I'm kind, thoughtful, and give good hugs upon consent:) I love to cuddle, talk for hours, play board games, the occasional RPG. Bowling, karaoke, dancing, bonfires.
I want human connections of all kinds! Friends, play partners, lovers, and camping buddies. I'm not looking for another everyday commitment type of relationship, but I am looking for someone I can grow close with. If that happens to turn into something more down the road I'm open to living in a big poly household:) I currently live with my Husband and his girlfriend who I adore too.
I am complicated. I can't always neatly label myself and I like it that way. I feel I'm different with different people and situations.
Sometimes I'm shy, sometimes confident, sometimes loud and obnoxious.
I'm turn the radio up all the way and sing your heart out girl. I love music. The only genre I can say I DISLIKE is polka. Want to relate to me? Share your favorite music with me, tell me why you love it. I have a song for every mood and feeling. If I know you I more than likely have a song I associate with you or how I feel about you.
I like to be the center of attention sometimes, other times I want to be the wallflower. It usually depends on how smart I'm feeling in the room. If I perceive that most of the people in the room are more educated than me I'm more prone to shyness. It's a problem I'm working on, because I like to be around intelligent people. I continue my curious exploration of life. I try to learn something new everyday. Have something to teach me? Let's talk:)
I like to get dirty in more ways than one. I'm the girl who sets up camp and doesn't cry about broken nails and dirt. Bugs? Come on they are bugs...not giant man eating bugs. Give me a break. I enjoy hard work and lazy days equally. I will be the first to volunteer if there is physical labor needed for friends and family alike. I like to feel useful and help people in binds.
I fall in love everyday. I've learned not to loose myself in the process. I found the word love to be lacking for the myriad of variations it can take form in. I love my family, I love my friends, I love my husband, I love his girlfriend, I love my play partner, I love his family, my pets, random strangers who share a smile with me. I love them all in different ways and for different reasons.
I both love and hate labels. I think we need them to help describe all the complicated things we can be. But I think that clinging to tightly can be really detrimental to personal growth. I'm not attracted to genitals I'm attracted to personalities no matter where they fall on the gender spectrum. I do find myself most attracted to those in the middle, I don't want Barbie or G.I Joe. The extremes seem to annoy me. I don't have a 'type'. I find intelligence and personality sexy. I don't seek the same traits in all of my lovers, I seek diversity and experience.