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55 M Saint Paul, MN

I’m looking for

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  • Ages 40–54
  • Near me
  • For new friends, long-term dating, short-term dating

My Details

Last Online
Sep 5
5′ 11″ (1.80m)
Body Type
Not at all
Buddhism, and laughing about it
Taurus, but it doesn’t matter
Graduated from university
Rather not say
Relationship Status
Relationship Type
Has a kid
Has cats

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My self-summary
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Do you enjoy traveling the world, consider yourself an adventurer at heart, love the city as well as nature, the finer things along with the simple things? -perhaps we should meet.

I'm an out of the Ordinary, somewhat unconventional man with a compassionate heart, artistic sensibility, strong values and good business mind. Currently the director of a yoga/meditation center with a background in real estate and photojournalism.

I strive to live a healthy, balanced lifestyle with a love of arts, film, theatre, music, wild storms and people with something original to say.

I work to live an honest, value driven life-hopefully leaving the world better than I found it. I am sincere, authority averse, good with moms, kids and pets! and although I'm emotionally strong, I am a bit sentimental. I root for the underdog and will jump in and help when I see a wrong being committed.

I love the mountains and Lake Superior, simplicity and good light for photography. I lived in Europe for a year (Prague) and now live in St. Paul. I am an adventurer at heart and will travel anywhere but always enjoy the feeling of coming "home". I love to sail, climb, bike, hang out at coffee shops and read the NYT's but lately have been missing the intimacy of exploring the world with a partner.

I am open to exploring a variety of relationships short or long provided they are meaningful, respectful and honest. At the end of the day, I would be grateful to find a long term partner but friends and activity partners are cool too.
What I’m doing with my life
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Lately, watching too much Game of Thrones and going to Crossfit. Otherwise, doing my best to live a genuine & meaningful life. I meditate, climb rocks, sail, bike, explore and do my very best at being a good father to my son. I own and manage real estate investments to pay the bills. I am the director of a yoga/meditation studio and professional photojournalist working with humanitarian agencies-mostly third world & disasters.
I’m really good at
Go on, brag a little (or a lot). We won’t judge.
Getting out of trouble and staying cool under pressure.
The first things people usually notice about me
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My blue eyes and apparently my unending collection of weird hats.
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
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Books are all over the place-Cormac Mcarthy, Rilke, Dostoyevsky, Milan Kundera, Ishiguro ("never let me go" will break your heart)...favorite old film; To Sir with Love, favorite new film; anything by Lars Von Trier and I can watch Zoolander over and over. I'm not a foody but enjoy good, healthy, real food. Love live music but don't get out enough lately to know whats good locally.
The six things I could never do without
Think outside the box. Sometimes the little things can say a lot.
Compassion & Love
Deep connections with others
Humor & the ability to laugh at myself
The respect of my son
I spend a lot of time thinking about
Global warming, lunch, or your next vacation… it’s all fair game.
the connection between quantum physics and buddhism
On a typical Friday night I am
Netflix and takeout, or getting your party on — how do you let loose?
Seeing a film or going out to dinner-hanging with friends. Maybe taking a hot bath...
The most private thing I’m willing to admit
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I care.
You should message me if
Offer a few tips to help matches win you over.
You are seeking someone to share a deep connection, love adventure and have an open heart.
Although you may not choose to have children of your own, you enjoy their company (mine in particular).