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30 • Norfolk, VA • Man
I’m looking for
- Ages 20-40
- Near me
- Who are single
- For new friends, long-term dating, short-term dating
- Last online
- Yesterday – 2:35pm
- 5' 11" (1.80m)
- Body Type
- Not at all
- Doesn’t have kids but wants them
A great listener
Slow to anger
Cool in very stressful situations
Able to admit when I am wrong
Blues Dancing, Lindy hop, and Hip Hop dance styles
Helping people put their lives back together
Validating other peoples feelings
Maintaining healthy boundaries
Handling my emotions
Wisdom of Insecurity by Alan Watts
The Art of Living by Epictetus/Lidell
The Art of War by Sun Tzu
Flow by Mihaly Csikszentmihalyi
The Shadow of the Wind by Carlos Ruiz Zafon
The Wheel of Life by Elisabeth Kubler-Ross
The Four Agreements by Don Miguel Ruiz
Blindness by Jose Sarmago
The North River by Pete Hamill
Here are some of my favorites movies:
Eternal Sunshine of the Spotless Mind
The Brothers Bloom
The Door in The Floor
Anything by Alan Watts
Things of interest:
Going to concerts/local shows
Battlestar Galactica, Portlandia, The Walking Dead, Supernatural, Doctor Who, Dollhouse, Firefly
I really like a lot of underground artists. I am also learning how to produce my own music. That will be a long but interesting road to travel.
Here are some the artists that I am into right now:
The Cinematic Orchestra
Electric Wire Hustle
Future of Forestry
Hope Sandoval and The Warm Inventions
The Lost and Found
Musiq Soul Child
Good pair of boots
The desire to travel
Reading in the stillness of morning light from my bed
Sunglasses make me a bit tired... Psychology!
Give great hugs
Don't take yourself too seriously
Enjoys being outdoors
Loves to dance (even if you can't )
Want to have meaningful stimulating conversations about life
Are a deep thinker
Has a desire to keep learning
An avid reader
Here is something that could possibly get the ball rolling. Try you best to answer this:
Are cows, who are in a field, with other cows, who are eating grass, drinking water, in the sunshine... are they happy?
I would love to hear your response.
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