I'm the one you never see coming. The guy sitting in the corner with the lap top/mp3 player/frappaccino thing going, looking like he is in his own little world, and he is, until he glances up and you make eye contact.

I've been called quite the charmer but technology really doesn't translate that well. Give me half a chance and you will not be disappointed. A night with me can start out with dinner in an out of the way Cajun restaurant and end with drinks in a blues bar. You never know what will happen.

I have an obsession with books and music that honestly borders on addiction. I am also a well of knowledge of trivia and pop culture factoids. I have a huge love for Asian culture, especially anything pertaining the martial arts. I have over 20 years of experience in various styles, most recently taking a much needed break after studying Shaolin Kung Fu for the past seven years. I am in an open marriage with the coolest wife (Tink_Esq) on the planet. It was her idea to add a profile on this site.

Describing myself is hard because I don't want to come across as corny or typical, because I like to think that I am not. I'm a straight shooter and expect the same. So if we meet for drinks or whatever and and you're not digging me, just say so. I'm a big boy, I can take it.

I work a typical 9-5 gig during the week. On the weekends I like to get out and have some fun, either with my wife and our dogs, or a new friend. ;) During the month of April I will be writing my first script for Scrptfrenzy.

Listening, holding an intelligent conversation, putting people at ease, making people laugh and I always make sure that the woman I am with comes first...and often!!

My size... hard to hide the fact that I'm a big dude. But I am pretty agile, whether it's on the dance floor or behind closed doors (you'd be surprised how well this big man can move).

Music Robert Johnson, Sonny Boy Willaimson, Stevie Ray Vaughn, Depeche Mode, New Order, Fall Out Boy, Snoop Dogg, Metallica, Public Enemy, Ice Cube, Lil John, Nelly, Finger 11, Rick Springfield, 80's hair bands
Books The Bourne series, Dirk Pitt Series, Graphic Novels, Lies and the Lying Liers That Tell Them, Tom Clancy, David Morrell, The Destroyer Series, Mack Bolan Series, Histories, Tao Te Ching, Alexander Dumas
Movies Enter the Dragon, The Adventures of Buckaroo Banzai, First Blood, Batman Begins, Say Anything, Caddyshack, The Blues Brothers, Highlander, Star Wars, Love Actually
Food Mexican, Italian, Chinese, Barbecue

My wife, books, music, barbecue, dogs, erotica

Life, sex, politics, funny stuff (sometimes these are all one and the same!)

Anywhere, actually. I just spent the winter hibernating and Spring fever has taken hold. I am ready to get out and start having fun again.

I'm willing to admit anything and everything...I'm an open book. So just ask me anything and I'll answer.

You're looking for a new friend, someone to have fun with, or test the waters to see if I am someone you'd want to get to know.