I would change my username to something more fitting for who I am now, but that would apparently take money and I'm not that worried about it.
I'm kind, thoughtful, and give good hugs upon consent:) I love to cuddle, talk for hours, and play board games. I have been known to play RPG, but I'm working on getting more into characters. Bowling, karaoke, dancing, bonfires, hiking and finding trees I can climb into are some of my favorite things to do.
What I'm looking for is connection, personalities who make me feel inspired, who are warm and honest and not just looking for casual flings. If we get to more than just friendship I want someone who will look at the possibilities with me and not just fall into what most of society thinks romantic/sexual type relationships 'should be'
Don't contact me for a casual encounter. It is rather hard to hold my attention long enough to get into my pants. I have a full life with a few amazing partners already. You are going to have to stand out and BE interesting for me to be interested. For me this includes liking to write WHOLE messages not just sentences and being open minded in the topics of gender, sexuality, feminism and social justice.
I'm a turn the radio up all the way and sing your heart out kind of girl. I love music. The only genre I can say I DISLIKE is polka. I have a song for every mood and feeling.
I like to be the center of attention sometimes, other times I want to be the wallflower. It usually depends on how smart I'm feeling in the room. If I perceive that most of the people in the room are more educated than me I'm more prone to shyness. It's a problem I'm working on, because I like to be around intelligent people. I continue my curious exploration of life. I try to learn something new everyday. Have something to teach me? Let's talk:) Forgive my sometimes awkwardness, I get better with time.
I like to get dirty in more ways than one. I'm the girl who sets up camp and doesn't cry about broken nails and dirt. Bugs? Come on they are bugs...not giant man eating bugs. Give me a break. I enjoy hard work and lazy days equally. I will be the first to volunteer if there is physical labor needed for friends and family alike. I like to feel useful and help people in binds.
I fall in love everyday. I've learned not to loose myself in the process. I found the word love to be lacking for the myriad of variations it can take form in, family, friends, lovers, and community.
I both love and hate labels. I think we need them to help describe all the complicated things we can be. But I think that clinging to tightly can be really detrimental to personal growth. I'm not attracted to genitals I'm attracted to personalities no matter where they fall on the gender spectrum. I know I don't want Barbie or G.I Joe. The extremes seem to annoy me. But other than that I don't have a 'type'. I find intelligence and personality sexy. I don't seek the same traits in all of my lovers, I seek diversity and experience.