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47 F Belen, NM

My Details

Last Online
Dec 2, 2013
5′ 7″ (1.70m)
Body Type
A little extra
Cancer, but it doesn’t matter
Graduated from two-year college
Relationship Status
Relationship Type
Has a kid, but doesn’t want more
Likes dogs and likes cats
English (Fluently)

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My self-summary
Up front and to the point: i am not interested in replies from men nor am i looking to have a threesome with your partner as i wont be asking you to have one with mine. that said: I am an extroverted introvert. I love crafting things with my hands and spend entirely too much time in my head. I am a mother, a wife, a friend, and a caregiver. I love my husband but crave an intimate relationship with a woman. Yes, he knows. No, he doesn't have to be involved. Vanilla is not my flavor... I have a lil' kink in my tail. I would like to say that I could be that "soft touch of another woman...blah blah blah" person, but I am more physically intense than that. I am still in caterpillar stage and am still morphing into whatever it is I'm supposed to finally emerge as, be that butterfly or moth. I do believe in unicorns and hope to find mine some day.
What I’m doing with my life
Taking care of family who need me. I would say I'm a homemaker, but I spend entirely too much time at doctor's offices not on my behalf for that to be true. I am, however, looking for employment that would allow me to still take care of my commitments to my family.
I’m really good at
Making things with beads or leather or cloth; putting my foot in my mouth; taking care of others; being a mom.
The first things people usually notice about me
Long, blonde hair and blue eyes.
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
There's not one book I can say is my absolute favorite. I loved the Wheel of Time series, The Hunger Games series, am on book 10 (or 11 or 12) of the Recluse series by Modesitt. Heck, I even enjoyed the trashy and wildly successful bad writing in the Shades of Gray books. I like funny or animated movies with the occasional action flick thrown in for good measure. Favorites are Snatch, Pulp Fiction, Lock, Stock and Two Smoking Barrels and Up! Favorite shows would be Dexter, Breaking Bad, Sons of Anarchy, True Blood and Fringe. I love alternative, soft and hard rock, a little new age, a little industrial, a little of just about every type. I love to sing. I love food but try not to indulge too much... unless its chocolate.
The six things I could never do without
My husband, my dog Max, my computer, my Kindle, music, love. I could live without Doctor Who, but I would be a very sad panda!
I spend a lot of time thinking about
what I can do to improve the me that I am.
On a typical Friday night I am
Out to dinner with my whole famn damily.
The most private thing I’m willing to admit
I feel painfully awkward when meeting new people.
I’m looking for
  • Girls who like girls
  • Ages 25–55
  • Near me
  • For new friends, long-term dating, short-term dating, casual sex
You should message me if
You're not into drama. You're looking for a friend. You're looking for a friend with benefits. You like it a ill' kinky or at least understand that we don't all want vanilla all the time. You're willing to take a chance. Unicorns are highly desired.