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33 Indianapolis, IN Man


I’m looking for

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  • Ages 22–43
  • Located anywhere
  • For new friends, long-term dating, short-term dating

My Details

Last Online
Today – 3:55pm
5′ 11″ (1.80m)
Body Type
A little extra
Mostly anything
Christianity, but not too serious about it
Virgo, but it doesn’t matter
Graduated from university
Science / Engineering
Rather not say
Open relationship
Strictly non-monogamous
Has a kid, but doesn’t want more
Likes dogs and has cats
English (Fluently)

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My self-summary
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I am friendly and fairly outgoing. I like to make others laugh and really get my energy from socializing with friends. I am also a very happy person, with a positive outlook on life. I am honest and trustworthy.

I am a 6 with a 7 wing on the enneagram personality scale and an ENFJ on the Myers/Brigs. I'm extroverted and love being around people. If I had to come up with a metaphor for my personality it would have to be a puppy. I'm loyal, loving, hate being alone, and very sensitive.

I love going to the movies.

I love reading Science Fiction books and movies and love to play board/card games.

I love going to Gencon every year and playing new board games.

I live near downtown in Fountain Square and love being able to walk or bike to most places that I need to get to.

I am a libertarian and believe that people don't need protected from themselves by legislatures. Civil liberties are extremely important.

I like to Cook

I am into being open with my partners and wanting to share my life. I am polyamorous (or poly) and am in a non-hierarchical relationship with my wife. Time and scheduling, as you polyamorist out there know, gets complicated. So good scheduling skills are very important to me. Being left hanging on a planned date night at the last minute is such a bummer. I'm a planner so if you make plans with me I'll be there(unless there is a major emergency).

I'm interested in people that I can relate to on an intellectual level. Who like to have interesting conversations. Like to go to the movies or have a fun night in. I Would love to hang out with someone once or twice a week. If you like to play board and card games or want to learn that's definitely a plus. I like people who know how to communicate directly, nothing makes poly harder than when people don't express what they want or need.
What I’m doing with my life
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Pursuing my professional career. Hanging out with Friends. Enjoying day to day life.
I’m really good at
Go on, brag a little (or a lot). We won’t judge.
Fixing Things.
The first things people usually notice about me
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Loud friendly laugh.
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
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Scott Sigler is my absolute favorite author. I also like Jeremy Robinson and many others. I'm a big scfi/horror/comedy fan.

I'm currently reading "More than Two" and it is amazing, such a life changer. If you are poly or curious about it, this book is a MUST READ! I can't describe how much self growth has happened for me so far. I have never felt closer to my wife and we have eliminated all of our rules at the same time. I'm so happy that I am truly embracing and understanding my polyamory.

I'm not a big fan of music, I listen to it, but rarely do I have an opinion, I think I'm musically illiterate, although I really can't tolerate country. If I had to pick what music I like, I would say rock.

I prefer podcasts to music most of the time. Adam Carolla and Dr. Drew are my favorite podcasters.

I love horror comedies, like Shawn of the Dead and Cabin in the Woods. Also, scifi movies are great.
The six things I could never do without
Think outside the box. Sometimes the little things can say a lot.
My Kindle, Science fiction, Friends, Podcasts, Sex, and Board games.
I spend a lot of time thinking about
Global warming, lunch, or your next vacation… it’s all fair game.
Pick my brain to find out...
On a typical Friday night I am
Netflix and takeout, or getting your party on — how do you let loose?
Hopefully out on a date or staying in with a special someone.
The most private thing I’m willing to admit
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I am a guy who knows nothing about sports. I'll watch them or go to a game if it's a social event but I really don't care about sports.
You should message me if
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If you like what you read.
If you want to go catch a movie sometime.
If you want to walk the canal or zoo and talk.
If you are curious about polyamory