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I’m looking for

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  • Ages 23-37
  • Near me
  • Who are single
  • For new friends, long-term dating, short-term dating

My details

Last online
Today – 11:55am
Relationship Type
Mostly monogamous
6' 2" (1.88m)
Body Type
Agnosticism and laughing about it
Post grad
Doesn’t have kids and doesn’t want them
English (Fluently), French (Somewhat), German (Somewhat), Spanish (Somewhat)
My self-summary
Write a little about yourself. Just a paragraph will do.
In October of 2011, I moved from Boston to Seattle to reboot my life.

I had no job, my housing plans had fallen through, I barely knew two people in town (who were friends of my sister), and I brought only what I could carry with me on the plane.

I had never lived outside of New England.

We get to choose what our lives look like. I'm looking for someone else who wants to choose to build something unique.
What I’m doing with my life
Don’t overthink this one; tell us what you’re doing day-to-day.
I'm a musician/educator, mostly a singer, and I consider myself one of the lucky ones. After I earned my Master's and taught in Boston with the Metropolitan Opera Guild, I decided to quit my job and move cross country to pursue a career in performance. I do the opera thing, some musical theater, and my own singer-songwriter stuff.

Sometimes I do it in crappy bars. Sometimes I do it with famous musicians.

This past year consisted of touring my one man show in Boston and New York, teaching at two local music schools, and a 10 month contract with the Seattle Opera to do a cycle of three world premieres. Let's just say that I keep busy.

This year, I'm traveling to Eugene, OR to sing an opera, and I have my debuts with the Seattle Symphony and Atlanta Symphony (and that's all before June- who knows where I'll be this fall?).
I’m really good at
Go on, brag a little (or a lot). We won’t judge.
I give a heckuva back massage, and I hold my own in a pun-off.
The first things people usually notice about me
I’m an empty essay… fill me out!
How much I look like an INFJ, but I'm really an INTJ. Clearly.
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
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Catcher in the Rye, Blankets, The Perks of being a wallflower, anything by David Sedaris, anything by Kelly Link, Box Office Poison by Alex Robinson, An Arsonist's Guide to Writers' Home in New England, A Single Man, anything by Vonnegut, Neil Gaiman, Oscar Wilde, Winter's Light: Reflections of a Yankee Queer, Blueprints of the Afterlife

The Beatles, My Brightest Diamond, The Shins, Queen, Sufjan Stevens, Ben Folds, Miles Davis, Debussy, Puccini, Rufus Wainwright, Arvo Part, Steve Reich, oldies (Motown, 60's-70's), Amanda Palmer (Dresden Dolls), Owen Pallett, Nico Muhly, Regina Spektor, yMusic, Son Lux, Fiona Apple, Kishi Bashi, Perfume Genius...

A Single Man, The Princess Bride, Clue, Murder By Death, Amelie, Lord of the Rings, Eternal Sunshine of the Spotless Mind, Kill Bill, American Splendor, I Heart Huckabees, Once, Stranger than Fiction, American Beauty, Samsara, the Before Sunrise trilogy, Boyhood, Mad Max: Fury Road

Game of Thrones, Sherlock, House of Cards, The Comeback, Orange is the New Black, Firefly, Pushing Daisies, 30Rock, The Daily Show, The Colbert Report, Six Feet Under, BtVS, Mad Men, Extras, Archer, Angel, West Wing, Difficult People, Parks and Rec, Rick and Morty,

Radiolab, This American Life, The Moth, Selected Shorts, Welcome to Night Vale, Invisibilia, Professor Blastoff, Sewers of Paris, Thrilling Adventure Hour (Beyond Belief only)

Pasta, Indian, Chicken every way under the sun
The six things I could never do without
Think outside the box. Sometimes the little things can say a lot.
The internet, artistic fulfillment, "me time," some kind of nature, music, the people I choose to have in my life
I spend a lot of time thinking about
Global warming, lunch, or your next vacation… it’s all fair game.
My artistic goals, my plans for the next 5 hours, 24 hours, week, season, year, my relationships, Big Ideas, where I've already been and what I've already done.
On a typical Friday night I am
Netflix and takeout, or getting your party on — how do you let loose?

Friday nights in the recent past have included vocal improvisations in a bike tunnel with a group of talented musicians, going out on the town with a drag queen, a stay at home night with coffee ice cream, Dr. Who and the roomies, and singing a gig with the Seattle Opera.
The most private thing I’m willing to admit
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I used to be a Catholic Republican that drank Mountain Dew and was abstaining until marriage. Things change.
You should message me if
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You can manage to not take it personally if I don't respond.

You want to climb a tree with me.

You're okay with an intelligent, funny guy who's often stuck inside his own head.

I'm looking for someone with a Wilde wit, Gyllenhaal grin, and ottery bod. Bonus points if you're around 5'10'', up for an adventure, and read XKCD.