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33 • Indianapolis, IN • Man
I’m looking for
- Ages 22–43
- Located anywhere
- Who are single
- For new friends, long-term dating, short-term dating
- Last online
- Today – 4:36pm
- 5′ 11″ (1.80m)
- Body type
- A little extra
- Mostly anything
- Christianity, but not too serious about it
- Virgo, but it doesn’t matter
- Graduated from university
- Science / Engineering
- Rather not say
- Open relationship
- Has a kid, but doesn’t want more
- Likes dogs and has cats
- English (Fluently)
I am a 6 with a 7 wing on the enneagram personality scale and an ENFJ on the Myers/Brigs. I'm extroverted and love being around people. If I had to come up with a metaphor for my personality it would have to be a puppy. I'm loyal, loving, hate being alone, and very sensitive.
I love going to the movies.
I love reading Science Fiction books and movies and love to play board/card games.
I love going to Gencon every year and playing new board games.
I live near downtown in Fountain Square and love being able to walk or bike to most places that I need to get to.
I am a libertarian and believe that people don't need protected from themselves by legislatures. Civil liberties are extremely important.
I like to Cook
I am into being open with my partners and wanting to share my life. I am polyamorous (or poly) and am in a non-hierarchical relationship with my wife. Time and scheduling, as you polyamorist out there know, gets complicated. So good scheduling skills are very important to me. Being left hanging on a planned date night at the last minute is such a bummer. I'm a planner so if you make plans with me I'll be there(unless there is a major emergency).
I'm interested in people that I can relate to on an intellectual level. Who like to have interesting conversations. Like to go to the movies or have a fun night in. I Would love to hang out with someone once or twice a week. If you like to play board and card games or want to learn that's definitely a plus. I like people who know how to communicate directly, nothing makes poly harder than when people don't express what they want or need.
I'm not a big fan of music, I listen to it, but rarely do I have an opinion, I think I'm musically illiterate, although I really can't tolerate country. If I had to pick what music I like, I would say rock.
I prefer podcasts to music most of the time. Adam Carolla and Dr. Drew are my favorite podcasters.
I love horror comedies, like Shawn of the Dead and Cabin in the Woods. Also, scifi movies are great.
If you want to go catch a movie sometime.
If you want to walk the canal or zoo and talk.
If you are curious about polyamory
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