Write a little about yourself. Just a paragraph will do.
I'm a good dude...a guys guy...a girl's guy (not as strong as
"ladies man" ;) I work in finance and I'm the lead singer of a pop
rock band. Between those two things and getting to the gym on a
regular basis, that keeps me pretty busy!
I'm at that perfect age or point in my life where I'm actually
pretty content and just looking to have fun and let what happens
happen on the relationship end of things. Dont get me wrong, I'm
definitely looking for "the one" right girl to settle down and live
happily ever after with, ha ha... but I've learned that that can
only happen when you dont force things. I do know what I want
My mom and sister (and probably ex girlfriends, though ask at your
own risk, lol) would probably tell you that I'm definitely a
romantic. I'm a fun-loving, easy-going, funny (to those that have a
good sense of humor;), outgoing, caring, interesting, intelligent,
all around (I think) fairly unique guy. Oh and did I mention happy?
I'm a happy person with an optimistic view on life...pessimists
need not apply ;)
What I’m doing with my life
Don’t overthink this one; tell us what you’re doing day-to-day.
I'm working hard at building my business as well as developing my
passionate music hobby. I'm also trying to get the most out of my
daily life by experiencing new things when possible and being
active in as many ways as possible. Like most other New Yorkers, I
wouldn't mind making it big...but my true pursuit is happiness and
a healthy, balanced, and fulfilling life. Be warned, I do have big
dreams though! haha.
I’m really good at
Go on, brag a little (or a lot). We won’t judge.
Well I'm NOT really good at writing profiles for things like this,
lol...but I am good at a few things. I am actually a really good
listener. I'm really good at solving problems as well...whether
they be tangible or intangible, between people, or in a physical
business or real world sense. I'm also a decent singer ;)
Our latest song that I wrote:
Original song performance:
Sample from another project, my acoustic Duo:
The first things people usually notice about me
I’m an empty essay… fill me out!
Physically, probably that I take good care of myself and that I
present myself well...
Non-physically...that there are many sides to me...that are pretty
disparate...I'm a bit of a jack of all trades...
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
Help your potential matches find common interests.
Favorite books: Anything that teaches me something useful that I
can use in my life
Movies: I love comedies (even the stupid ones), super hero movies
(come on, these days they are making them pretty well you have to
admit!), also movies with twists and some of the cult classics. I
even enjoy a good rom-com now and then...
Food: Apple Pie, Lasagna, M&M Cookies (all that good stuff that
I rarely let myself eat, haha)... I also enjoy sushi and I can cook
some pretty delicious healthy meals...you wouldn't even know they
are healthy ;)
Woah....almost forgot the most important one! Music!...So honestly
I appreciate all music, and depending on the day or my mood, I can
enjoy anything from country to electronic to hip hop, pop rock or
even jazz...you name it! Can you tell I like music? Haha.
The six things I could never do without
Think outside the box. Sometimes the little things can say a lot.
A good pair of running shoes
I'd have a tough time without my morning starbucks and kashi cereal
with fruit in it, ha ha.
And honestly, I'm gonna get real for a second and say money,
...there are a lot of things I want to do in this life, and a good
portion of them cost some dinero!
And lastly...the BEACH...I love the beach....LOVE...being out on a
surf board at sunset is the most amazing "zen" type experience I
know. So why do I live in NYC and not Cali?...I wonder the same
thing...I do love New York, but someday I want to live on the beach
again...but I always want to be close to a big city.
I spend a lot of time thinking about
Global warming, lunch, or your next vacation… it’s all fair game.
How to grow my business. How to develop my music. How the important
people in my life are doing and how I can help them (sounds like
some cheesy dating site bs, but it's actually true)
On a typical Friday night I am
Netflix and takeout, or getting your party on — how do you let loose?
Singing lead and playing guitar at a gig with my original pop rock
band Blue Sour (now the username makes sense huh? had to read a bit
to get there.).
Or if I don't have a gig, I'm usually out with friends. I must
admit, after a long work week, I am usually pretty tired on
Fridays...so I don't mind low key nights occasionally too!
The most private thing I’m willing to admit
I’m an empty essay… fill me out!
I am a good cook...in the past girls have found that out and then
they decided never to cook anymore...so thats private now, ha ha...
Or was until I wrote this... ahh damn.... ha ha
You should message me if
Offer a few tips to help matches win you over.
You like what you hear about me, you are fun, outgoing, active (you
don't have to be a super athlete, but I'm an active guy, I need
someone who can keep up with me) and you have at least have a
little bit of self confidence ;)
Honestly, I've met a lot of very nice, very attractive girls
through this site (with a few exceptions). Unfortunately for me,
"nice" and "attractive" isn't quite enough...don't get me wrong,
nice and attractive are definitely important, but alone they tend
to be pretty boring. I'm looking for someone with some "spunk".
Someone who I can actually carry on good, naturally flowing
conversations with. It shouldn't be hard, it should be fun! It's ok
to be shy at first, but there's got to be a little bit of
personality hidden in there somewhere. Witty banter and flirting
are totally under-rated in my book... it's not easy to find people
you have that type of connection/chemistry with... but when you
do...it's the most fun type of relationship, and in my mind, the
type that has the best chance of lasting ;)
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