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  • Ages 23-38
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English (Fluently)
My self-summary
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I realized recently that there's really no reason for me to try to protect any anonymity here.

Hi, I'm Sam Black. I'm a professional Magic: the Gathering player ( and writer for StarCityGames, the premiere Magic website.

This means that I travel most weekends, usually to different cities in America, but I travel internationally a few times a year, and I've been to 40 different foreign cities.

I'm usually in Madison during the week, and my schedule is extremely flexible.

I have an agender significant other of eleven years who's my primary partner. I'm also seeing people in Portland and Seattle. I'm open to low commitment long distance relationships with people in any major city, as I'll likely be there periodically, or relationships where we primarily function as traveling companions. I'm good at traveling, and can usually bring a party wherever I'm going.
What I’m doing with my life
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It's interesting how much my self-summary, what I'm doing with my life, and what I'm really good at blend together for me. What are you other than what you do, anyway? This distinction isn't useful to me, so please refer to my previous answer.
I’m really good at
Go on, brag a little (or a lot). We won’t judge.
I'm really good at Magic, clearly. I'm also told I'm a good writer, but that's harder to measure objectively. I'm also a very good (vegetarian) cook.
The first things people usually notice about me
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I'm not entirely sure. My best feature is almost certainly my hands.

More likely, people probably notice that I move and carry myself differently than other people.
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
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Books: The Time Traveler's Wife, probably some graphic novels, maybe Fables, Sandman, Preacher, Worm, HPMoR.

Movies: The Princess Bride, Finding Neverland, The Pirates of the Caribbean (first)

Shows: Firefly, The Wire, Deadwood, Boardwalk Empire, Breaking Bad, Veronica Mars, Community, Skins, Justified, Shameless, The West Wing, Buffy, Angel, Game of Thrones, Battlestar Galactica, Gravity Falls

Music: I've fallen out of the habit of listening to music, except for random radio stations when I drive. I tend to mostly like rock and pop these days, but with increasingly little taste.

Food: Thai or Indian curry, burritos, falafel, most vegan food is good.

Games: Magic: the Gathering, Agricola, Dungeon Lords
The six things I could never do without
Think outside the box. Sometimes the little things can say a lot.
Games, friends, family, internet, spices/a good kitchen, love.
I spend a lot of time thinking about
Global warming, lunch, or your next vacation… it’s all fair game.
Games, planning activities with friends, cooking/what to make to eat, the few people who are important to me.

Also, emotional, intellectual, sexual/gender identity development of young people and how to help them develop better, particularly as it pertains to radical education reform and proper parenting. Relatedly, the role of teamwork and games in learning.
On a typical Friday night I am
Netflix and takeout, or getting your party on — how do you let loose?
Gaming--playing cards or a board game, maybe a party game with a group of friends. Either that, or arriving in a city I've just flown to and meeting up with people for dinner and then making my way to a hotel.
The most private thing I’m willing to admit
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I have no interest in privacy. I maintain a closed facebook group where I'm writing stories of my sexual development and experiences, and anything else that occurs to me to discuss that people don't usually talk about publicly. That group has over 1,000 members at the time of writing this, and I accept anyone who wants to join. If you'd like to know basically everything about me, just ask to join
You should message me if
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If I seem interesting to you, you should message me. I'm not likely to message you, as you should be able to learn enough to have a good idea about whether I'm someone you'd like to talk to, but I'm very open to meeting new people.