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27 Washington, DC Man


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I’m looking for

  • Women
  • Ages 22-45
  • Near me
  • For long-term dating, short-term dating

My details

Last online
Yesterday – 10:01am
Open relationship
Relationship Type
Mostly non-monogamous
6' 1" (1.85m)
Body Type
A little extra
Doesn’t have kids but wants them
My self-summary
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My relationship dynamic is in a bit of flux. I have been polyamorous for a long time, but have recently broken up with my primary partner of 5 years. I am not looking to rush into anything but I am interested in meeting new people, and ultimately I am looking for a long term committed relationship and all of that family jazz.

I am originally from London, UK, and moved to the D.C. area a few years ago after spending some time living in Nashville. I am a social introvert (INFJ), but I am very (overly) talkative when I am comfortable. I am non-spiritual, sex positive, and left leaning. I enjoy planning and preparing elaborate meals and cocktail parties. I am a big nerd with an interest in space and nature, and I would like to get out into the country more to hike, fish, and stargaze. I do not own a car which may be an issue if you live outside the reach of public transport.

After doing the online dating thing for a while now, I have come to the conclusion that the most important ingredient in a good match is something that isn't identifiable online: chemistry. Something about body chemistry and pheromones is hugely important in finding a good match that can last, and it doesn't happen often. Sometimes all the ingredients can be right but the chemistry just isn't there, and sometimes I can feel an amazing sustainable chemistry with someone who may only be a 75% match. That said, shared interests and such are obviously a big plus too.

I am attracted to extroverts, and introverts who present as extroverts. Ideally, I would like to meet someone who has a passion to share: somebody who knows what they want and has the confidence to say so. Who embraces my enthusiasm for life, but also has their own enthusiasm to contribute. I also want to find somebody who likes to be affectionately snuggley at times. Affectionately snuggley is a euphemism for building pillow forts, drinking hot chocolate, and watching Hanna-Barbera cartoons. I have also been on a big Disney kick recently. Shut up. Disney is awesome.
What I’m doing with my life
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I am an artist working as a picture framer. I am weighing up the pros and cons of getting an MFA. I'm interested in set design and Interior design. I like creating spaces and working with colour and composition. I would also love to illustrate children's books.
I’m really good at
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Tearing half of the wrapper off of individually wrapped straws, and blowing the remaining paper in your face at every. given. opportunity.
The six things I could never do without
Think outside the box. Sometimes the little things can say a lot.
1. Good sipping rum
2. Cozy and tidy home
3. Sketchpad
4. To do list
5. Olive tapenade
6. Cartoons!
You should message me if
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First of all, if you have read through my profile properly and are interested in talking with me then please *do* message me, as opposed to "liking" my profile in the hope that I write first.

If you have a good heart and an evil smile.

You can be decisive about where we should go for dinner at least half of the time.

If you would like to learn how to cook dim sum and sushi with me. Or if you can teach me how to bake. I'm a good cook, but I cannot bake.

Or, if you feel like we have stuff in common and would just like to chat