Write a little about yourself. Just a paragraph will do.
I'm Amanda, a free spirited, kinky, polyamorous, pansexual. I love
music, nature, camping, and honesty. I'm simple and complicated,
still a work in progress.
I would change my username to something more fitting for who I am
now, but that would apparently take money and I'm not that worried
I'm kind, thoughtful, and give good hugs upon consent:) I love to
cuddle, talk for hours, and play board games. I have been known to
play RPG, but I'm working on getting more into characters. Bowling,
karaoke, dancing, bonfires, hiking and finding trees I can climb
into are some of my favorite things to do.
What I'm looking for is connection, personalities who make me feel
inspired, who are warm and honest and not just looking for casual
flings. If we get to more than just friendship I want someone who
will look at the possibilities with me and not just fall into what
most of society thinks romantic/sexual type relationships 'should
Don't contact me for a casual encounter. It is rather hard to hold
my attention long enough to get into my pants. I have a full life
with a few amazing partners already. You are going to have to stand
out and BE interesting for me to be interested. For me this
includes liking to write WHOLE messages not just sentences and
being open minded in the topics of gender, sexuality, feminism and
I'm a turn the radio up all the way and sing your heart out kind of
girl. I love music. The only genre I can say I DISLIKE is polka. I
have a song for every mood and feeling.
I like to be the center of attention sometimes, other times I want
to be the wallflower. It usually depends on how smart I'm feeling
in the room. If I perceive that most of the people in the room are
more educated than me I'm more prone to shyness. It's a problem I'm
working on, because I like to be around intelligent people. I
continue my curious exploration of life. I try to learn something
new everyday. Have something to teach me? Let's talk:) Forgive my
sometimes awkwardness, I get better with time.
I like to get dirty in more ways than one. I'm the girl who sets up
camp and doesn't cry about broken nails and dirt. Bugs? Come on
they are bugs...not giant man eating bugs. Give me a break. I enjoy
hard work and lazy days equally. I will be the first to volunteer
if there is physical labor needed for friends and family alike. I
like to feel useful and help people in binds.
I fall in love everyday. I've learned not to loose myself in the
process. I found the word love to be lacking for the myriad of
variations it can take form in, family, friends, lovers, and
I both love and hate labels. I think we need them to help describe
all the complicated things we can be. But I think that clinging to
tightly can be really detrimental to personal growth.
I'm not attracted to genitals I'm attracted to personalities no
matter where they fall on the gender spectrum. I know I don't want
Barbie or G.I Joe. The extremes seem to annoy me. But other than
that I don't have a 'type'. I find intelligence and personality
sexy. I don't seek the same traits in all of my lovers, I seek
diversity and experience.
What I’m doing with my life
Don’t overthink this one; tell us what you’re doing day-to-day.
Enjoying each breath. Loving. Trying to make my schedule fit my
desire to meet the world.
I work and play hard and make room for joy.
Trying to not feel as if I'm stuck in my current career path. (ugh
I'm a occasional activist in the LBGTQ community. Heavy on the
'occasional' I feel inspired to speak up, but I sometimes don't
feel as empowered to speak up.
I'm working on this, because I think activism is an important part
of my continued happiness and purpose. I want to make this a better
place for everyone.
I’m really good at
Go on, brag a little (or a lot). We won’t judge.
Listening, Sharing, talking honestly, being silly, forgetting
Starting things and not finishing them. Writing lists and short
unfinished stories. Cooking, I like to whip up tasty things. Just
don't expect me to bake. It is an art I have not mastered.
The first things people usually notice about me
I’m an empty essay… fill me out!
My laugh or my unique smile, I had a rather rude individual tell me
to "fix my grill" and I'd like to respond since I was at work and
had to hold my tounge so here it goes... "Fuck you buddy, I was
born with the gap I'll die with the gap, and the stains are from
nerve damage suffered in a fall, you give me the cash and I'll
white cap them but hell it dosen't bother me! Flaws are human I
accept that you are obviously an asshole! Now get the hell outta my
store!" (lol glad I got that off my chest)
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
Help your potential matches find common interests.
I'm going to forget something here, or it will change in the time
this profile is up. The best I can do is offer a listing of just a
few things I currently have love for.
Books: "The Ethical slut", "Say Please: Lesbian BDSM Erotica" Well
just about anything filled with consent and BDSM. (Please, NOT 50
"Peace in every Step:The Path to mindfulness in everyday
Favorite fiction authors: Dean Koontz, Anne Rice, Robert
Movies: I love documentaries, especially science, nature,
spirituality and gender/LGBTQ issues. I love animated movies one of
my favorites is finding nemo:)
Can't really watch the uber violent movies or shows, it kind of
actually makes me physically ill to watch that. So don't invite me
over for slasher movie night thanks! :)
WELL UNLESS it's a ZOMBIE movie than I'm down, and we can talk
about our preparedness for the coming zombie apocalypse.
Music: I'm a music lover, I have been listening to a lot of blues
guitar and country but I love it all pop, rock, classic rock,
tecno, swing. Some of my all time favorites are Jimmy Hendrix,
Stevie Ray Vaungh, Led Zepplin, Janis Joplin, Halestorm, Disturbed,
Sara Bareilles and Joss Stone.
Food: I love asian food, and I hate all seafood.
The six things I could never do without
Think outside the box. Sometimes the little things can say a lot.
Water, Love, Trees, my ability to imagine, connections and my
I spend a lot of time thinking about
Global warming, lunch, or your next vacation… it’s all fair game.
How vast this universe is and how small and tiny our planet is in
it and how rare and precious life is.
Polyamory what it means to me and the honesty it takes.
Spirituality, and why ANY human insists that they KNOW what "god"
is. If you think you 'know' everything and can judge other people
because if it, you are on the wrong path. I don't disagree with
personal belief. I just don't agree that one personal belief is the
right one everyone should follow. Spirituality is a very personal
journey, and one that not everyone chooses to go on. Respect
Kink, and different roles within it. I identify as a Switch and
sometimes my two sides don't totally agree with each other.
On a typical Friday night I am
Netflix and takeout, or getting your party on — how do you let loose?
Sleeping for work the next morning, Sometimes I'll make exceptions
and go out on Friday if someone cute invites me out:) but Saturday
night I bust out the fun, hanging out with friends either playing
silly board games, or and dancing and possible singing. I love to
The most private thing I’m willing to admit
I’m an empty essay… fill me out!
I bite as a form of affection because it's like kissing but there
is a winner;) But don't worry, I only bite the willing!
You should message me if
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*You have questions about the lables I (currently) use, and what
they mean to me.
*You found something I said interesting and you might want to hang
*You like to hike and get out and get in touch with people and
*You aren't afraid of whole sentences, and can write in them.
*If you value human connection, and don't treat people like
objects. (Well, unless they ask....)
*You are a kinky Dominant type who dosen't take themselves too
seriously and is a decent human being who just happends to have a
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