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44 M San Francisco, CA

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  • Ages 27–45
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My Details

Last Online
Sep 13
5′ 11″ (1.80m)
Body Type
Agnosticism, but not too serious about it
Virgo, and it’s fun to think about
Graduated from masters program
Relationship Status
Relationship Type
Doesn’t have kids, but might want them
Likes dogs and likes cats

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My self-summary
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I’ve been living in the Bay Area for the past 12 years. I feel like I’ve lived a lifetime or two in that span. As a kid, I grew up on a cattle ranch in the Midwest. My father could be the Marlboro man. After college in Montana, I became a ski bum in Colorado trying to decide what to do with the rest of my life. Then I moved to Japan to build log homes, then to grad school back in the states with a year studying and working in France. Then, voila, San Francisco Bay Area here I am working in international banking. There were a few details I missed, but those are the high points.

I guess the point to that life story is that if the world as we know it ends tomorrow and the human population ends up in some sort of post-apocalyptic nuclear winter, like in the book The Road, I’m the man you want to be rolling with because…

1. I’m good with my hands (which can be useful for both our mutual survival and smacking some fools around if the situation warrants (I’m a lover, not a fighter though), and whatever else you might think hands are good for.

2. I can breed animals* ( I learned a thing or two on the ranch about animal husbandry) *For clarification, I won’t be the one personally breeding the animals – I’m kinda’ kinky, but I draw the line.

3. I’m a survivalist (learned that at Burning Man, plus I can hunt, fish, and farm from growing up on a ranch. I also go camping quite a bit and love the outdoors.)

4. I can build stuff (engineering undergraduate degree, carpenter, and builder of log homes when I lived in Colorado ski resort and Japan)

5. I can handle myself in foreign and unfamiliar environments (I’ve traveled all over the world and have even lived in a few countries - Japan and France. I consider myself a curious and adventurous person so I love to travel.)

6. I like to party and have a good time (so I’ll be pleasant to be around when we won’t have a TV and good conversation is at a premium. Plus, I’m open-minded and adventurous sexually to keep things exciting on those days when planting vegetables and sharpening sticks is just getting a little old.)

7. I understand the complexities of global capital markets and international banking (my present job is in international banking - okay, that will have no use unless we need to set up some sort of black market currency exchange – unlikely, I know, but an MBA could come in handy when the world starts getting back on its feet and we need to organize things in the harmonious, utopian world we’ve created)

In conclusion, if you like to have a good time, or are looking for more with someone with serious skills like the ones listed above, or are concerned about the apocalypse (let’s not forget the Mayan calendar just ended), we should go out.
What I’m doing with my life
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Trying to get better at the business of living.
I’m really good at
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Being fun. I'm a good friend too. I'll go to war for my good friends.
The first things people usually notice about me
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My belly button.
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
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Movies - Avatar, The Big Lebowski. The Matrix, Blade Runner were sci-fi benchmarks. I watch quite a few movies, so ask me about something more recent. Django Unchained was one of the better movies I've seen recently. Enter the Void scarred me a little bit, like Requiem for a Dream did a long time ago.

Books - Last book I read was Ayn Rand's Fountainhead, which I thought was great, although I'm not a tea-partier by any stretch. Shantaram, any John Irving, Tom Robbins, Hermann Hess, also Dice Man was hilarious.

Shows - Love to see Cirque de Soleil shows when they are in town or in Vegas. I generally go to a Broadway show when in NYC too.

Music - Old school rock like the Rolling Stones, AC/DC, Metallica, Pearl Jam, Massive Attack, Thievery Corporation, good electronica - Pumpkin, Lee Burridge

Food - almost anything that's done well. I will search out good Ramen and Pho. And meat, particularly BBQ.
The six things I could never do without
Think outside the box. Sometimes the little things can say a lot.
Music - In almost all its forms, although I haven't quite got my mind around Dubstep and some, but not all, Hip Hop.
Water - I like to drink it, splash around in it, surf on it, ski on it when it freezes, sit in steam rooms of it, swim in it, plus its the main ingredient in any good cocktail
Outdoors - A big reason I'm living in California
My passport
A healthy body - I recently had knee surgery and it made me appreciate it more.
Food - If you don't eat it, you die.
On a typical Friday night I am
Netflix and takeout, or getting your party on — how do you let loose?
Out somewhere.
The most private thing I’m willing to admit
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I worked a stint in network marketing selling skin care [shudder]. No offense to those in that field. I have a lot of respect for those that make it there. You’ve got skills. A lot of good actually came from that experience though as I still find myself listening to personal development audio books in my car and it gave me clearer idea about living life with purpose. And how many guys do you know who can hold their own in a conversation about skin care? Not many, I’m guessing.
You should message me if
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If you like to have a good time, or are looking for more with someone with serious skills like the ones listed above, or are concerned about the apocalypse (let’s not forget the Mayan calendar just ended).