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49 Belen, NM Woman


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I’m looking for

  • Women
  • Ages 25-55
  • Near me
  • For new friends, long-term dating, short-term dating, casual sex

My details

Last online
May 1
5' 7" (1.70m)
Body Type
A little extra
Two-year college
Has kid(s) and doesn’t want more
English (Fluently)
My self-summary
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Up front and to the point: i am not interested in replies from men nor am i looking to have a threesome with your partner as I wont be asking you to have one with mine. that said: I am an extroverted introvert. I love crafting things with my hands and spend entirely too much time in my head. I am a mother, a wife, a friend, and a caregiver. I love my husband but crave an intimate relationship with a woman. Yes, he knows. No, he doesn't have to be involved. Vanilla is not my flavor... I have a lil' kink in my tail. I would like to say that I could be that "soft touch of another woman...blah blah blah" person, but I am more physically intense than that. I am still in caterpillar stage and am still morphing into whatever it is I'm supposed to finally emerge as, be that butterfly or moth. I want to find a woman who wants a relationship in more than the bedroom.
What I’m doing with my life
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I have started doing rescue and foster dogs and get them ready for their forever homes. I also volunteer at the local shelter and help out with taking care of the animals.
I’m really good at
Go on, brag a little (or a lot). We won’t judge.
Making things with beads or leather or cloth; putting my foot in my mouth; taking care of others; being a mom.
The first things people usually notice about me
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Long, blonde hair and blue eyes.
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
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There's not one book I can say is my absolute favorite. I loved the Wheel of Time series, The Hunger Games series, the Recluse series by Modesitt. Heck, I even enjoyed the trashy and wildly successful bad writing in the Shades of Gray books. I like funny or animated movies with the occasional action flick thrown in for good measure. Favorites are Snatch, Pulp Fiction, Lock, Stock and Two Smoking Barrels and Up! Favorite shows would be Orange is the New Black, Sons of Anarchy, True Blood and Fringe. I love alternative, soft and hard rock, a little new age, a little industrial, a little of just about every type. I love to sing. I love food but try not to indulge too much... unless its chocolate.
The six things I could never do without
Think outside the box. Sometimes the little things can say a lot.
Love, My husband, my dog Max, my computer, my Kindle, music.
I spend a lot of time thinking about
Global warming, lunch, or your next vacation… it’s all fair game.
what I can do to improve the me that I am.
On a typical Friday night I am
Netflix and takeout, or getting your party on — how do you let loose?
Kicking it at home with the hubby and having family and friends over for good food and good company.
The most private thing I’m willing to admit
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I feel painfully awkward when meeting new people.
You should message me if
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You're not into drama. You're looking for a friend... with benefits. You like it a ill' kinky or at least understand that we don't all want vanilla all the time. You're willing to take a chance. You like both giving and receiving because I need someone who is not just a pillow princess.