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Blu_Haze

25 / M / straight / Single

Phoenix, Arizona

The Skinny

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Ethnicity
Hispanic / Latin, White
Height
6' 0" (1.82m).
Body Type
Looking For
New friends, Long-term dating, Short-term dating
Smokes
No
Drinks
Rarely
Drugs
Never
Religion
Agnosticism but not too serious about it
Sign
Aries but it doesn’t matter
Education
Working on college/university
Job
Income
Kids
Likes children
Pets
Owns dogs and Likes cats
Languages
English (Fluently)

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I am Laid-back, Romantic, and Excitable.

My Self-Summary

Ack. To be honest I've never really liked talking about myself too much. I've always preferred to listen to and learn more about other people than talk about myself. In fact I suppose you could say that's one of my favorite things to do when I meet someone new that I have an interest in, talking to and learning everything I can about them.

Anyway, if I had to say something about myself I suppose you could say that I was raised to be an old fashioned kind of guy. I always try to open doors, pull out chairs, walk on the outside of the sidewalk, get the bill, etc. Thankfully though I also developed a very open minded mentality as well, and I like to think that I'll try almost anything at least once. I believe that life is all about making choices, and learning from as many new experiences as you possibly can while you still have the ability to move and think for yourself.

One of the more popular icebreaker questions that I've been asked is what I look for in a girl. This question used to throw me every time, because I don't really have any specific "type". At this point in my life I have so many different interests, and life experiences, that I can usually find at least one thing to relate with just about anyone.

If I had to pick just one thing though that I would look for in a girl, it would be simply a companion. Even though I respect giving someone their personal space and alone time, one of my favorite things in life is to simply spend time with someone that I care about. Whether that be going out to a movie, visiting the zoo, window shopping, going for a walk, snowboarding, out for a drive, reading a book, talking on the phone, or even just cuddling on the couch after a long day. There are so many new things in life that I want to experience while I'm still relatively young, and what I want most right now is someone who would want to share those experiences with me.

It's my belief that the foundation for any good relationship are two simple things: Communication, and trust. I wouldn't expect anyone to freely give me their trust, as I understand it's something that is earned over time, and that the best way to obtain it is by just being able to communicate with them. If people are able to simply talk about what's on their mind honestly, then nearly anything can be overcome.

I love to make people laugh, and smile. To me there's no greater feeling than to know that I've in some way made another persons day better. Especially if it's someone that I have a personal interest in.

Around new people that I'm not familiar with, I can sometimes be a little quiet, and reserved. I like to observe. Once I get to know someone though, it can often be difficult to get me to shut up. =P

The first things people usually notice about me

I've never really given it a lot of thought personally, but from what I've heard over the past few years people seem to really notice my eyes.

They also notice that I'm a little quiet, and are surprised when I become comfortable and my real personality shines through lol.

The six things I could never do without

1) Love
I know it sounds cheesy and lame, but I list this as the number one thing that I couldn't do without because all the money, property, and possessions in the world wouldn't mean much to me if I never had someone to share it all with.

2) Music
Listening to the right kind of music instills passion and the inspiration to follow different paths in your life. It accentuates your current moods, and can even alter your mood for better or for worse. Something this powerful should be cherished as a gift.

3) Dreams
4)

I spend a lot of time thinking about

The Future