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I’m looking for

  • Everyone
  • Ages 26–45
  • Near me
  • For long-term dating, short-term dating, casual sex

My details

Last online
Jul 3
6′ 2″ (1.88m)
Body Type
Full figured
Mostly anything
Graduated from university
Art / Music / Writing
Open relationship
Strictly non-monogamous
Doesn’t have kids
My self-summary
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I am in a long term committed polyamorous relationship. If you are not familiar with the term, it basically means that I am free to explore and maintain intimate and meaningful relationships with more than one person in an ethical and consensual manner. I am not particularly interested in NSA casual sex (though I don't think there is anything wrong with it). Feel free to ask me questions.

I am originally from London, UK, and moved here a little over two years ago after spending some time living in Nashville. I am an introvert, in between INFJ/INFP, but I am very (overly) talkative when I am comfortable. I am non-spiritual, sex-positive, left leaning, and feminist. I'm an artist, and also a big nerd. I am particularly interested in space and astronomy. I would like to get out into the country a lot more to hike, fish, and stargaze, as the weather improves. I do not own a car and I rarely have access to one. This may be an issue if you live outside the reach of public transport, and preferably the metro system.

After doing the poly dating thing for a while now, I have come to the conclusion that the most important ingredient in a good match is something that isn't identifiable online: chemistry. Something about body chemistry and pheromones is hugely important in finding a good match that can last. Sometimes all the ingredients can be right, but the chemistry just isn't there. That said, shared interests and such are obviously a big plus too.

Ideally, I would like to meet someone who has a passion to share; someone who knows what they want, and has the confidence to say so. Someone who enjoys late nights, cocktails, and intellectual debates about complex issues. I also want to find somebody who likes to be affectionately snuggley at times. Affectionately snuggley is a euphemism for building pillow forts, drinking hot chocolate, and watching 90's cartoons. I have also been on a big Disney kick recently. Shut up. Disney is awesome.

I have recently started to get into the burlesque/variety, and burner scenes, and I love both. So definitely get in touch if you are involved in either.
What I’m doing with my life
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I am working as a picture framer in Tenley Town, while I update my portfolio for MFA applications.

My biggest aspirations in life involve personal development and expression. My goal is, one day, to make a living through painting, illustrating, and writing. Beyond that I'm just enjoying myself and trying to make the nice things add up.
I’m really good at
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Tearing half of the wrapper off of individually wrapped straws, and blowing the remaining paper in your face at every opportunity.
The most private thing I’m willing to admit
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I guess that this is the most obvious place to explain that I am into kink. My interpretation of kink is the recreational exploration of sex. I think that sex can be a gift we share with one another in order to build bonds and come closer together, and there is nothing wrong or immoral with enjoying that within a comfortable and actively consensual environment. I identify as a domestic/service sub, and am only interested in meeting a dominant partner.

If you are so inclined, here is a link to my fetlife page.

and here is a link to an essay I wrote about my identity as a male submissive.
You should message me if
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If you are poly, or at least open to ethical non monogamy.

If you are dominant.

If you have a good heart and an evil smile.

If you are a classical musician. Or a scientist.

If you are into burlesque, variety acts, or the burner scene.

If you would like to learn how to cook dim sum and sushi with me.

Or, if you feel like we have stuff in common and would just like to chat :)