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22 F Santa Rosa, CA

My Details

Last Online
Apr 16
Native American, White
5′ 9″ (1.75m)
Body Type
Mostly vegetarian
Agnosticism, and somewhat serious about it
Gemini, and it’s fun to think about
Graduated from university
Relationship Status
Seeing Someone
Relationship Type
Doesn’t have kids
Has dogs and has cats
English (Fluently), Spanish (Poorly)

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My self-summary
I'm looking for someone with drive, goals, passion, a who aims to do something with what they are given. You don't have to know what it is or even be after it right this second. But if you live with ferocity, and want to experience something new without fear or judgement I would like to do that with you. : )

That said, here are some important things about me.

Probably the most crucial thing you should know if you are interested in me is that I don't interact with people who have no integrity. Lacking integrity, respect, and the ability to be honest disgusts me. I'm strong enough to admit when I'm wrong, and always respect others. If you can't move along. See my private fact for more on this.

I am Pansexual, not Bi.

I am often Polyamorous, but not always, it depends on who I am dating and where I am at with them. I am currently seeing two people very seriously. And I adore them. :) I don't have space right now for a third.

I am very confident. I know who I am, what I want, and where I am going and I'm not afraid to say so. I have high standards for myself and I know exactly how much I am worth and I don't settle. So if you like confidence, I'm your girl. ; )

Okay, I've been told I'm cocky, not just confident. I'll agree with that.

I'm a sucker for a good argument. If you can challenge the way I think without being an asshole I might makeout with you.

I will stand up to you, but I want to be with people who will stand up to me, and push me to grow.

I am equally dark and sexy as I am cute and innocent. -bats eyelashes-

I am a classy lady, who likes to say fuck a lot.
It may be my very favorite word.

Honesty gets you really far with me. Even if its not what I want to hear, I REALLY respect it. Can honesty and respect be a turn on?
What I’m doing with my life
Working, and having fun. I'm a busy mother fucker. But I like keeping my life full of new things.
I’m really good at
Planning activities, being honest, talking when I have an issue. Also, I am really good at being overdressed. Like always. I really like getting dolled up.
The first things people usually notice about me
I'm good at communication. Like really good. I don't blow up with anger easily. I don't do drama. And I NEVER say something about someone that I wouldn't be willing to say to that persons face (or have already said to them). Honesty is HUGE for me. Also, I'm open about my sexuality.
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
Laurel K. Hamilton is one of my favorite authors.
I love shoot-em up movies, and horror films a lot.
I love Game of Thrones and Walking Dead. I adore zombie flicks.
I love country music and Hip-Hop (I prefer dirty south hip-hop)
But I also love pop and classic rock.
My favorite food is definitely fresh, dark, strawberries.
The six things I could never do without
Here's a list of things I love:
A good cup of coffee. I get up almost every morning and make a freshly ground blend with real cream and sugar and I find my morning Zen.
Change. I like change, even when it pisses me off, makes me cry, of just sucks, it keeps life interesting.
Fashion: Shoes, makeup, hair, following designers; I love all of that.
Flirting: its natural for me, like breathing.
Girly things:I like pink, and feminine clothing, painting my nails and everything typically thought of as "feminine," whatever the fuck that is supposed to mean.
Days on the ranch-I like my animals and the beauty of the land
Meeting new people-I'm not at all shy.
Doing things I have never done before-I have a bucket list a mile long and I work on it as often as possible.
Organizing things. (Especially by color. My closet it flawless.)
Having my perspective pushed.
My pets.
My PT. She taught me how to walk again, and I will never forget that.
Yoga at sunrise.
A good candle.
On a practical note, my contacts. : )
Talking about sexism and gender roles across cultures and communities. I'm definitely into Women's and Gender Studies, though it wasn't my major.
I also love giving gifts. It is one of my languages of love. The only occasion I need to give a gift is liking you.
Perfume bottles. The glass is so beautiful.
Smelling nice.
At risk of getting a bunch of pervy underthings
Gentle sunshine on my skin (that was fucking poetic; no?)
Late night trips to get froyo.
I spend a lot of time thinking about
Stories, I write a lot.
The zombie apocalypse.
The people I love.
On a typical Friday night I am
No typical for me. I could be working, bar hopping, dancing, at a dinner party, home alone with a movie, or working out.
The most private thing I’m willing to admit
I am NOT looking for love. I love easily and deeply. I have more people in my life that I love and who love me than I can even list. My goal in life is happiness. And on the love front I am completely and 100% satisfied.
What I AM looking for is HONESTY, INTEGRITY, and RESPECT. Those are huge orders to fill so if you don't think you can fill them 100% please don't waste my time. Or yours. Please know what those three things mean to you and what that looks like for you AND be able to articulate it.
Also, I'm a Unicorn. If you know what that means I'm giving you a high five right now.
I’m looking for
  • Guys and girls who like bi girls
  • Ages 18–30
  • Near me
  • For new friends, long-term dating, short-term dating
You should message me if
You think you can really get with the honesty, integrity, and respect requirements I have.
And secondly, if you are sex positive and understand what rape culture we live in and it's affects on us as men and women, especially if we aren't critical questioners I our cultural environment.
Don't message me if you aren't gonna put any effort in. I won't respond if all you say is, "hello, how are you?" If you've read my profile then there are a thousand things to talk about. I have time to spend not time to waste.