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40 • New York, NY • Man
I’m looking for
- Ages 24–42
- Near me
- Who are single
- For new friends, long-term dating, short-term dating
- Last online
- Online now!
- 5' 9" (1.75m)
- Body Type
- Not at all
- Christianity but it’s not important
- Post grad
- Has kids
- English, French
Things are going well. I've been doing freelance editing, working a little for NPR on the side, and I don't have a boss or a day job. I spend all day at the coffee shop working. I just finished my third novel, hoping to submit it to agents in the next month.
If you want to know about my journey from NYC to TX, you can read this essay I wrote about it:
I haven't updated my location because I live in a small town, and I feel like it might invite headaches. I'm hoping to travel a lot.
I also go to the boxing gym sometimes, or go running. And I eat a lot of peanut m&ms.
I like old movies. Especially old musicals, comedies, and noir films from the 30s and 40s. I am desperately in love with Ginger Rogers. I promise, I'm straight.
Here is the best scene from any movie ever: http://youtu.be/Z-2r3zzZYgA
As far as music goes, I listen to a lot of Coltrane and Mingus and Charlie Parker. I also like Uncle Tupelo. And Bob Wills. And Solomon Burke. Sometimes when I go running I listen to "Wolf Like Me" by TV on the Radio and pretend I'm a werewolf on the loose.
I don't watch much TV. Not being pretentious. I'm just busy. I would watch TV with you if you want.
Things made of wood and metal and glass
Also my son, who is my best friend. He's 11.
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