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32 Cleveland, OH Cis Woman

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I’m looking for

  • Everyone
  • Ages 26-49
  • Near me
  • For new friends, long-term dating, short-term dating

My details

Last online
Yesterday – 11:42am
Pansexual, Queer
Open relationship
Relationship Type
Strictly non-monogamous
5' 6" (1.68m)
Body Type
Other and laughing about it
High school
Doesn’t have kids and doesn’t want them
Has cats
My self-summary
Write a little about yourself. Just a paragraph will do.
I'm Amanda, a free spirited, kinky, polyamorous lover of life. I love music, nature, camping, and honesty. I'm not really fancy, I just like to think for myself.
I would change my screen name here if I could without paying for A list. I've grown out of using "crazy" anywhere in my screen names. I go by Imperfectdreamer in other spaces.

I love to cuddle. I like board games and I play RPG games, but I'm working on getting more into characters. Bowling, karaoke, dancing, bonfires, hiking and finding trees I can climb into are some of my favorite things to do.

What I'm looking for is connection and personalities who make me feel inspired, who are warm and honest and not just looking for casual mean nothing flings.
If we get to more than just friendship I want someone who will look at the possibilities with me and not just fall into what most of society thinks romantic/sexual type relationships 'should be'

I am married to and live with Playfulpoly here on OKC. We've been together and through a lot in 14 years. I also have a regular play partner I see biweekly who means a lot to me, but with whom I don't have a super close emotional relationship with.
I would like to explore a more emotional space with someone, but I think I find it hard to open up in some ways and fear asking 'too much' of new partners.

I like to be the center of attention sometimes, other times I want to be the wallflower. It usually depends on how smart I'm feeling in the room. If I perceive that most of the people in the room are more educated than me I'm more prone to shyness. It's a problem I'm working on, because I like to be around intelligent people. I continue my curious exploration of life. I try to learn something new everyday. Have something to teach me? Let's talk:)

I'm not attracted to genitals I'm attracted to personalities no matter where they fall on the gender spectrum. I know I usually don't go for Barbie or G.I Joe types but other than that I don't have a 'type'. I find intelligence and personality sexy. I don't seek the same traits in all of my lovers, I seek diversity and experience.
What I’m doing with my life
Don’t overthink this one; tell us what you’re doing day-to-day.
Enjoying each breath. Loving. Trying to make my schedule fit my desire to meet the world.

I work and play hard and make room for joy

I'm a occasional activist in the LBGTQ community. Heavy on the 'occasional' I feel inspired to speak up, but I sometimes don't feel as empowered to speak up.
I'm working on this, because I think activism is an important part of my continued happiness and purpose. I want to make this a better place for everyone.
I’m really good at
Go on, brag a little (or a lot). We won’t judge.
Hugs! Listening, Sharing, talking honestly, being silly, forgetting things.
Starting things and not finishing them. Writing lists and short unfinished stories, being in awe of nature.
Cooking, I like to whip up tasty things. Just don't expect me to bake. It is an art I have not mastered. Update: I have successfully baked a loaf of banana bread from scratch! *high fives*
The first things people usually notice about me
I’m an empty essay… fill me out!
My laugh or my unique smile.
I had a rather rude individual tell me to "fix my grill" and I'd like to respond since I was at work and had to hold my tongue so here it goes... "Fuck you buddy, I was born with the gap I'll die with the gap, and the stains are from nerve damage suffered in a fall. Flaws are human I will try to accept yours you rude asshole but you need to get the hell outta my store!" ( glad I got that off my chest:)
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
Help your potential matches find common interests.
I'm going to forget something here, or it will change in the time this profile is up. The best I can do is offer a listing of just a few things I currently have love for.
Books: "The Ethical slut", "Say Please: Lesbian BDSM Erotica" Well just about anything filled with consent and BDSM. (Please, NOT 50 Shades)
"Peace in every Step:The Path to mindfulness in everyday life"

Just about anything Laurell K Hamliton writes.

Movies: I love documentaries, especially science, nature, spirituality and gender/LGBTQ issues. I love animated movies one of my favorites is finding nemo:)
Can't really watch the uber violent movies or shows, it kind of actually makes me physically ill to watch that. So don't invite me over for slasher movie night thanks! :)
WELL UNLESS it's a ZOMBIE movie than I'm down, and we can talk about our preparedness for the coming zombie apocalypse.

Music: I'm a music lover, I have been listening to a lot of blues guitar and country but I love it all pop, rock, classic rock, tecno, swing. Some of my all time favorites are Jimmy Hendrix, Stevie Ray Vaungh, Led Zepplin, Janis Joplin, Halestorm, Disturbed, Sara Bareilles, Hozier and Joss Stone.

Food: I love asian food, and I hate all seafood.
The six things I could never do without
Think outside the box. Sometimes the little things can say a lot.
Water, Love, Trees, my ability to imagine, connections and my freedom
I spend a lot of time thinking about
Global warming, lunch, or your next vacation… it’s all fair game.
How vast this universe is and how small and tiny our planet is in it and how rare and precious life is.

Polyamory what it means to me and the honesty it takes.

Spirituality, and why ANY human insists that they KNOW what "god" is. If you think you 'know' everything and can judge other people because if it, you are on the wrong path. I don't disagree with personal belief. I just don't agree that one personal belief is the right one everyone should follow. Spirituality is a very personal journey, and one that not everyone chooses to go on. Respect that.

Kink, and different roles within it. I identify as a Switch and sometimes my two sides don't totally agree with each other.
On a typical Friday night I am
Netflix and takeout, or getting your party on — how do you let loose?
Sleeping for work the next morning, Sometimes I'll make exceptions and go out on Friday if someone cute invites me out:) but Saturday night I bust out the fun, hanging out with friends either playing silly board games, or and dancing and possible singing. I love to karaoke!
The most private thing I’m willing to admit
I’m an empty essay… fill me out!
I bite as a form of affection because it's like kissing but there is a winner;) But don't worry, I only bite the willing!
You should message me if
Offer a few tips to help matches win you over.
*You found something I said interesting and you might want to hang out.
*You like to hike and get out and get in touch with people and nature.
*You aren't afraid of whole sentences, and can write in them.
*If you value human connection, and don't treat people like objects. (Well, unless they ask....)
*You are a kinky Dominant type who dosen't take themselves too seriously and is a decent human being who just happends to have a sadistic side;)