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Blondie4u01

30 / F / Straight / Single

Philadelphia, Pennsylvania

Her Details

Last Online
Feb 7
Ethnicity
White
Height
5′ 3″ (1.60m).
Body Type
Curvy
Diet
Smokes
No
Drinks
Socially
Drugs
Never
Religion
Other but not too serious about it
Sign
Aries and it’s fun to think about
Education
Graduated from college/university
Job
Executive / Management
Income
$50,000–$60,000
Offspring
Has a kid
Pets
Likes dogs and has cats
Speaks
English (Fluently)

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My self-summary
I'm very easy-going and not hard to please at all. I'm just looking for someone who I can not only click with on a "romantic" level but someone who I can have as a great friend. I love meeting new people and I'm willing to give anything a shot because you never know, right? If I could describe my ideal guy they would have to be someone who is honest and loyal. I haven't been in one relationship yet where a guy hasn't cheated on me or left me for another girl. I have always been lied to so I'm looking for that one guy who can really make me trust in people again. Also, a sense of humor helps :-) ...on another note, this is my first time actually on here in awhile (2 yrs) where I'm actively looking for someone. The reason I haven't been on here is because I've actually had a baby back in November. His name is Vince, he's 8 months, and the center of my universe. I never knew loving someone could go so deep until I was blessed with him :-). So to just put it out there...I obviously am a single mom, just looking for someone to be my better half. If you're not into the whole baby thing, and it freaks you out, please just walk away now. I'm a busy girl but I find time for things I enjoy and want. At this point in my life, I want a meaningful relationship and I'm hoping getting back on here helps!
...Now in my free time I LOVE to go out to eat. I enjoy many different types of food, but my favorite is Chinese, Japanese (mainly sushi). I'm always willing to try new places too! Going to the movies is so much fun! Always want to see the latest ones out there. Aside from those two things, I do really enjoy my down time(since I work so much) and just relaxing at home...watching T.V., enjoying a good movie, drinking wine. There's nothing better!
What I’m doing with my life
I currently am the Business Manager for an Alternative Education provider. Our company networks with schools districts and other public educational domains to change the negative students and culture. I used to be an English teacher, and was recently promoted...so far I absolutely love it! :-D
I’m really good at
writing. I absolutely love to write. In my spare time, I create my own quotes, poems, song lyrics. My "dream" would be to write my own book someday...a memoir, of all my encounters I've had with men and love. Some would say its quite comical lol ...and I just feel I have alot to say.
The first things people usually notice about me
I'm a social butterfly! I will try to strike up a conversation right away, so I hate when it's 'one-sided'...Don't always like to be the one doing all the talking, so the guy I'm looking for needs to be able to hold his own!
I laugh ALOT! lol ...and you'll most likely find me cracking jokes or 'teasing' people. It's all in good fun though ;-)
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
Favorite books- 'Animal Farm' and '1984' ~George Orwell; 'Push' ~Sapphire; 'Five People You Meet In Heaven'~Mitch Albom; 'Flowers In The Attic'~ V.C. Andrews; 'Caesar'~Shakespeare; 'Dear John' and 'The Notebook' ~Nicholas Sparks
Favorite movies- Sex and The City (the movie); He's Just Not That Into You; Transformers 1 & 2; Knocked Up; Obsessed; I Am Legend; Halloween; The Time Traveler's Wife; Taken; Silence of the Lambs and Red Dragon; Indecent Proposal; Anchorman; Lord of the Rings; Star Wars (yes, I said Star Wars lol); and The Notebook
Favorite Music- I'll listen to pretty much anything, except for country. However, since I used to teach hip-hop at a dance studio in Chester County..I listen to alot of that (anything that's popular on the radio)..and love alternative/classic rock. Favorite bands are Pearl Jam, Alice In Chains, and Van Halen.
Favorite Food- LOVE steak...chinese...and sushi. yum!
The six things I could never do without
1. My son, Vince
2. Food...everyone has to eat, but I just love food in general
3. My friends and family (cheesy I know)
4. My cat Bailey..he's super cute and super bad!
5. My reality tv shows..and just tv in general. I love to be entertained!
6. My cellphone..have to communicate with the world some how
I spend a lot of time thinking about
where I'll be in 5 years. It's funny how we envision our lives...things usually don't unfold as we had intended, but I guess that's one of the greatest aspects of life. You never know where it'll lead you...

Also, why do most guys message me on here, and then seem to lack the ability to hold a convo back and forth through the emails?!? You messaged me, so why am I doing all the talking and the only one asking questions??? Just a heads up fellas... Please don't message me if you're expecting a one-sided ordeal throughout this. That's just simply boring and not worth my time
On a typical Friday night I am
Hmm, well....usually at home relaxing with Vince...ordering takeout and catching up on my shows. BUT! If a nice guy that I get to know wants to take me out, bring on the babysitter! And we'll go have some fun :-)
The most private thing I’m willing to admit
I'm not really that private about most things...I do like my 'alone' time to just get back to me, and relax, but I really enjoy the company of others so it's fine either way.
Some random 'quirks' about me though: 1. I have to have Starbucks every single day...this is an expensive habit but I am addicted! 2. I'm pretty anal and organized about my stuff. I like things a certain way and enjoy cleaning alot! lol 3. I usually have about 3 glasses of milk a day..yet I'm lactose intolerant! ..It's crazy, I know 4. I have a cat named Bailey who I treat like my 'second' child. He's my baby :-) 5. I am probably one of the girliest girls you will ever meet. I love 'glitz' and 'glam' and use words like 'fabulous' and 'doll'...but ironically enough, I'm never afraid to get a little dirty..play sports..or anything like that
I’m looking for
  • Straight guys only
  • Ages 27–35
  • Near me
  • Who are single
  • For new friends, long-term dating
You should message me if
You see anything you like! ...and if you're looking for something long-term. I'm 29 and have done the casual dating thing, but now I'm looking for something more serious. If you think that fits your needs too then definitely message me :-)