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BlueLavender2

60 F Urbana, IL

My Details

Last Online
Today – 2:51am
Orientation
Straight
Ethnicity
White
Height
5′ 4″ (1.63m)
Body Type
Average
Diet
Anything
Smokes
No
Drinks
Socially
Drugs
Never
Religion
Other, and somewhat serious about it
Sign
Education
Graduated from university
Job
Art / Music / Writing
Income
Relationship Status
Single
Relationship Type
Offspring
Has kids, but doesn’t want more
Pets
Likes cats
Speaks
English (Fluently), Spanish (Poorly)

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My self-summary
New pics from 2014 - date stamp wrong. Pic 2 from 2010. I have expanded my search distance wise, but I would prefer someone geographically closer.

Please, please read my profile before contacting me and review my survey answers. If we are below an 80% match, it will not work.

I am fiercely curious and love to learn. Current events are critical. Currently taking Tai Chi and a New Yorker study group. Will attend Roger Eberts Film festival this year again.

I'm interested in guys with depth who are extremely self-aware and "awake" and unflinchingly pursue personal growth. Multiple topics interest me - politics, medicine, law, science, psychology, sociological issues, spirituality.

Intellectual engagement and repartee are essential. I am engaged with the world around me. I am an artist, journalist and love creative writing, particularly prose.

I have a deep social conscience and would want to be with someone who is equally committed and generous to others.

I'm also quite social and outgoing. I love to have fun, laugh, and be silly, too. I have the ability to find joy in the small things which light up my day. I have good and dear friends who give my life much meaning.

I have been a journalist and artist - but also have a strong background in science. I am most content when engaged in a creative project and when with friends. Lively discussions are fun, too.
I’m really good at
Helping people feel safe with me, accepting others, creating ambiance/mood through visual arts and lighting, analyzing films and stories, perusing vast quantities of research to distill salient facts...
The first things people usually notice about me
My smile, my eagerness to connect.
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
Favorite all time book, "Their Eyes Are Watching God" by Zora Neale Hurston; others, "This One Thing I know Is True" by Wally Lamb, "A Prayer For Owen Meany" by John Irving. Foreign films, "As It Is In Heaven" about the redemption of a gifted pianist. "Green Papya" and other foreign films; recently reading The New Yorker, love the NYT, Glen Greenwald, Nate Silver.
The six things I could never do without
books
classes
connections to friends
on-line research access
compassion
creativity
On a typical Friday night I am
Watching a film(DVD) with friends; at a music venue listening to jazz vocalists or other music; chilling; reading
I’m looking for
  • Straight guys only
  • Ages 42–68
  • Located anywhere
  • Who are single
  • For new friends, long-term dating