I am originally from London, UK, and moved here a little over two years ago after spending some time living in Nashville. I am an introvert, in between INFJ/INFP, but I am very (overly) talkative when I am comfortable. I am non-spiritual, sex-positive, left leaning, with a social activist mindset. I'm an artist, and also a big nerd. I am particularly interested in space and astronomy. I would like to get out into the country a lot more to hike, fish, and stargaze. I do not own a car and I rarely have access to one. This may be an issue if you live outside the reach of public transport, and preferably the metro system.
After doing the poly dating thing for a while now, I have come to the conclusion that the most important ingredient in a good match is something that isn't identifiable online: chemistry. Something about body chemistry and pheromones is hugely important in finding a good match that can last, and it doesn't happen often. Sometimes all the ingredients can be right, but the chemistry just isn't there. That said, shared interests and such are obviously a big plus too.
Ideally, I would like to meet someone who has a passion to share: someone who knows what they want, and has the confidence to say so. I also want to find somebody who likes to be affectionately snuggley at times. Affectionately snuggley is a euphemism for building pillow forts, drinking hot chocolate, and watching 90's cartoons. I have also been on a big Disney kick recently. Shut up. Disney is awesome.