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30 St. Catharines, Ontario, CA Woman


I’m looking for

  • Everyone
  • Ages 25–45
  • Located anywhere
  • Who are single
  • For new friends, long-term dating, short-term dating

My Details

Last Online
Feb 25
5′ 4″ (1.63m)
Body Type
Full figured
Mostly anything
Buddhism, and somewhat serious about it
Cancer, and it’s fun to think about
Graduated from two-year college
Doesn’t have kids, but wants them
Likes dogs and has cats

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My self-summary
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People say I should have been around in the sixties or seventies. I'm a free spirit. I'm a pretty open minded person and get along with most people. I love to read. Books are my crack. I write and slam poetry.

I am plus sized and very comfortable with my body. I don't dress like I need to apologize for it. And I will call people out for fat shaming because it just isn't cool.

I'm hesitant to add anything "sexual"because the negative attention I will receive. I will say this I am a very private person but I have started becoming involved in the kink community. Not just the lifestyle, the community. So I am not looking for" hey girl..." If I don't know you I'm not interested in anything more than a hello and hopefully some witty conversation. I do have a fetlife profile and am pretty open about my sexuality. I am very much into sex education and being sex positive. Again not looking to bone strangers or dude bros.

I am a Queer woman. I have mostly dated men. But last year I solely dated women. I like being around women because you have none of the bs you have to deal with when you deal with guys. For example cat calling, comments about your body, dick picks, lame personal messages etc. But my attractions are not usually genderbased. I usually am attracted to people I have some sort of originality, flair etc.
What I’m doing with my life
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I am currently trying to be a better human being. I'd like to get further in my career. I work in child care. I've worked there for six years and I love it. I am a girly girl but I'll be the first one the stick my hand in the "dirt box" which is full of worms, to show the boys not to be scared. The filthy part is cleaning the box, thank god for students lol. Hanging out with my unique collection of friends. Everyone is settling down so it is hard to get together but when we do it is awesome. My one friend and I make time for sushi every month-ish. We have made eating into an art form. Thay hand us the bill and we laugh, "isn't that cute? They think we are done."

Going to CFSW!

Volunteered at the dungeon at sexapoolza!

Going to play parties and expanding my horizons!

Poetry slamming!

Reading tons of Romance novels!

I’m really good at
Go on, brag a little (or a lot). We won’t judge.
Writing, drawing, shopping...yes shopping is a skill. I have great taste. Not taking myself seriously, being some what random. Working with kids. Coming up with activities to do with children. Ignoring trolls, Easter egg hunts, being jealous of people with curly hair.
The first things people usually notice about me
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My Jewelery. I am usually wearing one statement piece. I like big blingy pieces. I get more compliments from women then men. Men seem to like more demure style. I don't often dress demurely.
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
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Books: Paranormal Romance and...Erotica mostly. I read the the ending of books first to see if it has a happy ending. I will read it even if the ending is depressing. I read mostly to escape and relax. I want to fall onto the words and swing on them like a hammock. Im a sucker for poetry. I also like to collect interesting quotes. I also like stories with a historical background. I like history.

Movies: Anything but horror. I have no nails but I ve been known to cling and draw blood in peoples arms. I just don't like it when things jump out at me! I read somewhere the best relationships are the ones in which partners share the same taste in movies. I honestly watch a lot of comedies and or romantic comedies. Yes some being chick flicks...I also like dramas and thrillers. I do enjoy the occasional action flick especially if the male lead is hot lol. I'm a fan of Jason Statham. I will watch foreign films but I don't often know what is good, so it's an interesting hunt. I loved " The Dinner Game." Other assorted favorites include; Kill Bill, The Princess and the Warrior, The Princess Bride, Naked Gun movies, Monty Python, A Fish Called Wanda, Something Borrowed, The Transporter, Various Will Farell Movies, Pretty Woman, As Good as it gets, Born Yesturday

Shows: I like TMZ, Glee, What not to wear, Say yes to the dress, 30 Rock, The food network, Storage wars, Sex in the City, Simpsons, Family Guy. True Blood. Girls, Game of Thrones, Spaced, Misfits

Music: I pretty much like everything...except country. I like a mix of Indie, Alternative, Dance and Pop, rap, hip hop and trip hop. I listen to a large amount of Indie music on songza. I am also a big fan of electronic music mostly drum and bass and Jungle, some dubstep. I also enjoy bollywood music. Im a big fan of Metric, The Dears, Stars, Feist and...Lady Gaga and Britney Spears, Cat Power, Sarah Slean, Handsome boy modeling school, Lupe Fiasco, Leonard Cohen and ...The list goes on. I am a big fan of music.

I am a picky eater but oddly enough I love trying new foods. I will try just about anything once...I am a foodie at heart. Some of my favorite foods are, avocado, spinach, goat cheese, surf and turf,sea food in I am a fan of sushi...the list goes on ice cream, chocolate, cilantro, pizza, mangoes, pineapple...pasta....
The six things I could never do without
Think outside the box. Sometimes the little things can say a lot.
Clothes, lined paper, a pen, my sketchbook, bling-bling, music, chocolate, water (not to drink. I love the feeling of water around me. I feel alive when I'm near or around water)
I spend a lot of time thinking about
Global warming, lunch, or your next vacation… it’s all fair game.
If you run into someone you've seen on okcupid in the real world but have never met should you go up and say hi?

Riders on the storm...

I think about sexualtiy in general. Feminism. When's lunch? What's for lunch?

Is it going to rain? Should I bring an umbrella? I brought the wrong shoes.

Wonder why people make such a big deal of nudity. Are Kim and Kanye still together?

When's lunch?
On a typical Friday night I am
Netflix and takeout, or getting your party on — how do you let loose?
Usually hanging with friends, venting about the weeks we've had. Sometimes Chilling solo. Or hanging downtown. Weekends for me mean pizza! I usually end up stay up late and sleeping in. I like sleep.
The most private thing I’m willing to admit
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I've never eaten an entire pie but I've put up valiant effort.
I've popped a squat on occasion
I'm trying out a new dance move, I don't think it will get past the trying stage
I like looking at the tabloids at the check out
You should message me if
Offer a few tips to help matches win you over.
You are not overly pervy. If you start your message with I like your boobs etc... I will send you a pic of a penis pump because you are clearly not a man. Negging also isn't cool. That's when you insult a girl while hitting on her. This will also get you a penis pump... I'm a human being first. I came out wailing like everyone else lol.

Recently learned how to play Settlers of Catan. If you know and or have a board message me...I will bargain for sheep