People say I should have been around in the seventies. Im a total free spirit. I'm a pretty open minded person and get along with most people. I love learning news things and having interesting conversation. I hate the cold. I like to walk barefoot as much as possible. I'm a very creative person. Most of the creativity is applied to my work but I also love to draw, paint and write. I am a romantic at heart. For me that just means being considerate. I am involved with fat activism. The movement that doesn't shun or critize people because they are obese. I also don't do slut shaming, if you got the guts to wear it, I say " You go girl!" I also love to write, I post a large amount of it on protagonize. www.protagonize.com.

When I was in high school all of the open bisexuals were all very
" slutty". I wan't like that so I stayed tight lipped about it and still do to some extent. For me it has always been about finding partners. People I could connect with at all levels. People who made me laugh. Inspired me etc.

I'm hesitant to add anything "sexual"because the negative attention I will recieve. I will say this though. I'm a very private person, I'm less conservative with people I've been seeing. I think this is pretty par fo the course I've heard married people are the most kinky people around.

I am currently trying to be a better human being. I'd like to get further in my career. I work in child care. I've worked there for six years and I love it. I am a girly girl but I'll be the first one the stick my hand in the "dirt box" which is full of worms, to show the boys not to be scared. The filthy part is cleaning the box, thank god for students lol. I go to the gym a fair amount for my health. Im not a big fan of it but it makes me happier and more confident so I keep going. My brother is giving me his old bike so I'm going to attempt biking but I think I will like it. I haven't biked since I was 12. I love to write and read at evey free moment. I like to take pictures of things that are breaking down or not necessarily thought of as being asethically pleasing.

Hmm...writing, drawing, shopping, daydreaming...being somewhat random. I want to do some "fridging" thats when you sit in a fridge and someone takes a picture of you.

My Jewelery. I am usually wearing one statement piece. I like big blingy pieces. I get more compliments from women then men. Men seem to like more demure style. I don't often dress demurely.

Books: Paranormal Romance and...Erotica mostly. I read the the ending of books first to see if it has a happy ending. I will read it even if the ending is depressing. I read mostly to escape and relax. I want to fall onto the words and swing on them like a hammock. Im a sucker for poetry. I also like to collect interesting quotes. I also like stories with a historical background. I like history.

Movies: Anything but horror. I have no nails but I ve been known to cling and draw blood in peoples arms. I just dont like it when things jump out at me! I like funny movies, romance and some action movies. When I'm alone I watch foreign films and indepent films. One of my favorite films is " The Princess and the warrior". I love movies with great soundtracks.

Shows: I like TMZ, Glee, What not to wear, Say yes to the dress, 30 Rock, The food network, Storage wars, Sex in the City, Simpsons, Family Guy. True Blood.

Music: I pretty much like everything...except country. I like a mix of Indie, Alternative, Dance and Pop. I listen to a large amount of Indie music on songza. I am also a big fan of electronic music mostly drum and bass and Jungle, some dubstep. I also enjoy bollywood music. Im a big fan of Metric, The Dears, Stars, Feist and...Lady Gaga and Britney Spears, Cat Power, Sarah Slean...The list goes on. I am a big fan of music. I will listen to anything well written. I always listen for the lyrics.

I am a picky eater but oddly enough I love trying new foods. Especially fruit. I just stare at it for five minutes and wonder, how the hell am I suppose to eat this? I have a huge sweet tooth, I also love italien food. If i'm "cooking" I'm probably making a salad with interesting vegetables like fennel. I like weird vegetables.

Clothes, lined paper, a pen, my sketchbook, bling-bling, music, chocolate, water (not to drink. I love the feeling of water around me. I feel alive when I'm near or around water)

If you run into someone you've seen on okcupid in the real world but have never met should you go up and say hi?

Riders on the storm...

I think about sexualtiy in general. Feminism. When's lunch? What's for lunch?

Is it going to rain? Should I bring an umbrella? I brought the wrong shoes.

Wonder why people make such a big deal of nudity. Are Kim and Kanye still together?

When's lunch?

Usually hanging with friends, venting about the weeks we've had. Sometimes Chilling solo. Or hanging downtown. Weekends for me mean pizza! I usually end up stay up late and sleeping in. I like sleep.

I just bought and am wearing my first strapless bra, not that bad kind of feels like wearing a bathing suit with molded cups.

You are not overly pervy. You actually listen. My two complaints about men is they never listen and never listen when I am being explicit about what I want or need. I don't do the girl thing where you have to guess why I' m mad. Message me if you want to get to know me.