-Sighs- Now that that disclaimer is over on to the good stuff. : )
I'm looking for someone(s) with drive, goals, passion, a who aims to do something with what they are given. You don't have to know what it is or even be after it right this second. But if you live with ferocity, and want to experience something new without fear or judgement I would like to do that with you. : )
Also, please be proactive about your shit. I really have no time for people who are upset with where they are and are not trying to change it/be happy. I live my life as full as I possibly can every day and I don't need to date others who are that extreme. But they cannot be idle. Life is too finite for that.
That said, here are some important things about me.
Probably the most crucial thing you should know if you are interested in me is in my private fact. The rest of my information is important. But this is a big deal so it goes in a special spot.
I am Pansexual, not Bi.
I am often Polyamorous, but not always, it depends on who I am dating and where I am at with them.
I am very confident. I know who I am, what I want, and where I am going and I'm not afraid to say so. I have high standards for myself and I know exactly how much I am worth and I don't settle. So if you like confidence, I'm your girl. ; )
Okay, I've been told I'm cocky, not just confident. I'll agree with that.
I am strong and forward and if I want/need something from you you can always expect me to just tell you, not expect you to know. Also, I don't get upset about things easy. I stand my ground, and express myself, but in a calm, civil manner. I really hate drama and I don't want to be with someone who can't give me the same courtesy , so please, if you are not that kind of person, move along.
I'm a sucker for a good argument. If you can challenge the way I think without being an asshole I might makeout with you.
Respect and honesty make me hot and bothered.
I will stand up to you, but I want to be with people who will stand up to me, and push me to grow.
I am equally dark and sexy as I am cute and innocent. -bats eyelashes-
I am a classy lady, who likes to say fuck a lot.
It may be my very favorite word.
"Keeping it classy," is my motto. Until we are behind closed doors and among friends, then all bets are off and you better be prepared for what you are getting with me.
Honesty gets you really far with me. Even if its not what I want to hear, I REALLY respect it. Can honesty and respect be a turn on? The answer is yes. At least for me, : )
Hmmm... What else. I have an environmental science related degree. I chose that major to appease my logical and scientific half of my brain. My creative side and I love to sew, craft, and basically glitter everything. I spend a lot of time in my studio making stuff. I am currently taking fashion classes to expand on my little handmade empire.
I like to do things on my own. I get all warm and fuzzy inside when I have made something myself and I get to present it to the world.
I do not think the topic of sexual compatibility should be avoided, ever. It irks me to no end when that is what someone opens their conversation with. Just because its one of my, and everyone else's, favorite topics, doesn't mean it should be the very first one. But it should also NEVER be avoided.
I believe in putting time and effort in to build strong lasting relationships.
I am not going to run from love and commitment. It scares the fucking shit out of me, but I am brave, and strong, and determined to find good partners to go through the world with.
I believe in courting. However, I enjoy dating too.
I look you in the eye and say what i am feeling/thinking. I am not shy, or fearful of expressing myself and telling someone what i want or need, both emotionally or sexually. And I like to discuss the hows and whys and grow from there.
I have good credit (which I am damn proud of considering the spending habits of my generation) and I don't let people spend money on me easily. I have a tough time with that. As tight as money is; I try to always go Dutch. We have to date a while usually before I let someone else pick up the check.
I want to date someone(s) I can laugh with. And cuddle with. And go enjoy activities with.
I'm touchy feely. That has to be okay. I love human contact and often share it with my friends. I actually really need it so if seeing me cuddled up to a friend at a party and that would upset you I am not your girl. My language of love is often physical so I need to express it.