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51 M Portland, OR

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  • Ages 32–60
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Today – 10:04pm
5′ 10″ (1.78m)
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Gemini, and it’s fun to think about
Working on Ph.D program
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Has kids

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My self-summary
Write a little about yourself. Just a paragraph will do.
June 2014 "Word of the Month"

Epiphany: from the Greek word epiphaneia, "manifestation, striking appearance", an experience of sudden, enlightening and striking realization...

What is your latest epiphany? Or... Have you had an epiphany today?

May update: A 5-7-5 Haiku invitation..

You write a haiku,

About what you see herein.

Mine, to you, follows.

4/2014 Update:
When I was first introduced to the story of Christopher Columbus it planted a mental SEED of "outside-the-box" thinking. As a child, Christopher watched the ships return to port. He noticed that the ships appeared on the horizon from tip of mast, to mast, then to full view of the boat. This observation gave him the IDEA that the world might not be flat, but that it might be round. Recognizing that the economy of the world was heavily influenced by spices, he tried to maximize the efficiency of the spice trade by reducing the length of the route to India, the source of many lucrative spices. He came up with the idea that going West instead of East that it might be a shortcut. At the time he was thought of as crazy for going the "wrong" way. But by going in a direction that was DIFFERENT FROM OTHERS, based on something he knew in his heart, he discovered America. (One theory of Americas discovery anyway) The metaphor for this online "dating" is the same even if its just a good story. What are you WILLING to do that's outside the box? What RISK will you TAKE to go a different direction? One definition of insanity is doing the same thing over and over again and expecting DIFFERENT RESULTS. How has your experience been? Is there anything that you are doing that has been getting the same results over and over again? Will you be like Christopher Columbus and follow what you KNOW in your knower?

3/2014 Update "Chan Su Jing" When reeling silk from the cocoon of a silkworm one must not pull too hard or the thread breaks. If one doesn't pull hard enough the thread won't unwind from the cocoon. If there is stopping and starting the thread will break...
If this makes any sense then lets unwind the thread a bit more and see what we can weave together.

For those who prefer a more mechanical approach to profiles... I did a stint in United States Navy as a boatswains mate on board an LST. My undergraduate education was in computer science but most of my career path has been in retail management sales and sales management until now.
Currently I am working as a licensed acupuncturist and studying for a doctoral degree in acupuncture and Oriental medicine.

If Heisenberg( not Walter White ;-) ) was correct, and we are not sure that he was, then I am more interested in the directional vector rather than the position, metaphorically speaking.
What I’m doing with my life
Don’t overthink this one; tell us what you’re doing day-to-day.
Starting my own business, creating the space for the universe to provide a life partner and enjoying it immensely!

Seeing the subtext below the surface text.

Not judging a book by its cover yet knowing that out of the abundance of the heart, the mouth speaks...

Projective Dreamwork, Chinese 5 Elements, and Jung, oh my!
I’m really good at
Go on, brag a little (or a lot). We won’t judge.
Layered verbal palpation.
Being a quantum optimist.
Pattern recognition.
The first things people usually notice about me
I’m an empty essay… fill me out!
I have been told my smile, posture, and confidence.

What do you notice?
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
Help your potential matches find common interests.
Insert endless list here...

This changes all the time and hopefully we will discover new books, movies, shows, music, food together.
The six things I could never do without
Think outside the box. Sometimes the little things can say a lot.
Engaging conversation
The profound nature of shared dreams
Transcendence of duality
The occasional perfectly grilled ribeye
The hemispheric switching, alpha brainwave inducing, trance-formational transderivational searches.
Leaving room for one more...
I spend a lot of time thinking about
Global warming, lunch, or your next vacation… it’s all fair game.
How a "toward" sort is more powerful than an "away-from" sort...

The ever present sub-text in the surface-text of your profile :-)

How to read the entire history of a persons existence in their form and energetic.

How things reach their extreme and then transform into their opposite.

The flow from matter/essence to function/information to consciousness both linear and non-linear. This is a hint for one of the "You should message me ifs"...
On a typical Friday night I am
Netflix and takeout, or getting your party on — how do you let loose?
Traversing the path between fractal and holographic reality.

In other words, "There is nothing typical about my Friday nights." Followed by a list of typical Friday nights...:-)
The most private thing I’m willing to admit
I’m an empty essay… fill me out!
During the warmer months I enjoy doing taiqi at Collins Beach.
You should message me if
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You enjoy communication on multiple levels simultaneously.


You know what jing, qi and shen are...


You know what an IBU is.


you like taking gradually increasing calculated risks.

And of course if...