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BlueJohnNY56

58 Averill Park, NY Man

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I’m looking for

  • Women
  • Ages 40–64
  • Located anywhere
  • For new friends, long-term dating

My Details

Last Online
Dec 22
Orientation
Straight
Ethnicity
White
Height
6′ 0″ (1.83m)
Body Type
Overweight
Diet
Smokes
No
Drinks
Not at all
Drugs
Never
Religion
Other
Sign
Virgo
Education
Graduated from high school
Job
Politics / Government
Income
Rather not say
Relationship Status
Single
Relationship Type
Offspring
Has a kid
Pets
Likes dogs and likes cats
Speaks
English

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My self-summary
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I believe if two people have a genuine attraction, with an honest connection, they can create absolute magic together.

I'm not looking for perfect, no one is, just perfect for one another. Chemistry, we all know it starts there. So I'm looking to talk, share, date, with the hope to build a serious relationship with an honest and sincere woman. I may not be the perfect man, with a perfect body, but I don't pretend to be someone I'm not because I'm good at being me. I'm caring, loving, romantic, respectful, honest, faithful, affectionate, genuine, and a down to earth guy. I like holding hands, walks together... our time alone, or w/ friends family.

That being said, I tend to like the simple pleasures and magic in life, and try to enjoy the moment. I'm definitely a die-hard romantic and I have a very pronounced sense of wonder and playfulness. Reading and books are my passion, along with movies, Nature, Number, talk and dreams, and sharing what life brings.

I enjoy a wide range of music, with a special fondness for movie scores (since I love movies) and smooth jazz. I also like photography, art, museums, architecture, and anything even remotely historical

I'm looking for a friend, companion, life partner, just that special someone who tends to feel the same way. An intelligent woman of sensitivity and empathy ideally, who's been through some rough times in her life maybe, perhaps damaged a bit, but still here moving onwards. If you're one of the fortunate ones who've made it through life this far unscathed, we might not have that common ground there. Inquisitive, curious, and has come to that point in her life where sharing and caring is something cherished, and having a child-like sense of wonder doesn't necessarily mean trying to re-capture their teenage years, although that doesn't mean not enjoying and playing with life, because that's a given. The golden years can be the best of life if you have the right someone to share them with. So if reading a good book is a cherished slice of life for you, or losing yourself in a good movie is one of your simple joys; if having someone to hold hands with as we walk through life together is something you care about, and if any of this at all sounds familiar... maybe we should talk?
What I’m doing with my life
Don’t overthink this one; tell us what you’re doing day-to-day.
Living it as best I can... and enjoying those moments.
I’m really good at
Go on, brag a little (or a lot). We won’t judge.
Loyalty, honesty, & being protective.
The first things people usually notice about me
I’m an empty essay… fill me out!
I'm big, tall, good-looking (so I've been told), can have intense eyes, and like to laugh and kid about things.
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
Help your potential matches find common interests.
Of favorite books there are many... like Michael Crichton type thrillers and adventures, James Rollins, HP Lovecraft, loved Lord of the Rings, Legend of the Seeker, Game of Thrones, historical fiction, and much more.

Love Hitchcock movies, something uniquely special about his work. Early John Carpenter films as well. But any genre movie can be good if it's crafted well.

TV shows I like are Homeland, Banshee, The Americans, Downton Abbey, Game of Thrones, Vikings, Resurrection, even Survivor, Amazing Race, Shark Tank, etc.

Music, I like most kinds, especially smooth jazz, blues, and musical scores. (my love of movies, after all)

Food I'm willing and open to try most things, but have pretty basic tastes otherwise... definitely love pizza!
The six things I could never do without
Think outside the box. Sometimes the little things can say a lot.
My daughter, books, movies, my job (not because I necessarily enjoy it, but because it's hard to live without one, or at least the paycheck that comes with it), and, of course, my car. Walking to work would be a bitch, heh. And love. Loving is something special, loving life, the little things, and if you're lucky, a special someone.
I spend a lot of time thinking about
Global warming, lunch, or your next vacation… it’s all fair game.
Everything... I'm endlessly curious and so I tend to think about a lot of things, in general. Life is full of possibilities, learning, and wonder!
On a typical Friday night I am
Netflix and takeout, or getting your party on — how do you let loose?
It can vary, but probably home, right now anyway. Although I am a homebody at heart, still, it'd be nice to find that significant other to do things with, be with, hang out, have the occasional adventure with, etc....
The most private thing I’m willing to admit
I’m an empty essay… fill me out!
Well, it's certainly not the most private thing, but I'm definitely a die-hard romantic at heart. I'm a sucker, yep.
You should message me if
Offer a few tips to help matches win you over.
Any of this strikes a chord with you... we're all looking for a connection of some sort here, and if there's an interest of some kind, or something kind of grabs you in my profile, why not contact me? I've tried to lay it out there best I can, and hope that she'll happen upon me, read it, and say, 'There you are!', or at least ideally that would happen. But hey, whatever the reason, say hello, I won't bite. =]

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