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33 F Bellevue, WA

I’m looking for

  • Men who like women
  • Ages 25–41
  • Near me
  • Who are single
  • For long-term dating, short-term dating

My Details

Last Online
Oct 16
5′ 4″ (1.63m)
Body Type
Not at all
Graduated from masters program
Relationship Status
Relationship Type
Strictly monogamous
Doesn’t have kids

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My self-summary
Write a little about yourself. Just a paragraph will do.
I'm a literature nerd who learned that playing outside is fun too, an introvert (most of the time), and a dancer with musicality down to her core. I'm looking for someone who both enjoys getting active outside and appreciates quiet, chill time. I just returned to Washington and am setting out on a new path in life - it'll be a huge challenge but hopefully also a great adventure.

I care about the big picture. This comes up in a number of ways: sustainable living, limiting consumption, following 4th amendment news...

The kindest way to describe my sense of humor is “unique.” It can be challenging for people who need to make everyone laugh.

Btw, I ignore "likes." If you want connect, start a conversation!
What I’m doing with my life
Don’t overthink this one; tell us what you’re doing day-to-day.
Playing outside, reading, continuing to evolve. Hiking and cycling (for fun and transportation), dancing, going out when a good band is playing, and finding art in unexpected places. And professionally I help people find information.
I’m really good at
Go on, brag a little (or a lot). We won’t judge.
Relating to geeks and finding new creative endeavors. (I have too many things I want to learn "some day," like spinning poi and playing the bones.)
The first things people usually notice about me
I’m an empty essay… fill me out!
The way I dance.

...And now that I can put my hair up in a faux hawk, that probably gets noticed first.
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
Help your potential matches find common interests.
Picking just a few books is tough, but here goes: The Awakening by Kate Chopin, Skinny Legs and All by Tom Robbins, The Fault in Our Stars by John Green, Ecotopia by Ernest Callenbach, The Wood Wife by Terri Windling, The Book of Five Rings by Miyamoto Musashi, Einstein's Dreams by Alan Lightman, and American-Born Chinese by Gene Luen Yang.
My favorite movies are The Thomas Crown Affair (the 90s remake) and The Red Violin. Generally I like to watch dark comedies (like Grosse Pointe Blank) and unusual indie-type flicks.
Other visual media: Vlogbrothers & Crash Course (Nerdfighteria), Sinfest, xkcd, TED Talks, Whedon productions (and, yes, Firefly was the best thing ever).

I listen to a lot of music. Blues, swing, jazz, folk, rock, a capella, drums, soul, 80s country, a touch of fado and opera. I never get tired of the Mountain Goats. My early musical education was courtesy of Dr. Teeth and the Electric Mayhem.
The six things I could never do without
Think outside the box. Sometimes the little things can say a lot.
The Waldo Canyon Fire really put this question into perspective...
1. My family and friends
2. Opportunities to learn/stretch my brain
3. Time outdoors/fresh air/trees
4. Music
5. My bicycle
6. A good book
(Though, a life without tea just wouldn't be living would it?)
I spend a lot of time thinking about
Global warming, lunch, or your next vacation… it’s all fair game.
The latest news or book I've read. Ways to make things better - both in my own life and decreasing world-suck.
On a typical Friday night I am
Netflix and takeout, or getting your party on — how do you let loose?
I just don't have typical Friday nights anymore. Sometimes I go out if good band is playing, sometimes I'd rather crash early so I can enjoy Saturday morning.
The most private thing I’m willing to admit
I’m an empty essay… fill me out!
In pirates v. ninjas, my money is on ninjas.

...which is probably why OkC thinks I have no sex drive. Every time I get a sex question I think “That's none of your goddamn business!”
You should message me if
Offer a few tips to help matches win you over.
You'd rather go see the fire dancers or to a roller derby bout than sit around watching TV or playing video games. If you're inclined to talk seriously when serious subjects come up. We'll figure out the rest as we go.

...also if you don't smoke or do drugs, and don't think drinking is the best way to have a good time. Hate to put negatives in here, but I think I'd better state these outright.