I am an extroverted introvert. I love crafting things with my hands and spend entirely too much time in my head. I am a mother, a wife, a friend, and a caregiver. I love my husband but crave an intimate relationship with a woman. Yes, he knows. No, he doesn't have to be involved. Vanilla is not my flavor... I have a lil' kink in my tail. I would like to say that I could be that "soft touch of another woman...blah blah blah" person, but I am more physically intense than that. I am still in caterpillar stage and am still morphing into whatever it is I'm supposed to finally emerge as, be that butterfly or moth. I do believe in unicorns and hope to find mine some day.

Taking care of family who need me. I would say I'm a homemaker, but I spend entirely too much time at doctor's offices not on my behalf for that to be true. I am, however, looking for employment that would allow me to still take care of my commitments to my family.

Making things with beads or leather or cloth; putting my foot in my mouth; taking care of others; being a mom.

Long, blonde hair and blue eyes.

There's not one book I can say is my absolute favorite. I loved the Wheel of Time series, The Hunger Games series, am on book 10 (or 11 or 12) of the Recluse series by Modesitt. Heck, I even enjoyed the trashy and wildly successful bad writing in the Shades of Gray books. I like funny or animated movies with the occasional action flick thrown in for good measure. Favorites are Snatch, Pulp Fiction, Lock, Stock and Two Smoking Barrels and Up! Favorite shows would be Dexter, Breaking Bad, Sons of Anarchy, True Blood and Fringe. I love alternative, soft and hard rock, a little new age, a little industrial, a little of just about every type. I love to sing. I love food but try not to indulge too much... unless its chocolate.

My husband, my dog Max, my computer, my Kindle, music, love.

what I can do to improve the me that I am.

Out to dinner with my whole famn damily.

I feel painfully awkward when meeting new people.

You're not into drama. You're looking for a friend. You're looking for a friend with benefits. You like it a ill' kinky or at least understand that we don't all want vanilla all the time. You're willing to take a chance. Unicorns are highly desired.