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35 M Baltimore, MD

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Black, Native American
5′ 9″ (1.75m)
Body Type
Christianity, but not too serious about it
Cancer, and it’s fun to think about
Graduated from masters program
Relationship Status
Relationship Type
Strictly monogamous
Doesn’t have kids, but wants them
Likes dogs and likes cats
English (Fluently), Spanish (Poorly)

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My self-summary
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Apparently I'm an INTJ, but I honestly believe there's a lot of ambiguity in that test :/.

Alright, here's a MUCH better assessment of my personality:

I am a "thinking man" who spends a lot of time chasing his passions. I can also be quite a goofball when I want to, snapping out one-liners relevant to whatever situation I'm in. And yes, I'm also an quite a geek, who digs into his passions. I also love a good movie (or maybe a bad, but fun one), and I'm huge on great music, and musical acts. I like to listen to people as well, because people's various perspectives on different things fascinate me, especially concerning different forms of art, and in some cases, history. I also love bike riding even though I don't currently own one, and time in natural settings are fun as well. My personality seems to come out in the piano music I write, with people describing it as dreamy, peaceful, and calming, lol.

If you're up for something like kayaking, paddle-boating, horseback riding, racing R/C vehicles in a park after bike riding, exploring town for a new coffee shop, or a new museum, I'm game, :). I'm also gearing up to try a lot of stuff I've never done before, like horseback riding, kayaking, and hopefully soon, sailing.

And I'm definitely interested in eventually landing in a long term committed relationship with the right person. If things are going well, and we are both on the same page, I'm all for it.
What I’m doing with my life
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Professional software developer, practicing and composing music as much as I can, developing and designing video games on the side. I'm a keyboard player who's training lies primarily in jazz too...go figure. But that's been my favorite genre of music since I was 9 years old. I love many types of music though, and am able to find many things to appreciate about so many different types of art. I'm also a big fan of jazz influenced folk, 60's Brit influenced pop rock music, bossa nova and salsa music, and British invasion 80's music :D. I'm excited about figuring out ways to apply my graphics, music, and programming skills in the future to help build games and application software people really enjoy using, and hopefully even make learning more fun. I am now working full time with the federal government as an Software Developer, and look forward to gaining even more experience in the IT field. My ultimate dream is make enough money to seed my own business, being able to afford to outsource work to get albums completed, and games developed.
I’m really good at
Go on, brag a little (or a lot). We won’t judge.
Laughing, one-liners, choosing and keeping friends, computers, messing around with instrumental music, random banter.
The first things people usually notice about me
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A shaven head? White Teeth? Erm...not sure. *looks around to see if anyone could tell me*
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
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Books: The art of happiness was the last great book I read for enjoyment. I loved "The Life and Death of American Cities" by Jane Jacobs, but if I hadn't had to read for a class, I wouldn't have picked it up, lol. That book was awesome once I began to understand what she was trying to say though. Otherwise, I'm too busy reading to absorb technical information. One of these days I'll make more time for enjoyment reading...
T.V. Shows: Orange is the New Black, House of Cards, Game of Thrones, The Wire, The Sopranos, Various Marvel Comic related T.V series, various Anime series like Darker than Black, Phantoms, etc.
Movies: Spider-Man, Batman Begins, The Dark Knight, Iron Man, Iron Man 2, Lord of the Rings Trilogy, Pan's Labyrinth, American Zombie, The Matrix (first one only), What Dreams may Come, Patch Adams, Good Morning Vietnam, some great classic horror like Christine and Near Dark as well as much respect (but I'll never watch it again, it made me keep the light on for 2 weeks) for The Exorcist and...those are a few that I can think of that had a solid impact on me in one way or another. I also love good martial arts movies, like Ong Bak and Kung-Fu Hustle:).
Music: Way more than this list but: Miles Davis, The sonar Collectiv Orchestra, Jazzanova, Clara Hill, John Coltrane, Steely Dan, Swing Out Sister, Astrud Gilbero, Janelle Monae, Prince, Erykah Badu, Jill Scott, Bebel Gilberto, Ellis Regina, Ella Fitzgerald and Cole Porter, Jane Monheit's covers of the aforementioned artists, and modern game orchestrators like Noubo Umaetsu, and Hitoshi Sakimoto. As for Rock: The Beatles, The Kinks, The Zombies, The Doors, The Beach Boys, The Mars Volta, XTC, A Perfect Circle. Folk/Rock: Joni Mitchell, Thief, Pat Metheney, CheckField. 80's British invasion, including Phil Collins, Tears for Fears, Joe Jackson (even though I believe he is Canadian), Level 42 (some of their stuff, anyway). The list goes on and on...
Food: During the week, mainly salads, wraps, lean meats and smoothies. On the weekends I eat whatever though, usually wings and a cider at a local pub (Dry rub wings at Red Brick Station are awesome!), sushi at a place like XS in mount vernon or sushi hana in towson, or whatever else may strike my fancy. I'm not extremely picky.
The six things I could never do without
Think outside the box. Sometimes the little things can say a lot.
Air, Water, Food, a job...ok, maybe the list isn't THAT serious...

Family, Friends, My computers, cell phone, car (because public transportation in Baltimore is terrible), and last but not keyboard. Me and that thing go way back.
I spend a lot of time thinking about
Global warming, lunch, or your next vacation… it’s all fair game.
Getting ready to purchase my first new home, Gaining a better perspective on my craft, (which is music, programming, and digital art), what I have to do for school, etc...the usual. Currently working with my team to found a software development company, so getting that going is slowly beginning to invade my mind more than usual.
On a typical Friday night I am
Netflix and takeout, or getting your party on — how do you let loose?
Over my best friend's house spending time with his family and my goddaughter (usually watching some flick we think is awesome), catching a few drinks at a happy hour, or maybe I'm out at the coffeehouse reading something.
The most private thing I’m willing to admit
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I have a huge imagination, and I'm a video game and movie geek. Not so much that I can recite a bunch of lines or anything, but I can have some pretty fun conversations about various games and movies.
You should message me if
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You love music and art, hiking, biking, kayaking, museums, board and/or video games and want to hear from a guy who is funny, and likes to talk about lots of interesting things, as well as talk to a guy who may be a thinker, but he likes to have fun doing it. I know it can be jarring to join a site like this, and get spammed by all kinds of guys too, clamoring for your limited time. But if you're interested, feel free to drop me a line.

Also message me if you know a good bit or two about the housing market, lol. Looking to buy my first home soon.

Also, you may gather after reading this profile that I'm not the biggest fan of popular culture, and am a bit of a renaissance man. There is a lot of truth to that, mainly because I aim to judge art, music, etc based on their individual value to me, not based on their popularity. (i.e. you will never find me listening to certain kinds of music, order to gain acceptance among a group of people, or feel "included", lol). If the song is good and it moves me, great. I could care less what the person who made it looks like, or how popular they are. Cultural norms mean nothing to me if the goal of adhering to them is acceptance. I also am not a fan of assigning people cultural traits and norms based on their race, religion, where they were born, etc. I just want to help score a +1 for humanity, because we are all in this boat called Earth together. Go in peace!