reading. I know, I'm a square. I got partying out of my system a few years back.
The most private thing I’m willing to admit
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I lost my virginity to a bald girl.
You should message me if
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you like stuff, and are not opposed to discussing it.