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25 M Alexandria, VA

My Details

Last Online
Today – 6:58pm
6′ 2″ (1.88m)
Body Type
Full figured
Mostly anything
Graduated from university
Art / Music / Writing
Relationship Status
Seeing Someone
Relationship Type
Strictly non-monogamous
Doesn’t have kids

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My self-summary
I am in a long term committed polyamorous relationship. If you are not familiar with the term, it basically means that we are both free to explore and maintain intimate and meaningful relationships with more than one partner. I am not interested in NSA casual sex (though I don't think there is anything wrong with it). Feel free to ask me questions, I am an open book and I won't take offense. I am on here primarily for casual dating and friendship, but if I meet the right person who is interested in ethical non-monogamy, then we might be a good match.

I am originally from London, UK, and moved here recently after spending a couple of years living in Nashville. I am an introvert, in between INFJ/INFP, but I am very (overly) talkative when I am comfortable. I am non-religious, sex-positive, and left-leaning on *most* issues, but I don't necessarily need the same in my partner. I'm an artist, and also a big nerd. I am particularly interested in space and astronomy. I typically prefer to be pretty active on my time off, and like to go exploring the city on my weekends. I would also like to get out into the country a lot more to hike, fish, and stargaze, but I do not own a car, and I rarely have access to one. This may be an issue if you live outside the reach of public transport, and preferably the metro system.

I want to meet someone with a lot of motivation to get out and try new things. Someone who has a passion to share; someone who knows what they want, and has the confidence to say so. Someone who enjoys late nights, coctails, and intellectual debates about complex issues (and will not get angry and start shouting if I play devils advocate on said issues). I tend to get on better with extroverted women. I also want to find somebody who likes to be affectionately snuggley at times. Affectionately snuggley is a euphemism for building pillow forts, drinking chocolate milk, and watching Wes Anderson movies. Recently I have also been on a big Disney kick. Shut up. Disney is awesome.

I am also really curious about getting more involved in the burlesque/variety act, and burner scenes in DC, so definitely get in touch if you are involved in either.
What I’m doing with my life
I am now painting full time in my studio while I update my portfolio for MFA applications, and also looking for part time work in the area.

My biggest aspirations in life involve personal development and expression. My goal is, one day, to make a living through painting, illustrating, and writing. Beyond that I'm just enjoying myself and trying to make the nice things add up.
The first things people usually notice about me
Eyes and accent. I actually hate the sound of my own voice, but apparently it's a big talking point.
The most private thing I’m willing to admit
I am into kink. For me, my interest in kink means that I think sex can be a gift to be shared with people in order to come closer together, and there is nothing wrong or immoral with exploring and enjoying that in a comfortable and consensual environment. If you are so inclined, here is a link to my fetlife page.
I’m looking for
  • Girls who like guys
  • Ages 23–50
  • Near me
  • For new friends, long-term dating, short-term dating
You should message me if
If you are poly, or at least open to ethical non monogamy.

If you have an adorable personality.

If you are a classical musician. Or a scientist.

If you are into burlesque, variety acts, or the burner scene.

If you share similar interests and would like to discuss books or music etc.