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27 Brooklyn, NY Genderqueer


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I’m looking for

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  • Ages 18-99
  • Near me
  • For new friends, long-term dating, short-term dating, casual sex

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Bisexual, Pansexual, Queer, Gay
5' 9" (1.75m)
Atheism and laughing about it
English (Fluently), Italian (Somewhat), French (Somewhat), Spanish (Somewhat)
My self-summary
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My dream job would be designing dangerous playgrounds or writing fortunes for fortune cookies or concocting Sailor Moon yōma.

I have a somewhat dark demeanor, but I'm mostly just incredibly silly.
What I’m doing with my life
Don’t overthink this one; tell us what you’re doing day-to-day.
Trying to finally beat the "Countries of the World" quiz on Sporcle.
Also, IRL.
I’m really good at
Go on, brag a little (or a lot). We won’t judge.
and deconstructing shit
The first things people usually notice about me
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my neck, my back
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
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One Hundred Years of Solitude, Orlando, Pilgrim at Tinker Creek, Beloved, Mrs Dalloway, The Willowdale Handcar, The Words of Selves, Codex Seraphinianus, Maqroll novellas, Drinking Coffee Elsewhere, bestiaries, and I'll always have a special place for the d'Aulaires' mythology books

Synecdoche New York, Spirited Away, Ghost World, Mulholland Drive, Amélie, movies in which groups of ladies conspire against men, e.g. 9 to 5 or The First Wives Club

Daria, Summer Heights High, Lizzie and Sarah, Look Around You, old school Simpsons

Björk, Grimes, Azealia Banks, Antony and the Johnsons, Kate Bush, Janelle Monáe, MIA, Madonna, "Vamos a la Playa", also just a lot of insipid and vulgar things

cumin, doro wat, grape leaves, gingerbread, tacos, plantains, yogurt/kefir, baba ghanoush, guacamole/guasacaca, raspberries, oatmeal cookies -- yes, WITH raisins
The six things I could never do without
Think outside the box. Sometimes the little things can say a lot.
1. Christmas lights
2. beaches
3. karaoke (room-style, not bar-style)
4. wordplay
5. dumb websites like and
6. hygge
I spend a lot of time thinking about
Global warming, lunch, or your next vacation… it’s all fair game.
art I'd like to live in. Something by Patrick Dougherty or Yayoi Kusama or Giorgio de Chirico or Pedro Friedeberg or Gustav Klimt.
On a typical Friday night I am
Netflix and takeout, or getting your party on — how do you let loose?
wondering where I can buy a cheap mannequin.
Do you know?
The most private thing I’m willing to admit
I’m an empty essay… fill me out!
You should message me if
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your words are as pretty as your face.

you enjoy affection, both public and private.