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31 Cleveland, OH Cis Woman

Cis Woman

I’m looking for

  • Everyone
  • Ages 26–49
  • Near me
  • For new friends, long-term dating, short-term dating

My Details

Last Online
Yesterday – 10:51am
Pansexual, Queer
5′ 6″ (1.68m)
Body Type
Mostly anything
Other, and laughing about it
Aries, and it’s fun to think about
Graduated from high school
Relationship Status
Open relationship
Relationship Type
Strictly non-monogamous
Doesn’t have kids, and doesn’t want any
Has dogs and has cats

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My self-summary
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I'm Amanda, a free spirited, kinky, polyamorous, pansexual. I love music, nature, camping, and honesty. I'm simple and complicated, still a work in progress.
I would change my username to something more fitting for who I am now, but that would apparently take money and I'm not that worried about it.

I'm kind, thoughtful, and give good hugs upon consent:) I love to cuddle, talk for hours, and play board games. I have been known to play RPG, but I'm working on getting more into characters. Bowling, karaoke, dancing, bonfires, hiking and finding trees I can climb into are some of my favorite things to do.

What I'm looking for is connection, personalities who make me feel inspired, who are warm and honest and not just looking for casual flings. If we get to more than just friendship I want someone who will look at the possibilities with me and not just fall into what most of society thinks romantic/sexual type relationships 'should be'
Don't contact me for a casual encounter. It is rather hard to hold my attention long enough to get into my pants. I have a full life with a few amazing partners already. You are going to have to stand out and BE interesting for me to be interested. For me this includes liking to write WHOLE messages not just sentences and being open minded in the topics of gender, sexuality, feminism and social justice.

I'm a turn the radio up all the way and sing your heart out kind of girl. I love music. The only genre I can say I DISLIKE is polka. I have a song for every mood and feeling.

I like to be the center of attention sometimes, other times I want to be the wallflower. It usually depends on how smart I'm feeling in the room. If I perceive that most of the people in the room are more educated than me I'm more prone to shyness. It's a problem I'm working on, because I like to be around intelligent people. I continue my curious exploration of life. I try to learn something new everyday. Have something to teach me? Let's talk:) Forgive my sometimes awkwardness, I get better with time.

I like to get dirty in more ways than one. I'm the girl who sets up camp and doesn't cry about broken nails and dirt. Bugs? Come on they are bugs...not giant man eating bugs. Give me a break. I enjoy hard work and lazy days equally. I will be the first to volunteer if there is physical labor needed for friends and family alike. I like to feel useful and help people in binds.

I fall in love everyday. I've learned not to loose myself in the process. I found the word love to be lacking for the myriad of variations it can take form in, family, friends, lovers, and community.

I both love and hate labels. I think we need them to help describe all the complicated things we can be. But I think that clinging to tightly can be really detrimental to personal growth. I'm not attracted to genitals I'm attracted to personalities no matter where they fall on the gender spectrum. I know I don't want Barbie or G.I Joe. The extremes seem to annoy me. But other than that I don't have a 'type'. I find intelligence and personality sexy. I don't seek the same traits in all of my lovers, I seek diversity and experience.
What I’m doing with my life
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Enjoying each breath. Loving. Trying to make my schedule fit my desire to meet the world.

I work and play hard and make room for joy.

Trying to not feel as if I'm stuck in my current career path. (ugh retail)

Finding the inspiration to believe in myself, and dreaming about having the means and time to go back to school. I really wish learning was a paid job!

I'm a occasional activist in the LBGTQ community. Heavy on the 'occasional' I feel inspired to speak up, but I sometimes don't feel as empowered to speak up.
I'm working on this, because I think activism is an important part of my continued happiness and purpose. I want to make this a better place for everyone.
I’m really good at
Go on, brag a little (or a lot). We won’t judge.
Listening, Sharing, talking honestly, being silly, forgetting things.
Starting things and not finishing them. Writing lists and short unfinished stories. Cooking, I like to whip up tasty things. Just don't expect me to bake. It is an art I have not mastered.
The first things people usually notice about me
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My laugh or my unique smile, I had a rather rude individual tell me to "fix my grill" and I'd like to respond since I was at work and had to hold my tounge so here it goes... "Fuck you buddy, I was born with the gap I'll die with the gap, and the stains are from nerve damage suffered in a fall, you give me the cash and I'll white cap them but hell it dosen't bother me! Flaws are human I accept that you are obviously an asshole! Now get the hell outta my store!" (lol glad I got that off my chest)
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
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I'm going to forget something here, or it will change in the time this profile is up. The best I can do is offer a listing of just a few things I currently have love for.
Books: "The Ethical slut", "Say Please: Lesbian BDSM Erotica" Well just about anything filled with consent and BDSM. (Please, NOT 50 Shades)
"Peace in every Step:The Path to mindfulness in everyday life"
Favorite fiction authors: Dean Koontz, Anne Rice, Robert McCammon.

Movies: I love documentaries, especially science, nature, spirituality and gender/LGBTQ issues. I love animated movies one of my favorites is finding nemo:)
Can't really watch the uber violent movies or shows, it kind of actually makes me physically ill to watch that. So don't invite me over for slasher movie night thanks! :)
WELL UNLESS it's a ZOMBIE movie than I'm down, and we can talk about our preparedness for the coming zombie apocalypse.

Music: I'm a music lover, I have been listening to a lot of blues guitar and country but I love it all pop, rock, classic rock, tecno, musica urbana, swing. Some of my all time favorites are Jimmy Hendrix, Stevie Ray Vaungh, Led Zepplin, Janis Joplin, Halestorm, Disturbed, Sara Bareilles and Joss Stone.

Food: I love asian food, and I hate all seafood.
The six things I could never do without
Think outside the box. Sometimes the little things can say a lot.
Water, Love, Trees, my ability to imagine, connections and my freedom
I spend a lot of time thinking about
Global warming, lunch, or your next vacation… it’s all fair game.
How vast this universe is and how small and tiny our planet is in it and how rare and precious life is.

Polyamory what it means to me and the honesty it takes.

Spirituality, and why ANY human insists that they KNOW what "god" is. If you think you 'know' everything and can judge other people because if it, you are on the wrong path. I don't disagree with personal belief. I just don't agree that one personal belief is the right one everyone should follow. Spirituality is a very personal journey, and one that not everyone chooses to go on. Respect that.

Kink, and different roles within it. I identify as a Switch and sometimes my two sides don't totally agree with each other.
On a typical Friday night I am
Netflix and takeout, or getting your party on — how do you let loose?
Sleeping for work the next morning, Sometimes I'll make exceptions and go out on Friday if someone cute invites me out:) but Saturday night I bust out the fun, hanging out with friends either playing silly board games, or and dancing and possible singing. I love to karaoke!
The most private thing I’m willing to admit
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I bite as a form of affection because it's like kissing but there is a winner;) But don't worry, I only bite the willing!
You should message me if
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*You have questions about the lables I (currently) use, and what they mean to me.
*You found something I said interesting and you might want to hang out.
*You like to hike and get out and get in touch with people and nature.
*You aren't afraid of whole sentences, and can write in them.
*If you value human connection, and don't treat people like objects. (Well, unless they ask....)
*You are a kinky Dominant type who dosen't take themselves too seriously and is a decent human being who just happends to have a sadistic side;)

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