I'm most comfortable in my family's kitchen, a friends living room, or a quiet office. Four times a year I'm launched in to a huge, weekend long social event of thousands of people where I teach work shops and host mixers. I get my fill of crowds and networking then.
I love cooking, reading, surfing the internet, gardening, and ever pursuing a goal of self reliance. It's not uncommon to see me kicking back in a public place and people watching. Some of my best memories are sitting around my dad's dining room table and cutting up with the family.
We never were rich, but I grew up with a passion for knowledge and a love of a simple life. I've traveled abroad extensively, and would love to do it all again at some ones side.
I should warn any potential partners that I can not, and will not try to, have children. I am open to adoption, and am of course fine if you already have children of your own.
I'm polyamorous (not polygamist, not a swinger, and DEFINITELY not an adulterer). This is not negotiable or a phase. If you're not sure what that is, read up on it, broaden your horizons and, by all means, explore. How ever, I'm not willing to be your experiment in the lifestyle or a one night conquest for you to brag about. I'm searching for a long term relationship with some one I can build a life and poly family with.
As such, I'm currently part of a poly group. I live with a female, and while we don't have sex, we're very much a part of each other's lives, and will be forever. Every one has baggage, mine is people shaped. The other part of our poly group is a married male. While he doesn't live with us and has a family (with open disclosure, mind you), he is also a permanent part of our lives.