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I’m looking for

  • Men
  • Ages 45-60
  • Near me
  • Who are single
  • For long-term dating, short-term dating

My details

Last online
Yesterday – 8:54pm
6' 0" (1.83m)
Body Type
Average build
Christianity and it’s important
Post grad
Doesn’t have kids and doesn’t want them
English (Fluently), French (Somewhat)
My self-summary
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Nice guy, with a balanced life, looking to meet an easy-going guy for fun and good times. I have a full active social/cultural life and travel a lot domestically and internationally. I enjoy new experiences and meeting new people and am at my best with guys around my age who are caring, communicative, romantic and emotionally available. Romance is key, as I enjoy savoring and sharing the finer things in life, comfortable surroundings, live performances and good food. I have good friends and have had some great relationships. Respect and honesty are important to me and I believe that being able to nurture and celebrate each other are important qualities in a relationship.
What I’m doing with my life
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I am a manager at a human services government agency. I enjoy travel, theater and spending time with community and volunteer service groups.
I’m really good at
Go on, brag a little (or a lot). We won’t judge.
Being adventurous and connecting people. Finding new places and trying out new things.
The first things people usually notice about me
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Not sure. Need to ask them. I tend to be a hugger once I get to know you.
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
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Books: biographies, autobiographies, detective stories, poetry, anything by James Baldwin or E. Lynn Harris, Tales of the City.
Television: The Amazing Race, Modern Family, The Middle, Project Runway, Jeopardy.
Movies: Torchsong Trilogy, Philomena, Midnight in Paris, The Producers, Far from Heaven, Cabaret, Billy Elliott, Best Exotic Marigold Hotel, anything Hitchcock, Frameline Film Festival
Shows: Broadway musical theater (have seen Les Mis, Dreamgirls and Wicked dozens of times), staged dramas (A.C.T and SF Playhouse), Oregon Shakespeare Festival, choral music and contemporary dance performances.
Food: Californian, Morrocan and Middle Eastern, Thai and Indonesian, Tandoori, vegetarian(not exclusively), French, Italian. Fan of cooking shows like Top Chef and Chopped.
The six things I could never do without
Think outside the box. Sometimes the little things can say a lot.
friends, music, good food, good health, nature, creative expression
I spend a lot of time thinking about
Global warming, lunch, or your next vacation… it’s all fair game.
Community building, social justice, politics, the arts. My next vacation.
On a typical Friday night I am
Netflix and takeout, or getting your party on — how do you let loose?
At a play, movie or dinner with friends. I often host parties, game nights and other get togethers for gay social groups.
The most private thing I’m willing to admit
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Sex is not as important to me as having a meaningful emotional connection.
You should message me if
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You're interested in going out on a date and getting to know someone new with potential for long term relationship.