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33 M Pompano Beach, FL

I’m looking for

  • Girls who like guys
  • Ages 25–45
  • Near me
  • For new friends, long-term dating, short-term dating

My Details

Last Online
Today – 2:19am
6′ 2″ (1.88m)
Body Type
Strictly anything
Trying to quit
Sagittarius, and it’s fun to think about
Graduated from masters program
Relationship Status
Relationship Type
Mostly non-monogamous
Doesn’t have kids
Likes dogs and has cats
English (Fluently), Spanish (Okay), Japanese (Poorly), Swedish (Poorly)

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My self-summary
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I'm a one-time academic who has begun a career of sorts in middle management and retail. It’s not what I would have imagined, but it pays the bills and I enjoy it enough to stay with it for the time being. I have been a teacher and consider returning to that career, although teaching yoga and penning children’s books are also options that I’ve considered. I'm clever and caring, and I like putting time and energy into people who are intellectually stimulating and compassionate.

I am an intensely constructive person. Being a positive influence in the world is incredibly important to me. I get along best with people who also have a desire to do good in the world, even if they don't presently have a plan or the resources to do so.

Practically, I am organized, honest, and forthcoming.
What I’m doing with my life
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Working. Structuring more hobbies and recreation into my life. Meeting new people, making new friends, dating, exploring, investigating.
I’m really good at
Go on, brag a little (or a lot). We won’t judge.
Teaching people how to beat me at my favorite games. Emotional intelligence is a strong point, though I'm just as vulnerable and sensitive as the next guy. And I'm not a bad cook, when the mood strikes. I have a mischievous side and I am happiest when my sense of humor is appreciated.
The first things people usually notice about me
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I am tall. I tend to command attention, but I am really more of kitten…a large liger-like kitten, but a kitten nonetheless.
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
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Mirah is a favorite musical artist. Also, Dr. Octagon. Jeffrey Lewis has often saved my day. Zombie movies and zombie books are almost always enjoyed. I love food, almost all kinds. Was a vegan for a number of years. Now I eat everything, but I am very flexible about dietary preferences.
The six things I could never do without
Think outside the box. Sometimes the little things can say a lot.
Sex Positivity
I spend a lot of time thinking about
Global warming, lunch, or your next vacation… it’s all fair game.
whether or not I want to be able to look back upon my life and joyfully consider myself a loner with a string of great loves - past and present - or to seriously domesticate myself with one or two or three or four people. The arrangements of those multiples might be kids, a queer family, or an avuncular relationship with some others' nuclear families.... Not sure. I do know that Uncle Boak_Tree is as awesome as Boyf Boak_Tree is as awesome as Mysterious & Vulnerable Lover Boak_Tree. At least, I know that I am (un)comfortable thinking about myself in any of those roles; and that what makes me (un)comfortable is what I spend a lot of time thinking about....
On a typical Friday night I am
Netflix and takeout, or getting your party on — how do you let loose?
not filling out essays about myself on online dating sites.
The most private thing I’m willing to admit
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I am not (really) that interested in being the dark handsome guy who seduces you. I am very interested in being seduced. C'mon, ladies: run some game. I am available. Try the dominant role on for size; I will communicate where and when my interest/invitation stops, no worries.
You should message me if
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You’re a reclusive genius, a passionate eccentric, a die-hard non-conformist, a casual seeker, a complicated sweetheart. Someone who wants a relationship with someone who is willing to explore with you, or relax and enjoy an uncomplicated evening, or period, or season -- or even a lengthy duration -- of joy, compassion and the pursuit of knowledge and wellness.