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34 Pompano Beach, FL Man


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I’m looking for

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  • Ages 18-45
  • Near me
  • For new friends, long-term dating, short-term dating

My details

Last online
Nov 29
Straight, Heteroflexible, Sapiosexual
Open relationship
Relationship Type
Mostly non-monogamous
6' 2" (1.88m)
Body Type
Post grad
Doesn’t have kids
Has cats
English (Fluently), Spanish (Somewhat), Japanese (Somewhat), Swedish (Somewhat)
My self-summary
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***So OKC's newest redux of my profile highlights me as, foremostly, "drug-friendly." ... I am not a fan of that being my primary characteristic. It may be true - as compared to most OKC users - but I am not much of a user, myself; rather I am very interested in consciousness-raising around issues of substance abuse. That is all for now--please ask for more specifics if you would like.***

I am a one-time academic who is now working in middle management and hospitality. It’s not what I would have imagined, but it pays the bills and I enjoy it. I'm clever and caring, and I like putting time and energy into people who are intellectually stimulating and compassionate.

I am an intensely constructive person. Being a positive influence in the world is incredibly important to me. I get along best with people who also have a desire to do good in the world, even if they don't presently have a plan or the resources to do so.

Practically, I am organized, honest, and forthcoming.
What I’m doing with my life
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Working, mostly. However, after a thus-far lifetime of being a radical feminist (which I still am) and an apologist (which I am less and less, lately) I am now having some really electrifying and awesome relationships with the kind of women I have always been so ennamoured of. Meeting new people, making new friends, dating, exploring, investigating.
I’m really good at
Go on, brag a little (or a lot). We won’t judge.
Teaching people how to beat me at my favorite games. Emotional intelligence is a strong point, though I'm just as vulnerable and sensitive as the next guy. And I'm not a bad cook, when the mood strikes. I have a mischievous side and I am happiest when my sense of humor is appreciated.
The first things people usually notice about me
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I am tall. I tend to command attention, but I am really more of kitten…a large liger-like kitten, but a kitten nonetheless.
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
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Mirah is a favorite musical artist. Also, Dr. Octagon. Jeffrey Lewis has often saved my day. Zombie movies and zombie books are almost always enjoyed. I love food, almost all kinds. Was a vegan for a number of years. Now I eat everything, but I am very flexible about dietary preferences.
The six things I could never do without
Think outside the box. Sometimes the little things can say a lot.
Sex Positivity
I spend a lot of time thinking about
Global warming, lunch, or your next vacation… it’s all fair game.
whether or not I want to be able to look back upon my life and joyfully consider myself a loner with a string of great loves - past and present - or to seriously domesticate myself with one or two or three or four people. The arrangements of those multiples might be kids, a queer family, or an avuncular relationship with some others' nuclear families.... Not sure. I do know that Uncle Boak_Tree is as awesome as Boyf Boak_Tree is as awesome as Mysterious & Vulnerable Lover Boak_Tree. At least, I know that I am (un)comfortable thinking about myself in any of those roles; and that what makes me (un)comfortable is what I spend a lot of time thinking about....
On a typical Friday night I am
Netflix and takeout, or getting your party on — how do you let loose?
not filling out essays about myself on online dating sites.
The most private thing I’m willing to admit
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I am not (really) that interested in being the dark handsome guy who seduces you. I am very interested in being seduced. C'mon, ladies: run some game. I am available. Try the dominant role on for size; I will communicate where and when my interest/invitation stops, no worries.
You should message me if
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You’re a reclusive genius, a passionate eccentric, a die-hard non-conformist, a casual seeker, a complicated sweetheart. Someone who wants a relationship with someone who is willing to explore with you, or relax and enjoy an uncomplicated evening, or period, or season -- or even a lengthy duration -- of joy, compassion and the pursuit of knowledge and wellness.