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25 San Diego, CA Man


I’m looking for

  • Women
  • Ages 18–35
  • Near me
  • Who are single
  • For long-term dating, short-term dating

My details

Last online
Yesterday – 9:14pm
6′ 0″ (1.83m)
Body type
Mostly other
Not at all
Agnosticism, and laughing about it
Scorpio, but it doesn’t matter
Working on university
Strictly monogamous
Doesn’t have kids
Has dogs
English (Fluently), Japanese (Okay)

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My self-summary
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Hi :) I don't wear makeup, and I don't take pictures of myself constantly. So don't get mad if I'm more attractive than you in real life lol

I prefer everything of meaning to be sincere, and everything without meaning to be entertaining.

Thinking about long term too much has curved my enthusiasm and motivation in regards to almost everything in my life. Which is something I've come to terms with and am willing to surrender to the correct person.

About myself and my passions? At an early age I thought learning an instrument would enrich my life, not make my perspective convoluted. Fast forward a couple years to college where I followed a white rabbit down a hole which emptied my pockets. What a waste of years I spent, yet, an immense lust for creating came as a result, and an understanding of who I am, my identity came from my expenses, my starvation made me content. I can be happy with very little. :) But I'd like to strive to be better than I am.

I currently teach English and music during the day, slowly awaiting my debt doom that will come forth from whatever piece of paper I pay for when I return to the nearest university. Then, I will be on to the next life goal that society pushes onto me until I'm sitting with a large gut and a Hawaiian T-shirt yelling about football because I have nothing else to be passionate
What I’m doing with my life
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Making music



Going back to uni

Comedy(not the greek kind)




Beating noobs(I wish :( )
I’m really good at
Go on, brag a little (or a lot). We won’t judge.




or situational music placement
The first things people usually notice about me
I’m an empty essay… fill me out!
People always ask me if I'm from England. I guess I have an accent. No clue wtf they're talking about. Maybe because I pronounce words in an eloquent way....


I look like a mix of River Phoenix and Jim Carey(resting bitch face).
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
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Books: The Sandman, Ezperanza, The Submission(not like the 50 shades of grey), The Practical Naturalist, The Curious Incident of the Dog in the Night Time,
What We Talk About When We Talk About Love, The Electric Kool-Aid Acid Test

Movies: The Truman Show, Eternal Sunshine of The Spotless Mind, American Psycho, Sweeney Todd: Demon Barber of Fleet Street(not with Johnny Depp), Spirited Away, Before the Devil Knows You're Dead, Indiana Jones and the Last Crusade, Amadeus, Spork, F for Fake, Toy Story, Annie Hall, Cloud Atlas, The Ninth Gate,
(Untitled), Brief Interviews with Hideous Men, One Flew Over the Cuckoo's Nest, Mary and Max, LOTR, The Talented Mr. Ripley, The Game, Blue Velvet, Howl's Moving Castle, Dear Lemon Lima, Love Liza, Happy Accidents, Waking Life, Up, Amelie.... So many O_O

Shows: Peep Show, American Horror Story, South Park, Futurama, Game of Thrones, An Idiot Abroad, The Office, Saxondale, The Cruise, Orange Is the New Black, Breaking Bad, Walking Dead, and Mad Men.

Elliott Smith, The Cardigans, Knife Party, Zomboy, Brookes Brothers, Animal Collective, Beck(old pre-whiney Beck), The Pillows, Maximum the Hormone, Mr. Bungle, Clams Casino, Coco Rosie, Panda Bear, Pantera, Sakanaction, I like a lot of soundtracks too, Tchaikovsky<3, Rachmaninoff, Prokovief, Radiohead, Children of Bodom, Heat Miser, Miniature Tigers... so many more and it is ever changing...

Korean BBQ, Korean BBQ, Korean BBQ, Korean BBQ, Korean BBQ, Korean BBQ, Korean BBQ, Korean BBQ, Korean BBQ, Korean BBQ, Korean BBQ, Korean BBQ, Korean BBQ, Korean BBQ, Korean BBQ, Korean BBQ, Korean BBQ, Korean BBQ, Korean BBQ, Orange Chicken, Elevation Burger, Pizza, and cookies, cookies, cookies,cookies,cookies,cookies,cookies,cookies,cookies,cookies,cookies,cookies,cookies,cookies,cookies,cookies,cookies,cookies,cookies,cookies,cookies,cookies,cookies,cookies,cookies,cookies,cookies,cookies... I mean...broccoli :(
The six things I could never do without
Think outside the box. Sometimes the little things can say a lot.
fat dogs
I spend a lot of time thinking about
Global warming, lunch, or your next vacation… it’s all fair game.
Strategies, motives, and possible outcomes. The ends. The beginnings. Why my dogs shake their legs when I scratch them in the perfect spot.
On a typical Friday night I am
Netflix and takeout, or getting your party on — how do you let loose?
The same thing I do everyday... TRY TO TAKE OVER THE WORLD!
The most private thing I’m willing to admit
I’m an empty essay… fill me out!
I've interned for a multi-platinum selling artist.

I can eat a large myself.

I look better in real life ;)
You should message me if
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You hate everyone, except you hate me little less.