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I’m looking for

  • Women
  • Ages 28-46
  • Near me
  • For new friends, long-term dating, short-term dating

My details

Last online
Today – 4:29pm
White, Other
6' 2" (1.88m)
Body Type
Agnosticism and it’s important
Doesn’t have kids but might want them
Has cats
English (Fluently), French (Somewhat)
My self-summary
Write a little about yourself. Just a paragraph will do.
WE ARE NOT HAVING SEX... least for a while.

I'm an introverted extroverted intra-extra-vert with with an innie belly button and extra "vert" sprinkled on top and a little b.s. too- a website told me so.

I don't want to bore you with all the details on how great I am. We should just meet. ;)

I'm positive, I'm a giver and I'm looking for someone who is sweet. I don't mean sicky sweet where you put everyone else's needs before your own. I mean someone who is thoughtful and has a calming energy/nature. Please come from a place of love, not fear. If you are a hypocrite, have walls up, and are stubborn we won't get along. If saying thank you feels like you are lowering yourself then we will not get along. Humility is a strength, not a weakness. I am respectful and I would like it in return. If insecurity drives you and you spend lots of time trying to hide that, then we won't get along, either.

I'm from NYC and have been in Portland since 2010. I love trying new things, eating at great restaurants, food carts, (I just discovered one from Guam! Guam food!! Who wants to go?) going on adventures. I love walking the line of safe and uncomfortable. In other words I like to be taken out of my comfort zone.

I love to travel. Ive been to Amsterdam, Paris, Southeast Asia (4 countries), Greece, Central America, Turkey. I tend to travel pretty consistently and always find time for it. I just came back from Guatemala in August 2012 and last November I was in Turkey.

I'm fun, creative and funny. I like doing different things that aren't run-of-the-mill.

Even though I'm 42, I feel like I'm only 41 and I have lots of energy. I look young and I feel young and I take great care of myself by practicing yoga and weight training. I hope you take care of yourself and are relatively healthy, its not a priority that you are in tip top shape. As long as we can do some physical activities together and run away from zombies.

What I'm looking for is someone who has put in work on themselves. You aren't perfect but you don't try and hide your flaws, knowing that everyone finds them out eventually. This means you are open. I want someone adventurous who will DO/GO/TRY almost anything. Life is about doing everything before you go. It would be cool if you have a bit of a nerdy/geeky side. I'm a part-time closet geek. I've never been to a Comic Con but want to go to people watch. I'm looking for someone who is classy and has taste in things and knows the difference between things. I also realize that "good taste" usually just means "different taste" but there can be obvious differences between things like Cha Cha Chas and Racion for example. Oh and City Grill is total crap by the way. Its not good or fancy. So is VooDoo donuts. Go to Blue Star Donuts- you're welcome. I'm certainly not snooty but I think I have pretty good taste, and style. 20 years of soaking up NYC has taught me a few things.

I'm totally down to earth, approachable and nice, but I'm not a chump and I know how to take the lead. You should at least be able to appreciate and like art. I love it and make it but I won't push it down your throat. I find there's a keen difference between someone who loves art and someone who could care less about it. Those who love it usually live a life that is not boring and is full of passion and wonder.
What I’m doing with my life
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Designing and silk screening t-shirts
I’m really good at
Go on, brag a little (or a lot). We won’t judge.
Beating you in thumb wrestling
Cooking Thai food, Indian food, and the best pizza in Portland.
Christopher Walken impressions and others
The first things people usually notice about me
I’m an empty essay… fill me out!
Height and eyes maybe
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
Help your potential matches find common interests.
Thai, Sushi-Bamboo Sushi is the best so far, Indian, Mexican. Pok Pok, Ping, Carts! I love to cook Thai and Indian food and I'm good at it. Spicy food is a must for me. Organic whenever possible.

Phantogram, Bat For Lashes, MGMT, Death Cab, Built To Spill, Wye Oak, Shiny Toy Guns, Elliot Smith, Kate Bush, Cary Brothers, Stars, M83, Psychedelic Furs, The Outfield, Chairlift, Clientele, New Order, Loverboy, Crystal Castles, Arcade Fire, Empire of the Sun, Band Of Horses, Goldfrapp, Gotye, Roxy Music, ...the list goes on and on and on and on...strangers, waiting...

MOVIES: Upstream Color, Waiting For Guffman, Happiness, Welcome To the Dollhouse, Looking for One-Eyed Jimmy, Butcher Boy, Glengarry GlenRoss, Rushmore, Wes Anderson, Lost In Traslation. Most anything With Bill Murray, Dead Man, You Can Count On Me, Grandmas Boy, Wet Hot American Summer, Godard, Kurosawa, Super Hero movies, When We Were Kings, Primer

TV: Seinfeld, Mad Men, Brooklyn 99, Danger 5, Daredevil on Netflix
The six things I could never do without
Think outside the box. Sometimes the little things can say a lot.
Fuck 6 I'm doing more
My fast wit
That someone special
Chunky Monkey ice cream
Being active/ working out but not a gym monkey
Creating some kind of visual art
Really great food/restaurants/carts/Portland as the next food mecca
I spend a lot of time thinking about
Global warming, lunch, or your next vacation… it’s all fair game.
This guy and his passion:

Why people smooth-out/Photoshop their faces/blow out their features with a flash so you can only see their eyes, nostrils and mouth on this site. It's sad and creepy and they aren't fooling anyone. We all age and if you plan on meeting someone on here it will be weird once you meet.
On a typical Friday night I am
Netflix and takeout, or getting your party on — how do you let loose?
...Listening to Marvin all night long...
The most private thing I’m willing to admit
I’m an empty essay… fill me out!
I like Phil Collins. There. I did it. Feels so good to get that off my chest
You should message me if
Offer a few tips to help matches win you over.
...You will do this for our first date: didn't say on your profile that you possess this incredible ability to dress down for casual days or dive bars and dress to the nines for a nice night out on the town. This does not make you special or versatile - especially since so many other women on this site are saying... this... exact... same... thing. ;) "Hi I can change my clothes.. aren't I amazing?"

To the above point. "Working hard and playing hard"-not special. It's like saying you take care of your kids. Everyone does it. This tells me you just picked a generic saying to describe yourself and didn't put much thought into who you are. Also if you say anywhere in your profile, " just ask" it tells me you don't really know yourself and or you are lazy and didn't put much into this site, so you can't expect much back.

And also you don't "live everyday to its fullest." or "living life to the fullest" You simply don't. You're lying. You don't know how. Neither do I.

Especially message me if you have a photo of you with a fake mustache. You're hilarious! How did you ever think that up? A woman with a mustache! So ironic! Love it