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BlueBlackSilver

38 / M / Straight / Single

San Francisco, California

His Details

Last Online
Yesterday – 11:30pm
Ethnicity
White
Height
5′ 9″ (1.75m).
Body Type
Thin
Diet
Mostly anything
Smokes
Drinks
Drugs
Religion
Other and laughing about it
Sign
Virgo
Education
Working on college/university
Job
Artistic / Musical / Writer
Income
Offspring
Doesn’t have kids
Pets
Has cats
Speaks
English

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My self-summary
I make a good living as a professional food server. It's really my only vocational skill as I started working in restaurants in high school and continued through college. It just worked out that restaurant work is well suited for supporting those, like myself, who made the questionable decision to pursue a career in music. I might as well go to Hollywood and try to get discovered! Same odds. It is my dream though and this one doesn't seem to want to go away. In my 12 years in San Francisco I have played in several projects to varying degrees of success. I've had the pleasure of touring the west coast and performing many shows in the bay area. I have 1 full length album and three EPs under my belt. I am a singer and guitar player primarily but in my last two groups I played bass and love love love playing drums. I'm long past the point of having delusions of grandeur about suddenly becoming some huge rockstar celebrity. Not that I don't have ambition, there's simply too many very talented people doing amazing things. 99% never recognized for it, yet we continue! A good friend of mine is in an awesome band that sells out Bimbo's and The Great American Music Hall with an army of devoted fans but half the year he's bussing tables and taking odd jobs to squeak by. That's the way it is, I guess. Regardless, I'm a "Lifer".

Outside of music my interests are broad. I love counter-culture. I'm fascinated with science and astronomy. The sheer wonder of occupying a body on earth. How and whys, great mysteries. I write often and dabble in drawing and painting. I'm a movie freak. I'm well read though it's been a couple of years since I've read anything at all. I love comedy/comics. I come from a family of ripping punsters and am quick with snarky comments and call backs. A sense of humor is crucial. Without it life would be unbearable.

I was raised Unitarian but am not a religious person. I consider myself spiritually inclined but chose not to identify with any one ideology. A bit of a mystic, really. Unconventional belief system, always subject to change. If you have an active faith that resembles anything like fundamentalist Christianity or any such religion there's a good chance we won't get along.

And just to be clear right off the bat, I don't care for flags, borders, wealth, war, violence, advertising, zoos, cars (especially yellow hummer limos), Las Vegas, black licorice, arguing, hospitals, musical theatre/dance performances, olives, the word 'should', waiting on people I know at work, blue jays, emoticons and any use of 'lol' or the like... and the color yellow.
I’m really good at
Writing, recording and performing Music
Intentional and unintentional hilarity.
Disarming anger and negative situations.
Knowing what people are really thinking despite what they're saying.
Finding lost objects.
Coming up with clever phrases, band names and song titles.
Amateur psychology and problem solving.
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
My taste in music is pretty specialized. Pretty much comprised of the styles I like to emulate in my own music. Dark, fuzzy, pretty, psychedelic, melodic rock and roll. I can absorb anything if it's quality.
The six things I could never do without
The G'Damn Drums
Humor and Hilarity
The love of my family and friends
Having a choice
Fascination
Something else
On a typical Friday night I am
Generally working. I'm not a big bar/club enthusiast and try to keep away from the teeming throngs of sloppy amateurs that stumble the streets in bad shoes in bad form forcing fun and drama...maybe I've lived here too long! Just kids, I was there once...kinda.
I’m looking for
  • Girls who like guys
  • Ages 26–40
  • Near me
  • Who are single
  • For long-term dating, short-term dating
You should message me if
yer so inclined.